So today is my 10th wedding anniversary, and zi'm worried. My wife has been more and more distant from me. We are expecting another child, but prior to her getting pregnant we'd had had sex for over 5 months. We planned to have this one, our second. She has been having a lot of health issues over the years (plus epilepsy) and she mostly is frigid toward me. I realize that a lot of this is her medicine causing this, but it still hurts. I posted on fb today to wish her a happy anniversary and she never even liked it. Everything i've tried to get some kind of fun she shoots down or tries to shorten it. Basically I get nothing. My only release has been porn when she and my son are sleep. It's not helping much more. I try to talk to her, but she walls up or yells at me to leave her alone. I love her and don't intend to cheat but I'm also tired of being the lonely one. To make matters worse she is always jealous now of all of me friends. To the point that we rarely spend time with them either.
I don't think there are answers to my issues, but sometimes you have to write down what you feel.
I don't think there are answers to my issues, but sometimes you have to write down what you feel.