GingerLilly
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Good morning all. A little background- My SO of 16 years is 3 weeks into his first rehab for opioids. He has been taking them for almost a decade due to a work injury and multiple surgeries. Our sex life had become almost non existent in the last few years. He just didn't seem to want it. Over the last 6 months or so he stopped being able to ejaculate and was having trouble getting and staying hard. It got so problematic that he even went to the doctor to see if something was wrong with him. I thought that he just wasn't that in to me anymore which he swore it was the exact opposite of how he feels. Of course we know now that a big component was the amount of meds he was taking. Prior to this time period we had an amazing sex life.
I miss that passion that we had. I think about him all the time and am hoping that going through this rehab and staying off the opioids will help in that department. I guess what I am asking is what should I expect when he comes out of the rehab? It will be over 30 days since he has had an opioid but he is on subs. They are weaning him down and his goal is to be off them before he leaves rehab but there might be a chance that he will have to stay on a low dose. Is there any hope for our sex life? Should I try anything with him when he gets out or let him be the one to initiate? I will admit that because of the problems over the last few years my self esteem has taken a huge hit. I don't want to try anything too soon and be disappointed again but I also feel desperate for that intimacy. I think about it all the time. Any advice is appreciated.
I miss that passion that we had. I think about him all the time and am hoping that going through this rehab and staying off the opioids will help in that department. I guess what I am asking is what should I expect when he comes out of the rehab? It will be over 30 days since he has had an opioid but he is on subs. They are weaning him down and his goal is to be off them before he leaves rehab but there might be a chance that he will have to stay on a low dose. Is there any hope for our sex life? Should I try anything with him when he gets out or let him be the one to initiate? I will admit that because of the problems over the last few years my self esteem has taken a huge hit. I don't want to try anything too soon and be disappointed again but I also feel desperate for that intimacy. I think about it all the time. Any advice is appreciated.