I am male and just a bit over 30 and no I am not going to say the exact number, mainly because I would like to enjoy a certain degree of anonymity.
I prefer women to shave their pubic hair. I shave mine. I live in an area with a very warm climate so it is something basically everyone does. As long as things are trim it doesn't really matter but I am not going to eat some fur, but then again I do not give oral sex unless I have been in a serious relationship for a long time and do not expect oral but appreciate it.
I have had sex with a woman who hasn't showered in several days mainly because we were on vacation and driving and just really busy but I made the mistake of asking a woman to sit on my face after spending almost an entire day in a car and I won't make the mistake again so if I am gonna put my face into the pussy I kinda want it to not smell like sweat, pussy juice, and ass to that degree.
I have noticed thongs play a factor with femine hygiene and I dated this one chick who wore them daily along with tight jeans, even her sweat pants were tight. She was very attractive, but I found out later she was hiding she had a yeast infection at one point and I was disgusted that she did not tell me. I got lucky that I was washing up after sex.
I do not get why she would sleep in such tight clothing while wearing a thong, She just thought she was genetically superior and therefore basic logic was not something she would apply as that is what she told me numerous times. Needless to say, I broke up with her and when she asked why I simply showed her the rx crotch rot cream she was hiding that she was using and tossed it to her and said "cuz you nasty and you know it and that is fucked up you got a yeast infection and didn't tell me. Also, you are superficial, naive, and ignorant. "
I really liked her and gave her a chance to take better care of herself before I knew she was having problems even because I have been around the block enough to know what happens when women wear thong too often. So if she doesn't even care about herself that much how could she possibly care about anyone else, she obviously didn't care to begin with because she knowingly had something I could have gotten and chose to keep her yeast infections and UTI's and held herself to an unrealistic standard as she felt like any underwear was not a thong to be a fashion crime and I really didn't need someone that superficial because she cared more about having sexy underwear on 24/7/365 than her boyfriend or her health and his health.
I dated a woman who wore thongs basically every day and she took them off at night of when she was just chilling hanging out with me so she gave herself enough room to breath so to speak. I don't really care for thongs and think it is stupid to wear that type of thing all the time knowing what it can do to your genitals as the string that is between the ass is going to take that ass to the cha cha, so I dunno if it is pop culture or what as to why women do that. I don't care about the underwear, just what is underneath it.
I am a rather clean person and I am not going to sleep with a woman who does not take care of her body at least as much as I do, if she wants to strive for better hygiene that is fine but mine is good and I haven't had any complaints about my hygeine.
Once again due to the climate here, it is very warm to scorching hot in this area so women ask just about every guy to give his balls a wash before sex but that is usually when the woman plans on giving oral.
I started shaving my pubic hair for comfort reasons and kept at it to make hygiene easier.
Anyways, I hold the women I sleep with to the same hygiene standards as myself. I do not typically find pubic hair sexy, but I do not mind a well groomed lawn so to speak, a huge bush is a bit of a turn off and I do keep spare razors in my bathroom as well as clippers that have been sanitized and if she doesn't want to tidy up that is fine, we don't have to have sex.
I don't want anyone to do anything they do not want to do and I don't do anything I do not want to do. Chances are if your partner is not on the same page there, you might just not be compatible and that is fine.