pokepoke420
Bluelighter
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- Jun 11, 2012
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Things between my girlfriend and I have recently become more serious, but throughout my life I have witnessed certain scenarios that made me feel that a pre-nup is the best route. You can know and love someone today, but how can we really determine who they'll be in 10 years? I told her if we were to get married I would need her to sign a pre-nup - I have been successful in my life and I have assets that I would love to share, but not be taken from me one day if things ended up changing.
On that same note, I must mention how much of a kind sweet caring woman she is, and when I brought it up she flipped out on me saying that she can't believes that I think that way and to leave my past in the past all while saying she would never sign one. She isn't a vindictive type woman and I know her extremely well, but I was in an 8 year relationship prior to her with a woman that I also never thought would hurt me to only fuck my best friends and turn out to be a complete fucking wreck.
Am I a complete dick and taking my past out on her or am I being smart and preparing for the worst? I feel right in my thoughts, but the way she reacted made me feel like I fucked things up between us.
On that same note, I must mention how much of a kind sweet caring woman she is, and when I brought it up she flipped out on me saying that she can't believes that I think that way and to leave my past in the past all while saying she would never sign one. She isn't a vindictive type woman and I know her extremely well, but I was in an 8 year relationship prior to her with a woman that I also never thought would hurt me to only fuck my best friends and turn out to be a complete fucking wreck.
Am I a complete dick and taking my past out on her or am I being smart and preparing for the worst? I feel right in my thoughts, but the way she reacted made me feel like I fucked things up between us.