Pornography - unable to reach your full potential

[Higherfocus420]

@birdup

It is absolutely terrifying, repulsive and shocking at the same time that you consciously try to misinterpret every word. Prostate cancer was related to sexual abstinence, *not* that such a serious disease doesn't exist.

Chill winston

 

[Kellsee]

You said your were sharing this knowledge because you were just trying to prevent us from making the same mistakes you made. What mistakes did you make? I must have missed something. I am sorry.

 

[Robi]

Im the opposite I like head but have to have sex to cum I use to get paranoid about desensitisation but if anything I ejaculate too soon at times all depends

honesty is so appreciated, didnt know men could get desensitized, studies of an uncut male vs cut were read in my life, there could be some desensitivity pertaining to that. in my exp, women talk alot more about sex, so hearing/learning from a male is pretty darn cool

 

[Robi]

Chill winston

i am going to use that if i may, or is it copy written lol, i love it

 

[arrall]

honesty is so appreciated, didnt know men could get desensitized,

Death Grip is a bitch, their music is pretty good though.

 

[Robi]

Death Grip is a bitch, their music is pretty good though.

checking it out now, thank yah

 

[arrall]

checking it out now, thank yah

Was mostly a bad joke, but I actually do quite like their music. Certainly is not for everyone though. I hated it the first time I listened. It's an acquired taste, like sushi or beer.

 

[Robi]

i like it, pretty avant gard , but i get it! jam to that to some sushi and beer

Was mostly a bad joke, but I actually do quite like their music. Certainly is not for everyone though. I hated it the first time I listened. It's an acquired taste, like sushi or beer.

 

[Robi]

death grips lmaooooooooooo

 

[arrall]

i like it, pretty avant gard , but i get it! jam to that to some sushi and beer

I've spent many nights drinking beer and/or eating sushi with the homies and listening to death grips. They got Bjork on this one, it's one of my favorites:

 

[Robi]

I know we’ve been speaking about men here but…
Speaking as a woman, I have heard, not certain if I have read it, some time ago that frequent clitoral stimulation by a vibrator which results in orgasm, makes it difficult to reach orgasm with a partner, minus a battery operated device.
I cannot speak to this issue, but I would be interested to hear what others have to say. I assume this female stimulation could include pornography or might not. I assume the point had mostly to do with the sensations that are generated by a vibrator, and the fact that a vibrator provides a certain consistency to its sensations, whereas a human grows weary. Thus, if it takes 40 minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, a vibrator is meeting her needs and a partner will likely never be able to keep up with this. If she can put down the vibrator, the thought is that human contact is more important than the consistent sensation, without any human connection.
Anyway, I’m not saying this is accurate, just that this is something I’d heard.

Thoughts?

vibe can def desensitize, i dont like them much, maybe on my b day, many women cant live w/o `em. tripped me out when i met a man that used one and not in the butt , so dont get excited krinkle,yes i dont hear men talk about using them under the tip where i was told it feels best

 

[Robi]

I've spent many nights drinking beer and/or eating sushi with the homies and listening to death grips. They got Bjork on this one, it's one of my favorites:

bjork cracks me up, not long i saw a live concert of her on video...one wild child she be, and crazy ranges of vocals, and the lady is ageless, she sounds awesome in the song. dont think this is a mash up, but i love them

I've spent many nights drinking beer and/or eating sushi with the homies and listening to death grips. They got Bjork on this one, it's one of my favorites:

 

[Higherfocus420]

i am going to use that if i may, or is it copy written lol, i love it

Hahaha it's from the film lock stock and two smoking barrels

 

[Skorpio]

Death Grip is a bitch, their music is pretty good though.

Bro, you even posted one of their best songs! Nice!

 

[thegreenhand]

i certainly built a tolerance to pornography at one point in my life (age 15-16) but never had a sense of addiction from it

it got to the point where i could no longer masturbate without porn. my imagination no longer sufficed. a few weeks of abstinence and this problem resolved. never had problems with keeping it up with an irl partner, like some of my friends have reported from heavy porn use. i still use it from time to time

 

[polarthedog]

I tried not fapping, can’t do it, I fucking lose my mind with anxiety, it never goes away.

When I don’t watch porn, I have craving dreams for it, ipfrustrating ones where I can’t seem to manage to bring up my porn, or use the keyboard properly

 

[assclass]

Modern society has a "junk" problem. Junk food instead of nutritious meals. Junk relationships instead of family. Junk jobs instead of careers.

And we have junk sex (porn, masturbation, one night stands with drunk fat girls), instead of love.

Less junk food, more real meals.

It is the solution to modern (industrial/urban) societies ills.

 

[wirkdy]

op is right, I add that porn is the most dangerous, widespread and above all unrecognized mental sickness of this century.

I agree total abstinence isn't probably a good solution for male organisms but porn consumed almost daily is definitely worse and should be avoided.

If you can't reduce it alone some drugs may help, opioids for example, I took them and cut down with that shit immensely. Feel reborn.

 

[Mjäll]

Is that really the norm for porn consumers to be desensitized to normal sex and escalate to rape play, gang bangs and whatnot? I would have thought that unrealistic beauty standards would be the main problem. Maybe it is and the "needing ever and ever more extreme porn" trope is a euphemism?

I have never been interested in any "extreme" material (barely even sex acts at all) but the temptation to seek out ever more perfect female beauty is real.

 

[Shady's Fox]

Yes we're talking about our main banality of existence. If we were to ask what life is this is the answer for everyone in society nowadays while TV/online streaming platforms shows such as AHS such as underrated FX/Hulu hints at certain "security breach" into the immune system of adding masturbation and also your dick getting harder when you think about it, when you see a women back hence might be more acentuated with psychopaths looking at clavicles whenever is available. Sex is natural, we don't know for who and what is made but we know for sure is part of reproduction chain and things arise such as bacteria, microscopic new leaf cells so on. I think is a mistake to look at to exactly what part of the world is more into it or less, if someone tells me america by now I tell you Norway, with half a brain you'd know why. Norway is the stem of mythology, not Egypt! anyhow I am a "cinefil" which means certain part of cinematography might not be interesting for the next person sitting beside me, such as interviews such as deleted director's cut/audio samples not only visual, might be visual at some point but I don't go at extent video is video audio is what the name says and I see useless kissing scene even try harding "humping" because remember love is different from sex as viceversa. I don't think we'll ever conqure this because if we do, we get the feeling of needing more of control and that's for many when they start losing it, when they over think "Yeah, I know I did it once I can do it twice" and you can replace that with just a feeling of knowing that you have control over your own boredom because like you like me like anyone else, we get bored at certain points and that's one of reason we use internet one at least I, one of reasons we need to accept this repetition. I know masturbation is linked to boredom because crime psychologist did heavy research into this and came up with that boredom is not the "moon influence" is just your train of thoughts.