deadendgame
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jul 23, 2014
- Messages
- 356
First of all, I would like to say thank you to all my blue/green lighters out there. You guys have been most supportive and understanding in my recovery unlike everyone else and I mean literally everyone else. Even to my family and friends, I share very little because they do not understand the problem clearly no matter how lucidly it is presented to them. First of all, I am college educated. The problem is that I did not complete graduate school. I had a problem with drugs before as y'all may know but have been almost one year clean. I am currently working as a security guard making a little bit more than minimal wage, living with my parents, and still have some amenities as I will shortly explain. I am living on one lifeline. When the day starts, I have to drive to work, and right from the getgo, I am presented with a life or death situation. I have to make a left turn at a stop sign with no light. Should I fail at this, it is not just some minor fender bender. It is a t-bone accident which means death or worse. Presented with this kind of problem, I worry and obsess about it everyday. I know that in the beginning of the day, this manuver has to be done successfully, or there may not be a day at all. No, I don't just have to do this once or twice. I have to do this every time I want to go somewhere. My parents did give me a sweet ride, but they bought the bare minimal amount of insurance for me which means, if this car is totalled, I at least lose my transportation or my life. So, I drive to work, and I have to stand at that store for up to 9 hours. But seriously. You guys have no idea how slowly 9 hours go by. 9 hours in there is like 90 hours on the outside. Everyday, I am losing my goddam mind up in there. Not only is it a degrading job, it is a job with minimal compensation. People make fun of me all the time. Not knowing that I have a college degree, they take jabs at my self-worth. If I make it through the day, I make 80 dollars, NOT! I make 65 dollars because the government ferociously tax me for no reason. On the flip side, I can't get welfare because although my parents refuse to give me any money and charge me rent, I am technically living under their roof so I am not qualified for anything. This brings me to my next problem, which is, if I am crazy as fuck, why don't I get help? Because I can't! If I try to get help for any mental or physical malady, I will be paying bills up the wazoo because I don't have health insurance. Can't get it from my company because my fucking manager made my hours 36, not 40. Honestly, I don't care about this stupidass job anymore. I don't care if I get fired. my manager has been treating me like shit since day 1 for no goddam reason whatsoever. The only reason I haven't quit by now is because I don't know how to. Some days I seriously think about walking up the hell out of there or doing stupid shit to get purposely fired. People are telling me that I have to give them a courtesy of a two- week notice, but honestly I can't stand that stupid shit for one more minute because that minute feels like ten! I sort of do need the money, but I am so confused I don't even know what the hell is happening.
And my fucking friends and family, I don't tell them this but I wish they all died yo. They telling me that I should "be more happy" and that I should "be happy that I am still alive". You know what? Fuck that! There is nothing to smile about up in here okay! If you have even a first grade reading comprehension and read the previous paragraph, you know immediately that life sucks ass right now. The only thing that is saving my ass is that I have some change in my bank account. It is true that I am fortunate than some people and those people are on the news. I watch it sometimes, and I think I lost all empathy because instead of feeling sorry for them, I am getting amused. Like the students who went to ITT tech. After hearing that, I went online and watched them cry. It brings great joy to my heart, that my life doesn't suck THAT bad. Well, actually, it is similar because I also went to a diploma mill or two. Bluelighters, I want you to all know that you are the only family I have right now. I wish you all the best and hope you learned something from my testimony~
And my fucking friends and family, I don't tell them this but I wish they all died yo. They telling me that I should "be more happy" and that I should "be happy that I am still alive". You know what? Fuck that! There is nothing to smile about up in here okay! If you have even a first grade reading comprehension and read the previous paragraph, you know immediately that life sucks ass right now. The only thing that is saving my ass is that I have some change in my bank account. It is true that I am fortunate than some people and those people are on the news. I watch it sometimes, and I think I lost all empathy because instead of feeling sorry for them, I am getting amused. Like the students who went to ITT tech. After hearing that, I went online and watched them cry. It brings great joy to my heart, that my life doesn't suck THAT bad. Well, actually, it is similar because I also went to a diploma mill or two. Bluelighters, I want you to all know that you are the only family I have right now. I wish you all the best and hope you learned something from my testimony~