Boku_
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2008
- Messages
- 935
Let''s be honest people most of us are smart alexs to clever for our own good. A lot can be said for a person who can humble enough to truly forgive and live by the philosophy forgive and forget as well as two wrongs don't make a right. What seperates us humans from animals is only we kill for retribution to gain self-satisfaction. in general most of the human race are vengeful and very few people can turn the other cheek when crossed or sinned against.
A common trait amoung people who are resentful and pissed off at a certain person ( a enemy) who somehow crossed them is planning a verbal communication by themselves and their friends attempting to get their enemy to feel freudenschade (Google that) cheifly by having a series of two on one personal talks explaining that you the enemy don't have a special partner/lover in your life but they do.
They think because they have been successful at finding someone to share their lives with and be sexually intimate with these resentful and bitter people feel a strong desire to get one up on their enemy and cause that enemy to feel misery and inadequacy by stating that they have someone and you will have noone for the rest of your life.
What would you call this trait of a bitter person wanting to cause sadness and depressed feelings in another person they have bad blood with by organising several separate meetings or sit downs between different couples and the guy who is single where each of the couples calmly point out they each have someone and you will never get a genuine partner. All you will get is sex off cheap prostitutes. Basically they hang shit on you for being a social reject who is a failure with women.
It doesn't matter that you aren't hung up on meeting a partner and that luckily you are in a position to afford sex with prostitutes for the rest of your life and you are the type of person who really doesn't mind having to pay for it
What would you call the personality trait of a bitter person getting their jollys out of rubbing in the fact they are successful with the opposite sex and you are not.
The irony is 50 percent of long term relationship such as marriage end in divorce and at the same time marriages that don't fail eventually turn into sexless marriages so chances are if you meet 8 couples whose intention is to rub salt on your wounds and make themselves feel good for getting one up on you statistically 4 will break up or at the very least become sexless marriages.
You could call what I described a form of non physical verbal assault done in spite intending to cause long lasting angst and emotional damage to a enemy's self esteem.
A common trait amoung people who are resentful and pissed off at a certain person ( a enemy) who somehow crossed them is planning a verbal communication by themselves and their friends attempting to get their enemy to feel freudenschade (Google that) cheifly by having a series of two on one personal talks explaining that you the enemy don't have a special partner/lover in your life but they do.
They think because they have been successful at finding someone to share their lives with and be sexually intimate with these resentful and bitter people feel a strong desire to get one up on their enemy and cause that enemy to feel misery and inadequacy by stating that they have someone and you will have noone for the rest of your life.
What would you call this trait of a bitter person wanting to cause sadness and depressed feelings in another person they have bad blood with by organising several separate meetings or sit downs between different couples and the guy who is single where each of the couples calmly point out they each have someone and you will never get a genuine partner. All you will get is sex off cheap prostitutes. Basically they hang shit on you for being a social reject who is a failure with women.
It doesn't matter that you aren't hung up on meeting a partner and that luckily you are in a position to afford sex with prostitutes for the rest of your life and you are the type of person who really doesn't mind having to pay for it
What would you call the personality trait of a bitter person getting their jollys out of rubbing in the fact they are successful with the opposite sex and you are not.
The irony is 50 percent of long term relationship such as marriage end in divorce and at the same time marriages that don't fail eventually turn into sexless marriages so chances are if you meet 8 couples whose intention is to rub salt on your wounds and make themselves feel good for getting one up on you statistically 4 will break up or at the very least become sexless marriages.
You could call what I described a form of non physical verbal assault done in spite intending to cause long lasting angst and emotional damage to a enemy's self esteem.
).