So I'm dating this girl, known her a long time and dated for a while, I'm her first ever partner and she's my second sexual partner, and we recently had a discussion about orgasms. She broke to me that she has never been able to give herself an orgasm and never been able to reach when I've been pleasuring her. She's says she gets so close but just can't get there no matter how much she wants to.
However, due to this it is stressing her out extremely, she is getting very upset and starting to make herself feel a little bit poorly because of the worrying. She is scared that there is something wrong with her and I'm doing my very best to calm her down and reinforce her. I told her that reaching orgasm takes time and patience and she seems to try and rush to reach it a little bit and I know she is just creating her own mental barrier.
I care an absolute lot for this girl, and I don't necessarily want to make her orgasm in this respect, I just want to stop her worrying, either by getting her to achieve orgasm or by talking it out. Her worrying make me worry. Any tips?
However, due to this it is stressing her out extremely, she is getting very upset and starting to make herself feel a little bit poorly because of the worrying. She is scared that there is something wrong with her and I'm doing my very best to calm her down and reinforce her. I told her that reaching orgasm takes time and patience and she seems to try and rush to reach it a little bit and I know she is just creating her own mental barrier.
I care an absolute lot for this girl, and I don't necessarily want to make her orgasm in this respect, I just want to stop her worrying, either by getting her to achieve orgasm or by talking it out. Her worrying make me worry. Any tips?