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Obsessed with Anal Sex / Porn

anal is incredible. it sucks how so many girls don't like it
 
I think you may be on to something sex king GenericMind. I probably don't know how good the pussy is, but what ever you just commented on about the vagina is how i feel 2x for a nice ass : /
 
im the same way to, I only watch anal porn, for example when i was sex, it will take me lot more time to get of with vaginal, but with anal sex I can cum very fast. And i enjoy it soo much more,, but not all girls like anal, in fact many don't like it at all..

now its like becoming either anal sex or no sex at all..
 
I don't like how anal sex feels, really. OP this thread is not nearly as drastic as I thought it was, if you are a virgin. no offense meant, but you need to see the sights before you start critiquing them in your paper
 
doppelganga196 said:
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I suppose axl is right, and i just don't know what the real thing is like. The topic was kind of a serious concern for me though, brought up by my stoned thoughts.

And what are you laughing at dopple, i was serious when i said that lol. Maybe cause my wording is funny, sorry was high and didn't care to fix it.
 
If I could only get off [in real life] to the kind of porn I watch, I would be fucked as it usually involves girl on girl action. I'm not even gay, I just find it way hotter than watching a heterosexual couple go at it on video. With this being said, I usually only watch porn when a friend links me to something and 90% of the time I only end up laughing uncontrollably as I can't handle the horrible dirty talk :p And to be even more honest, I have only gotten off to porn a very few times, probably less than five. But regardless my point still stands.

I think masturbating to porn and getting off in a real life sexual scenario are two totally different things, at least for me. I find different things attractive "in real life" than I do in porn, extremely different things. I don't know why this is but I've never developed any anxiety over it.
 
Yup, don't worry about it RP, I watch a LOT of anal porn myself, and I fucking love regular sex. It's not comparable to porn. I have a hunch my girl may be into anal though, so I'll probably steer to getting some during the upcoming holidayz! :D
 
yeah man you can have all the fantasies you want dont worry.

soon as a real girl is touching your dick you wont have any problems.

You can bump this thread in 10 years when youve started having sex, then gotten bored with it and your fears from the OP come true.
 
yeah man, i agree with what said above, and you need to stop watching so much porn and start talking to girls. Once you get in there an see what being with a woman is like, you will not even think about anal sex until you've been fucking for at least a year.

Plus once you have anal sex the first time and It's not in a porn, and your girlfriend is in pain and you pull your dick out and it's all smelly and covered in shit, maybe you will change your mind.
 
Yeah man you have a sane little fascination with the nipsy, but when you have regular sex youll realise how amazing that is man!

From there, if yo still curious, find out if she might be into it by talking casually about it to gauge her reaction. Then maybe slowly go to get a finger in there and if she seems up for it then give it a go!

And yeah, stop watching so much porn and get laid already!

xx
 
ech0s85 said:
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soon as a real girl is touching your dick you wont have any problems.
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it's not that I can't get it up, when am with a girl, I just don't enjoy vaginal sex anymore, I can go for hours without cumming. But with anal sex, Ill cum at normal rate, and I enjoy..

I think this is what the OP is worried about.
 
i too watch a lot of porn and none of it is the vanilla stuff. i am also fixated on anal sex and the female anus in general. however when im with a real woman i actually prefer vaginal sex for practical reasons.

anal:
is she clean? will she be embarassed if she isnt?
i have to go in slowwww. i have to wait a while before i can start railing her. tends to kill the passion.
its not as tight. the sphincter may be tight but the inside of her ass comes nowhere near the tightness of her vagina.
smells like shit when you pull out your dick. it is in ass after all.

i love the idea of anal and but id rather have vaginal sex. OP: see if you actually like real anal sex before you start to worry.

btw, i will stick my finger up her ass most of the time during vaginal sex to get that extra stimulation. she enjoys it too.
 
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I love anal sex and im a female. Dont get me wrong i love it "normally " to but anal sex is great. I think most women like it but are just to afraid to admit it due to the fact they might be considered a slut or something. But alos with anal sex you have to do it very carefully.Start out slowly with lots of lube and be very aware of how the girl is feeling as it goes. Theres nothing wrong with really liking it but i do agree with rogerme if you watch to much you will become disinterested. You should stop watching anal porn and maybe porn all together for awhile and see how it goes....
 
Heh i didn't know this thread was still being responded to. Yea i get a lot of the comments you guys are saying, especially on how it may not be as clean in real life. + I have yet to see what normal sex feels like , so i probably am assuming wrong.
Perhaps i just have a fixation to certain types of porn, but don't worry guys i am not a porn addict. I jerk off less than once a day, and do not spend much time on it at all.
 
Don't worry about it man. I'm a girl and I only watch anal porn - the other stuff just bores me. In real life, however, although anal is fun to throw into the mix sometimes, I prefer normal sex. Anal just takes too much effort. I'm currently seeing a guy who feels the same. It's more the idea of it that turns us on than actually doing it.
 
^ This. It's good once in a while. But nothing beats regular sex as a main course.
 
Yea. Sometimes you spoil yourself with a side dish, at other times the main course is enough. :)
 
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