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Not having orgasms

Seek girth and stamina, not only length. Also, make sure the tool knows how to use his tool. Assuming you are female with a male partner, as most chick's know how to get off other chicks, and while I've met women who have trouble orgasming during sex, even they get off by opening the bath faucet on their clit..

If you are a guy, idk what to say, that sucks. Quit the SSRIs.
 
Are you male? What drugs do you take. Opiates, benzos and SSRIs, and many others, all fuck with you're ability to cum
 
Sorry I just read your username. The above will also fuck with your ability to orgasm, especially SSRIs.
You need to perhaps communicate with your partner more. Can you make yourself orgasm?
 
Perforated said:
We can handle that here. Probably. Can you elaborate a little. Just so the expert panel we have has something to work with?
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Well it’s way up on the outside. You need to have a lot of pressure on it for it to happen but I haven’t had one 18 years without a vibrator and now it seems like I like porn. I joined some groups and maybe find out what to do .
 
Turtlegirl said:
Well it’s way up on the outside. You need to have a lot of pressure on it for it to happen but I haven’t had one 18 years without a vibrator and now it seems like I like porn. I joined some groups and maybe find out what to do .
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Oh I take 10 bills aday and 2 are antidepressants. I’ll look into every pill I take
 
Perforated said:
We can handle that here. Probably. Can you elaborate a little. Just so the expert panel we have has something to work with?
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I wasn’t able to at 18 or after that then at 40 I did because of oral sex. Now I use vibrators. And it usually work but sometimes it doesn’t and then I think oh maybe because you had 1 yesterday. So I’ll try 2 x a week.
 
You need to be mentally into what youre doing. Who was the best of your life? Think about that person. Otherwise fantasy goes a long way. Dont think of it like a chore. If it happens it happens, and if not you had some fun anyway right?

maybe check out the apps if youre adventerous.
 
Turtlegirl said:
I wasn’t able to at 18 or after that then at 40 I did because of oral sex. Now I use vibrators. And it usually work but sometimes it doesn’t and then I think oh maybe because you had 1 yesterday. So I’ll try 2 x a week.
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I think with these things regular practice (and relaxation) does improve your chances.
 
Outlier said:
You need to be mentally into what youre doing. Who was the best of your life? Think about that person. Otherwise fantasy goes a long way. Dont think of it like a chore. If it happens it happens, and if not you had some fun anyway right?

maybe check out the apps if youre adventerous.
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Thankyou
 
axe battler said:
Tell your doctor. They may out you on something else. They won't be embarrassed or think you're a weirdo. Sex is an important human need
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Yes I’m trying to get a gyn appointment and there aren’t to many here and the one my dr picked wants my medical records and he died and no one know where the recoded are. I’ll call my insurance company Monday. Thankyou
 
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