And I am feeling a bit overwhelmed as to where to begin. I am 23 years old, and have always enjoyed the kinkier side of sex. One of my earliest experiences with porn was Housewives at Play! It has taken a while for me to truly open up and shed my hang-ups on the matter, and I am ready to fully explore my submissive tendencies. Recently, a friend of mine who is more dominant and I enjoyed the weekend together, and I enjoyed every facet of it. He treated me like gold the entire time - I have never had a man so doting and considerate towards my wants and needs. I did not make a single decision all weekend, he just intuitively addressed my needs. I have also never allowed someone such complete sexual control, nor have I orgasmed so many times in my life. After everything, I can't fathom wanting anyone but a considerate, good dom in my life.
I really want to explore this more, so if there are any experienced doms or subs out there who can direct me to valuable blogs, articles, social sites, events - ANYTHING that is enlightening for a novice, it would bee deeply appreciated. I keep finding my way to more intense BDSM sites, or sites that feature degradation in a slave/master context, and I am just not ready for that level of dedication. Personal anecdotes would also be helpful - how did you realize your needs? How did you begin to approach satisfying them? How do you even broach this with potential partners?
Any advice or input would be welcomed!
I really want to explore this more, so if there are any experienced doms or subs out there who can direct me to valuable blogs, articles, social sites, events - ANYTHING that is enlightening for a novice, it would bee deeply appreciated. I keep finding my way to more intense BDSM sites, or sites that feature degradation in a slave/master context, and I am just not ready for that level of dedication. Personal anecdotes would also be helpful - how did you realize your needs? How did you begin to approach satisfying them? How do you even broach this with potential partners?
Any advice or input would be welcomed!