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Rockiin69

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I'm a 35 year old white gay man. When I was about 17-18, I was watching a lot of porn online because I was still a virgin and I came across a picture of a blonde guy with a black guy naked in bed. I was blown away and thought that it was the hottest thing I had ever seen. The neighbourhood I grew up in barely had any black guys living there and even at my school there were maybe 3 overall. So it had never crossed my mind because also of a lack of opportunity.

Anyway...I think it became an obsession. Whenever I feel the urge to have casual sex online I only look for black men. I'm also attracted to white men but it's a different type of urge. My lust for black men is way stronger. I'm aware of how this sounds but I genuinely don't think I'm a racist and I genuinely liked some black guys I met, I could have developed something more serious with them...and although I do have the fantasy of being submissive to a black man I never engaged in any racial slurs, I never called anyone the N word and I would never. It's bad enough that I objectify black men like that, I already feel uncomfortable enough so I would never say or do anything like that.

I just wanted to know if anybody understands this...i don't know where this came from and I wish I wouldn't think about it as much.
 
I wouldn't really worry about it too much man. We all like different things. I can be attracted to pretty much any color of woman of any age but that's just me. I've mostly been with white chicks but we all have things we are drawn too.

Guess you could say you got the fever...lol. Is negrophilia a real word?
 
Don't feel bad! You are clearly an insightful and sensitive person who doesn't want to hurt anybody - we all got what floats our boats. I love tall skinny hairy white guys... :eek: It's just a type!
 
Rockiin69 said:
I'm a 35 year old white gay man. When I was about 17-18, I was watching a lot of porn online because I was still a virgin and I came across a picture of a blonde guy with a black guy naked in bed. I was blown away and thought that it was the hottest thing I had ever seen. The neighbourhood I grew up in barely had any black guys living there and even at my school there were maybe 3 overall. So it had never crossed my mind because also of a lack of opportunity.

Anyway...I think it became an obsession. Whenever I feel the urge to have casual sex online I only look for black men. I'm also attracted to white men but it's a different type of urge. My lust for black men is way stronger. I'm aware of how this sounds but I genuinely don't think I'm a racist and I genuinely liked some black guys I met, I could have developed something more serious with them...and although I do have the fantasy of being submissive to a black man I never engaged in any racial slurs, I never called anyone the N word and I would never. It's bad enough that I objectify black men like that, I already feel uncomfortable enough so I would never say or do anything like that.

I just wanted to know if anybody understands this...i don't know where this came from and I wish I wouldn't think about it as much.
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There are some white men who are gay who claim to only be attracted to black men.

My gay black male friends sometimes avoid men like this because they feel as though the other man or men who are not black want them only because they are black and then say racist things like, "Give me that big black dick!".

Have you ever had an actual relationship or partnership with a man? Or dated men? Maybe find a bisexual or gay black man and date him and have a relationship first before you have sex? Or if you want to be submissive date a bi or gay black man who is into kink, and talk a lot about what you will do sexually before you do it if you do consensual BDSM?
 
Rockiin69 said:
I'm a 35 year old white gay man. When I was about 17-18, I was watching a lot of porn online because I was still a virgin and I came across a picture of a blonde guy with a black guy naked in bed. I was blown away and thought that it was the hottest thing I had ever seen. The neighbourhood I grew up in barely had any black guys living there and even at my school there were maybe 3 overall. So it had never crossed my mind because also of a lack of opportunity.

Anyway...I think it became an obsession. Whenever I feel the urge to have casual sex online I only look for black men. I'm also attracted to white men but it's a different type of urge. My lust for black men is way stronger. I'm aware of how this sounds but I genuinely don't think I'm a racist and I genuinely liked some black guys I met, I could have developed something more serious with them...and although I do have the fantasy of being submissive to a black man I never engaged in any racial slurs, I never called anyone the N word and I would never. It's bad enough that I objectify black men like that, I already feel uncomfortable enough so I would never say or do anything like that.

I just wanted to know if anybody understands this...i don't know where this came from and I wish I wouldn't think about it as much.
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I look for hairy guys - I'm also attracted to non hairy guys but it's a different type of urge :D. Nothing wrong with knowing what you like as long as your respectful to the others.

I don't see anything wrong with your post or what you find attractive or sexual.

Bearlove
 
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