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my partner loves longer foreplay and i am not use to plz help

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my partner loves longer foreplay
Postby ashookkapoor » Mon Jun 20, 2016 3:10 am

i am 24 & and in relationship with 40 year divorced lady.her sex style totally different than my younger ex.she plays active role in sex all the time.Moreover,she likes more foreplay than my ex.last night she tied my hands with bed and started lick my body like a lolly pop without touching my C*** for almost 40 minutes.first she licked my foot,followed by legs, thighs,under thighs,balls,belly,chest,nipples,arms,under arms,figures,neck,ears,finally she put her tongue in my mouth began to kiss.i was not use to that kind of long foreplay.i was moaning and screaming for let me free at that time my C*** was like steel rod and finally she gave little blowjob and she ride.later i told her that i did,t have that long foreplay with my ex we just kiss each other little bit oral sex and then we go for intercourse and all procedure is completed within 15 minutes and she replied this was real pleasure of sex and soon i will be use to that kind of sex.
any one having that kind of partner who performs foreplay that longer.if yes please share your experiences and advice what should i do now?
 
I wish I had any type of foreplay,
I don't get shit. No cock, no kissing, no oral. My man is lazy and rather jack off to porn.

Ask her to trade off with you...some days do how she likes and other days how you like sex/foreplay.
 
Sounds pretty damn good to me... Is this a fishing for compliments thread?
 
Hurhel said:
I wish I had any type of foreplay,
I don't get shit. No cock, no kissing, no oral. My man is lazy and rather jack off to porn.

Ask her to trade off with you...some days do how she likes and other days how you like sex/foreplay.
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I've seen you post this same thing for months. You should find a different man who pleases you sexually or find out what kind of porn he is watching and provide that experience for him. If you provide that for him and he still isn't into it.. It's not good to be sexually frustrated and not have release, I know things in a relationship are more than just sex but really it's necessary for optimal mental health.
 
Ligaturd said:
I've seen you post this same thing for months. You should find a different man who pleases you sexually or find out what kind of porn he is watching and provide that experience for him. If you provide that for him and he still isn't into it.. It's not good to be sexually frustrated and not have release, I know things in a relationship are more than just sex but really it's necessary for optimal mental health.
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Funny how easily that would solve the majority of relationship sexual problems. Usually the guy is either too embarrassed to admit what he's into or just lazy and complacent.
 
Hurhel said:
I wish I had any type of foreplay,
I don't get shit. No cock, no kissing, no oral. My man is lazy and rather jack off to porn.

Ask her to trade off with you...some days do how she likes and other days how you like sex/foreplay.
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so do you want kind of foreplay which my partner gives me.
as mentioned earlier first she licked my whole body while laying down straight and then she turned me over and licked my hips, and performed analings licked my back neck, ears and put her tongue into my ears, and she licked my foot fingers one by one. She did one very interesting thing which was, she continuously putting her finger into my mouth dipped with her lubricant first i gag but later when she insist i also began to enjoy it was little bit salty & during blowjob she also let my taste my per-cum not with her finger but with tongue. She licked my pre-cum and put her tongue into my mouth full. She also put her saliva into my mouth and sucked my sliva.as my foot and hands were tied i was moaning and begging for either blowjob or intercourse ,finally when she gave me blowjob after about 40+ min i was like in heaven. My words can’t express my situation at that time. That was maximum pleasure i have ever got from blowjob and finally she ride me and during riding she continuously sucking my nipples and exchanging saliva and licking my whole face.
After sex she said that my moaning turns her on and she wouldn’t let me active until and unless I will used to of this and able to return her favor.I was shivering at that time and i am very frighted now because i don,t how i will become habitual of that longer foreplay and will this relation goes long or not.
 
once i tried to play active role she asked me to to perform as much as i do. I started from foot then thighs knee ,hips ,belly, breast with in one 5 mint I reached up to her lips and started to kiss her. I have been I turn on. I was very horny only after 5 mints. Finally I began to fuck her but . She was requesting that I should spend as much time on each organ as she used to spend. She used to start from foot and reached upon my lips after 40+ minutes she licked my foot for 5 minutes and my balls for all most 3 minutes. She had stopwatch with her and has fixed time for each organ. There is no place left in my body where she didn’t licked. But I don’t have kind of stamina and how should I build that stamina
did your partner use such moves as mine uses
 
That sounds amazing. You can get a lot from this, you can learn a lot about yourself and pleasure in general. A lot about empathy and letting go of your ego and instant gratification, focusing on and maximizing the pleasure of your partner. It will grow on you and become much easier in time. In Daoism they teach about seperating orgasm from ejaculation but it takes a lot of discipline, it's so natural to impulsively want to go balls deep and blow your load but sex can be so much deeper than that. You have a lot to gain from this.

I think you should embrace it and enjoy it. If this relationship doesn't last, you will have so much more to offer someone else.
 
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