XxLoveLifexX
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2015
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- 3
Ok so I've been in this FWB situation for about a year now with the same guy. It didn't start like that. We met through a mutual friend and he told me from the start that he didn't want a relationship and I respected that. Of course I was shocked that after our group outing, he actually called to ask if I wanted to go walk around the park and get dinner. It was great and that started us "dating/hanging out" (his words exactly). We were sleeping together, and yes I did give in wayyyy to early from the jump. (Total honesty here) Anyway, this went on for a few months before it just died. He all of a sudden vanishes on me after making plans for the weekend for us. (Because there's always 2 sides, I also at that time had a lot of things going on so I wasn't giving my all as I was before.) Well after disappearing for a few months, he shows back up again. Of course I gave him the cold shoulder, and of course he disappeared for another month before popping up again to ask me to do him a favor while he was away for the weekend. (Weird I know) Me being me, I did it for him and once again that started things back up but different this time. Totally was nothing more then 2 friends who hang out and sleep together. That was until events happened and I ended up moving next door to him. Well that magnified everything. Hanging out everyday, talking on the phone or text all throughout the day, and of course sex 1-2 times a week, but only when I slept over. Well now almost 6 months into it, we act more like a couple who has been together for years. We talk about everything from our day to finances, dreams, hopes and ambitions. Not to mention we lean on each other for everything. He doesn't even make a decision without talking to me first. Even something small as wanting my opinion on the new clothes he gets. When I've asked him the famous "what are we" he says he doesn't want a relationship still and we are friends. A few months after saying that, I told him I was thinking about starting to date. He acted like he couldn't care less. Of course that upset me, and of course he knows me well enough to know that it did upset me. So he tells me all he wants is for me to be happy. I would love to believe that he had feelings behind saying that, instead of simply saying it just to make me not upset. And now here we still grow closer each day. We are to the point where our form of flirting is picking on each other, and sex talk. But today is different, today is the reason why I'm giving in and asking total strangers for advice. Today we had a little spat and he apologized but I didn't really say much after he did. (Spat was over him doing something that ended up emotionally hurting me) Then because I said nothing he turns around and asks me to come over and tells me he bought me earrings?!? So now I'm more confused then ever. :/