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MMF Gone Horribly Wrong

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Greenlighter
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MFM Gone Horribly Wrong

I had a miserable MFM experience to share.

Here's the back story.
I'm having an affair with a woman who I'm in love with. That wasn't the plan but here I am. Sexually, we are great together. We both enjoy the same things, have excellent chemistry and have a strong desire to fulfill the others fantasies.

About a year ago, we had an MFMF experience. I didn't particularly care for the other girl or the guy for that matter. She did well with the guy. Overall, not a bad experience, just not what I imagined. First, I was not able to get an erection at first. I found this odd as I've never had that problem before. Even with women who I wasn't really attracted to, my penis doesn't have eyes so always reacts positively. I eventually did get and maintain an erection.

A month later we were with another couple. This time I liked the couple, she didn't particularly. But I performed wonderfully. I should note that the other guy did not. He was not able to get erect. I did my best to help him out by putting him in positions where both girls were giving him oral.

A couple months ago we had an FFM that was great. She was absolutely perfect and I performed like a champ. If my penis was bigger and stomach flatter you'd think I was a porn star. My girl also had a great time and wants to do it again (yeah me!).

This is where my story gets bad.

Last week we had a MFM with the guy from the first MFMF. It started off fine. Me and the guy were dominating her (as she likes). I was running the show, directing. I had her go to her knees and give me and the guy oral. Problem: I wasn't getting hard. I figured that it was just because I had another guy standing next to me and that it would soon come around.

So we did a bunch of oral stuff, spinning her around and having fun. Still, no erection (WTF right?). I reasoned that maybe if I could get enough firmness to put it in her, that would get me hard, so I had her doggie style as she gave him oral. I managed to mush my soft penis in her and sure enough, it started to come around.

Now, I don't pretend to be a marathon sex man, but I can last for a decent amount of time normally. Sometimes I'll stop and take a break if I feel it coming on and let the feeling pass. Let me tell you friends, as soon as I got my penis in her, it felt like 10,000 fairies were dancing on my penis and I immediately felt like i was going to orgasm.

So, I stopped and told the guy to switch places with me. Usually, I can settle myself down by having some light oral performed on me. She put her mouth on my penis and son of a bitch if I didn't orgasm 10 seconds later (I took her mouth off and kind of concealed the cum so nobody knew I came).

I had to endure an hour of some dude banging my chick as I pretty much watched. It was horrible. On top of that, this guy is particularly good and she came a million times, as i sat there like a cuckold.

So, I wanted to see if anyone had similar experiences. Maybe shed some light on what happened. I'm beginning to think that perhaps it was an ancient instinctual reaction. As if my body was saying, "No, it's not the time for sex, there's a competitor in the room that you might have to fight". Then, after I forced it to get hard my body said, "OK, if you're forcing us to do this, we are going to get in and out real quick". Just a theory.

I would very much like to give her the proper MFM experience (though, with a different guy).
 
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You do realize that MMF means you and the guy are supposed to get busy as well, right? I think you had a MFM.
 
You do realize that MMF means you and the guy are supposed to get busy as well, right? I think you had a MFM.

Interesting, No, I did not know that. Funny though, I once inquired if the arrangement of the letters indicated such but never got an answer.
Thanks for the education but no, it was an MFM then.
 
Ha, had to look up those (obvious once you know) acronyms.
I'm sure lots of couples have positive sexual experiences with additional people, but it's something that I've always thought is sexier to fantasise about than actually do, and I'd worry about someone getting left out!
I've fantasised about two men at the same time, but then I think the actual co-ordination & who puts what were would put me off in reality.

Many years ago before I became the born-again prude I am now, I was on an internet shaggers site, where men were in abundance & I filled my boots (until the novelty wore off & I was doing it for the sake of it) with lots of men (individually)
I had stipulated in my profile that I wasn't interested in meeting any men who were in a relationship, because although I wasn't interested in developing a relationship with any of them, I wasn't up for shitting on another woman (not literally either)

I then had one of a married couple (I can't remember if the initial message was from the woman or the man) message me interested in the 3 of us getting together & I wasn't entirely averse to the idea, but then was getting messages from both of them obviously without the other one aware (sorry, the details elude me after 15 years, but the point I'm trying to make is that there were obviously problems in their relationship which they (more he, I think) thought would be fixed by shagging another woman together, & I thought 'nah, too complicated, not getting involved'

I think these situations can be a relationship recipe for disaster unless the couple are equally as up for it as each other & their relationship is completely secure with 100% trust, which to me would beg the question, why would you want to bring additional people into your sexual relationship?
Of course if anyone can incorporate other people sexually into their partnership successfully, without any resentment, jealousy or insecurity from either person, then I take my hat off to them (but not my pants)
 
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threesomes go wonky on the regular. the uneven numbers and the potential if a relationship is involved for one person to not be happy with the dynamics is very high IME
 
Thanks for the feedback everyone. I certainly know threesomes can go wonky. Honestly, I don't think it would have if I was able to perform. That's what I'm wondering though, is this a common occurence for a usually normal guy to not get erect with another man there? Same with cumming too fast?
 
I do not understand the affair. Is she in a relationship or are you in a relationship? It seems like you guys have tons of group sex.
 
I do not understand the affair. Is she in a relationship or are you in a relationship? It seems like you guys have tons of group sex.

We both are. But that's not the point. And I wouldn't say "tons". Compared to a lot of people, we are quite the rookies.
 
My advice is don't beat yourself up about it, pardon the innuendo. Men have erection problems. Even porn stars. Ok, it might have felt humiliating, but what happened was just nature doing its thing. I don't think I'd be able to perform with another man around, but then the thought of an MFM turns my stomach.

On the MFMF you had, I imagine that guy may have felt more humiliated, as he was effectively watching you have an MFF, including his partner. It speaks volumes about you that you tried hard to help him, and it seems you did not judge him. You should be proud about that.

If the guy or your partner judged you in any way in your MFM, then they're morons. Most men suffer erectile dysfunction at some point and I imagine that if they have judged you, karma will take its revenge.

Hope this post helps you deal with it.
 
Thanks for the kind words Oh Yeah. I should mention that neither of them did anything wrong. I just watched because I did not want to ruin anyones time but I tell you, it was torture.
 
I actually thought something really horrible happened... (rape, abuse, etc).. and then reading your post... I mean, it's not that bad.

Just shrug it off. Just tell her, I don't know why it was so hard for me to get erect and then I came so quickly! Lol... well, I enjoyed seeing you get off -- but next time, I definitely want to be the one pleasuring you!

That's it. Just say that and move on.

:) You're fine.
 
I mean, it's not that bad.

Just shrug it off.

:) You're fine.

It's always great to get a women's perspective on this.

We men put ourselves under tons of pressure to use our dicks to perform and when it doesn't happen, we can feel like we've failed or in the case of an MFM situation like this that we've been emasculated.

In the overall majority of cases, most women don't perceive things in the same light at all. Especially if they're your partner.
 
You seem totally disconnected from the present moment. No wonder you are having trouble. You should try to figure out what in the present you are trying to run away from, with all these group "performances".
 
I think the fact that you are both in relationships yet run off for these group things with each other is.... different... Does your girl know you do this? Are you guys in an open relationship? And to be clear, you are in a relationship, but love the girl who you are cheating on your girl with?
 
I actually thought something really horrible happened... (rape, abuse, etc).. and then reading your post... I mean, it's not that bad.

That's it. Just say that and move on.

:) You're fine.

That would have been strange if I started a rape story off with "I had a miserable MFM experience...". Lol
Thanks though for the encouragement. I am fine!
 
You seem totally disconnected from the present moment. No wonder you are having trouble. You should try to figure out what in the present you are trying to run away from, with all these group "performances".
Disagree. I actually feel more in the moment then I ever have.
 
I think the fact that you are both in relationships yet run off for these group things with each other is.... different... Does your girl know you do this? Are you guys in an open relationship? And to be clear, you are in a relationship, but love the girl who you are cheating on your girl with?
No, my girl doesn't know. And yes, I love the girl I'm cheating with. Again, let's not dwell on this part of the story.
 
Greenlighter with a similar vibe to the persistent and strange troll who has now been unanimously called out numerous times by Kaden_Nite?

He posts one every week. His wife or gf must have done this a few hundred times by now. Poor guy.

If they just join BL to post in SLR - there's a sign.
If it's something about being cheated on - there's a sign.

Bonus points if there's numbers at the end of the user name.

I can understand a funny troll who is actually amusing, but whoever this troll is I can imagine just sitting there masturbating furiously whilst typing boringly fake stories into their keyboard.

Troll, if you're reading this (and if this actually isn't the original poster, then this isn't aimed at you):

please get a fucking life. Your stories are boring, weird and indicate some serious emotional and/or lifestyle issues. If you want actual advice gleamed from your numerous postings, then I seriously suggest you seek help. And actually genuinely get a life. Being a shit troll can't possibly be fun.

Sort it out.
 
Greenlighter with a similar vibe to the persistent and strange troll who has now been unanimously called out numerous times by Kaden_Nite?



I can understand a funny troll who is actually amusing, but whoever this troll is I can imagine just sitting there masturbating furiously whilst typing boringly fake stories into their keyboard.

Troll, if you're reading this (and if this actually isn't the original poster, then this isn't aimed at you):

please get a fucking life. Your stories are boring, weird and indicate some serious emotional and/or lifestyle issues. If you want actual advice gleamed from your numerous postings, then I seriously suggest you seek help. And actually genuinely get a life. Being a shit troll can't possibly be fun.

Sort it out.
Ummm, huh? Are you accusing me of being a troll? And a specific troll none the less?
I'm not whoever you are referring to, this is the first time I've even heard of this site.
And, I might add, I am not masturbating furiously while typing a fake story.. not even sure how one would do that.
 
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