MEGA - Studying, Exams, Stress, and coping with them

Actually, no. That's helped put things into perspective. I never really thought of it that way, although I should. For some reason I've kinda gotten into the mindset that "that's what parents are there for". Definitely not to support me all of my life, but hopefully you get what I'm saying.

Thanks for the newly added motivator. =)
 
You can always go 50/50 or so with your parents on loans. Say that you want to take out "some loans on your own," if you go to a new school. Your parents will love/respect you for this, and it could work as a motivator. Does not have to be 50/50, but you see what I am saying? I don't know if your family is in a position to do this, but if you can get a part-time job or something, often loan companies are willing to be very patient with people.

Sure, it means that they[parents] have to put up a bit more now (since you won't be getting a free ride at your current school), but if you're happier and finish smoother, and get a good transition into the job market ("getting on your own feet"), then they save money in terms of years they'd otherwise have to still care for you. So it's a trade-off, if that makes sense.

And living off of your parents, if it isn't already, will soon get old fast. Sometimes you have no choice about them supporting you (say if they end up offering you big holiday gifts, leaving you money if one happened to pass on, or other stuff like that). But take it from me, the older you get, the less of an appeal it is to feel like you're relying on your parents. You can, in the end, always rely on them emotionally, right?
 
When it comes to exam time.. I reverse my sleep patterns and sleep during the day... I really dislike whomever invented 7am exams...
 
Does anyone else feel like there isn't enough time in the day to complete all of your studying and homework? Do you find yourself skipping unnecessary assignments and/or pulling all-nighters just to keep up?

IME, finishing all of the assigned reading and write-ups is often impossible unless I forgo sleep and food. Is this unusual? I'm curious if other people have the same feeling.

how many credits are you taking? perhaps you're taking a bit more than you can handle.

i always eat while i study and do homework, but i have a super fucking high metabolism, and have to eat constantly regardless.

also, sleep is important to memory and consolidation, you absolutely should not skip it. a post-study nap is in fact one of the best ways to learn material quickly.
 
And living off of your parents, if it isn't already, will soon get old fast. Sometimes you have no choice about them supporting you (say if they end up offering you big holiday gifts, leaving you money if one happened to pass on, or other stuff like that). But take it from me, the older you get, the less of an appeal it is to feel like you're relying on your parents. You can, in the end, always rely on them emotionally, right?


oh yeah, it's definitely getting old, quick. And I can always, without a doubt, rely on them emotionally.

I'll most likely stick with this school for the rest of the school year and see how it goes. If I'm still unhappy/without a major, transferring will be at the top of my list of options. (I've actually thought about taking a semester off, but I'm afraid I won't go back :()

Thanks again for the insight. ;)
 
How do you stay focused???

So I'm starting to fuck up in school.
I don't mean to! Really!!! I just have soooo many distractions being a guy!
I love girls,I love them!!!
But why? WHY Cant I focus!!! Its like when ever a girl comes near me to talk. I forget EVERYTHING!!! ENGLISH!! Like I was writing a paper today, and my cuddle buddy came up and we did things, now I don't know what to write about anymore.
this is my college life lol M3 the dorms.

So guys/girls past their freshman year (and 2.5+ lol) how did u get through college? I try to go away but it's like every girl in alabama was to talk to me.
starbucks or CC coffeee.

Where did yal go to study??? (phones off here. :))

I got mid terms commen up and im fucked if I dont get focused, where did yal feel happy!! (BESIDES fucking STARBUCS!!! LOL)
thanks
drew
 
Loved your above thread made me laugh!! Sorry not at you !! I feel for ya buddy maybe you could make yourself less appealing to the ladies ....stay home till after mid terms and party like its ....afterwards!! Hard azzz it is these things are sent to test us unfortunately!!

Good luck!!
 
Loved your above thread made me laugh!! Sorry not at you !! I feel for ya buddy maybe you could make yourself less appealing to the ladies ....stay home till after mid terms and party like its ....afterwards!! Hard azzz it is these things are sent to test us unfortunately!!

Good luck!!

I wish I could dude, It's just something about sex, (and with an 18 year old)!
I feel like I'm in a porno here, wow lol
So Fuck I always thing about sex, and after I do it I have a 15 min window open to study or do hw, and most of that time i'm making out in that 15 min widow, and i'm back to fucking.
I really want a degree, I really do. I'm still a "freashmore" I wanna become a 2nd year!!

Wheres a quiet place, away from sex to study?
 
Dude just go to the library, up in the stacks somewhere where its really quiet and get your shit done. I'm sure you can spare a few hours during each day when you're not drowning in vaginas.
 
I take my prescribed dextroamphetamine for my ADHD, and then find focusing to be a non problem.

aka, my doctor actually gave me proper treatment that makes my life better.

I usually study at home, or I go to a defense facility, find some out of the way, un-used corner of a basement or an empty room and study in there. Or in my office, if no one else is in our wing and unplug my phone. Cause I know no one can disturb me there generally. The security is very tight so none of my friends are going to be walking in "hey dude, lets go do <x>!"
 
I find the time pressure to be markedly reduced when I stop fucking post-whoring on teh internets! ;)
 
I wouldn't be thinking about using drugs to, in some way, effectively "peak" one's IQ. While I'll leave the door open to the theory that IQs for adults are static numbers, supplementing one's life with reading, doing puzzles, learning about cryptography, playing strategy games, etc is the healthier way to gain IQ points. Why? Because it will give you an increase that does not "wear off" in a few hours' time. The analogy to this through amphetamines or other stimulants would be a truly horrific drug addiction.

I can see stimulants being used for focus and for durability, but don't think it's a smart move taking them thinking that you'll get an IQ peak(i.e. be able to do stuff you otherwise couldn't, given different settings, objectively).
 
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heuristic said:
These were well-rested students without a diagnosis of ADD/ADHD? Would you happen to have a link to the study, or maybe a couple of names associated with it off the top of your head? It's cool if you don't. I'd just be curious to read it.

Unfortunately, it's something I encountered in a secondary source in psychology training as an undergrad. I would think that the sample would either be a random cross-section of psychology undergraduates participating in the experiment for class credit and paid subjects in the area of the university where the study was conducted, the sample thus including a rate of ADD similar to that of the general population, OR the study would have excluded all people diagnosed with a psychiatric disorder and those taking psychoactive medications.

I doubt that they could have effectively controlled for level of rest.

The material I've read looking at the cognitive enhancement effects of various stimulants and modafinil looked to tests such as digit span tests, and so forth, and for normal volunteers showed some improvement, largely the same among the stimulants tested, but nothing that I would think would equate to an eight point jump in IQ. But this isn't something I'm anywhere close to being expert on.

Actually, it sounds like your data is a bit stronger, as we don't really know which portions of the IQ test are subject to enhancement from administration of dexedrine. Hell, it could just be that dexedrine keeps people's minds from wandering, which becomes key in timed tests.

Red said:
While I'll leave the door open to the theory that IQs for adults are static numbers

I'll close that door: this notion is substantiated almost entirely by presupposition alone. :) Even if genetics alone determined IQ, we would expect a steady decline in IQ from age 17-18 onward (as this is the age when 'fluid intelligence' 'peaks').

supplementing one's life with reading, doing puzzles, learning about cryptography, playing strategy games, etc is the healthier way to gain IQ points. Why? Because it will give you an increase that does now "wear off" in a few hours' time. The analogy to this through amphetamines or other stimulants would be a truly horrific drug addiction.

Indeed. I think that stimulants yield mainly the perception of increased insight. In my experience, stimulants tend to help with rote tasks a great deal before one accrues any tolerance, as I tend to neglect such tasks. With the development of even mild tolerance, though, this effect falls aside, as I 'find' that I have 'more important' shit to do, which turns out to be writing semi-creatively or talking shit on the internet, pretty much like when I'm sober. ;)

ebola
 
ebola, I am curious because I don't know your area of study all that much. But have you ever come across a statistic that would, in short, be static as well as assessing raw intelligence? Kind of, perhaps, like a score for one's ability to boost one's IQ if one attempts (if that makes sense) to do such?
 
mmm...this is a tad of a tricky one, as I have since exited psychology, now immersed in sociological critiques of things like IQ testing. What you describe above sounds like IQ-prime (ie, a derivative (in the calculus sense) of IQ), and it might have a lot to do with where one's intelligence ends up, but it certainly isn't exhaustive of it.

I don't think that a de-contextualized (that is, non-specific and 'non-cultural') test of intelligence is possible, and I think that the very notion of non-specific intelligence is A BIT of a myth. The domain of working out abstract problems with shapes, algebraic symbols, etc. is itself a context that exhibits training-effects. It is more that people have varying abilities in different areas, these areas showing differing levels of 'responsiveness' to training vs. talent. I also think that people tend to over-emphasize the within-individual correlations between different types of cognitive prowesses and the overall role of talent.

The closest we have to measures of general intelligence, probably, are pre-training measures of digit span (size of verbal short term memory) and analogous measures of visual STM (as to whether other short term memories exist is a matter of debate). People tend not to vary a great deal from the mean, over time or from one another, but we do see 'outliers' who can 'handle' +/- 2 from the mean or so non-chunked visual or verbal objects.

ebola
 
Dude just go to the library, up in the stacks somewhere where its really quiet and get your shit done. I'm sure you can spare a few hours during each day when you're not drowning in vaginas.
Seconding this advice. In my Uni library there's an annexe on the eighth floor which is devoted to Russian and Archaeology so there's never anybody in there. I'm one of those people who needs absolute silence and no distractions to study properly so it's perfect for me :)
 
yea I've done it twice. fucking terrible idea, terrible terrible. didn't help that i was using drugs to keep me awake and studying. i was just fuckin sketched writing the exam, it was like i knew the answers, but i would think too fast and then forget what i thought of..lol

But really, I'm like the above poster, I usually reverse my sleeping schedule. I believe that studying until 12am or 1am or w/e then going to sleep and waking up to write a 9am exam is pointless. I sleep until 12am or 1am then study my ass off (of course having studied on the days leading up to the exam) until its time to go write it.

I feel I lose quite a bit of information once I go to sleep.
 
...yes, bad idea; study prior preferably on stims or coffee and take exam in similar state. Thats my routine/remedy, happy i could help! :)
 
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