ScoobySnax30
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- Nov 28, 2015
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I am 31 years old and I have Been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old daughter and a son on the way. Me and my wife first had problems about 2 years ago and decided to go to counseling a few times but It didn't really help much. Since then It has been a constant battle in my mind. At the time, Whether I liked it or not , I would convince myself that for the sake of my daughter I was not going anywhere. I convinced myself that this was my life. therefore I was on board with having another child after a few months of going back And forth with it. Things have gotten worse in recent months. I'm at the point where I am very unhappy but I fear the pain it will cause
My family if I left. Now I'm at this crossroad where I'm soo unhappy but my kids mean the world to me and I do not want to hurt them. My wife is constantly asking if things are ok with us, If I'm still attracted to her, etc. our sex life sucks but that is mainly my fault. She would do anything for me in that department but I just don't want it. Sex is not the only issue. I feel like I'm to young to be this unhappy and to Continue this for another 20 years. I know the first response will be "why did you have another child?". Again, It was a constant battle with myself. I talked myself into staying and I believed it. Kids make this sort of thing so much worse.
Don't know what to do in Ohio
My family if I left. Now I'm at this crossroad where I'm soo unhappy but my kids mean the world to me and I do not want to hurt them. My wife is constantly asking if things are ok with us, If I'm still attracted to her, etc. our sex life sucks but that is mainly my fault. She would do anything for me in that department but I just don't want it. Sex is not the only issue. I feel like I'm to young to be this unhappy and to Continue this for another 20 years. I know the first response will be "why did you have another child?". Again, It was a constant battle with myself. I talked myself into staying and I believed it. Kids make this sort of thing so much worse.
Don't know what to do in Ohio