Yes, my taper took a 8 week stay! It's REALLY shitty but it appears that's how it is with withdrawing and resetting your GABAergic system. You make it not only sound very bad (which it honestly is), but also like there are alternatives. If there would be a way around it then I'd be killing a few people over why in the relatively developed western country I live in, they are not up to date.
But yeah I understand if it's about diazepam being too different from clonazepam - so indeed the incomplete cross-tolerance. They might try to compensate for that by giving you a relatively high diazepam dose and theoretically it should work. I guess that would be the 'loading you up', for real.
What other options do you have? Have someone administer you your daily doses like a mailman? I wouldn't recommend trying it on your own, I don't know if I would have made it - probably not enough self discipline since it takes an agonizingly long time - that's a long tension curve to withstand during w/d assault.
I personally used up to 13 different benzo's including clonazepam before I quit, but I never took them recreationally - just wanted to try a lot and use each one 'appropriately' for what I thought would be most fitting for my symptoms. I didn't really go over 2-2.5 standard doses, and that is due to, but also despite tolerance which could have really shot me up so much higher in dosage if I let myself go with abuse.
Was aware of incomplete cross-tolerance, they didn't put me on unreasonably high diazepam - perhaps just reserved with regard to estimated equivalency... but I found that coming off the last bit was somehow hardest, more challenging, while in the start it was devastating but I was cared for and it was doable to get myself through it.
If you know they can care for you professionally if you have complications when switching, but I don't really know about switching becoming a really serious problem - just hard.
So what is the consideration you have left, realistically?
Not trying to persuade you even if it seems like that - it's cause you suggest many problems but I wonder about the solutions. It doesn't sound like you can keep postponing, so what options are you left with?
Addictiveness of a drug refers to the tendency of the drug to cause dependency with repeated use. Whether people abuse it recreationally or get them prescribed, that is not the point here - they end up in a similar way: dependent and in this case in taper/detox programs. We ignore for now that drug abusers and patients dependent from scripts have different motivations, but it may be more subtle than we think sometimes: self-medication, or professional medication still based on the patient having a problem that asks for medication. I think that abusers and self-medicating people may be more at risk to relapse due to circumstances, bad things happening or feeling particularly bad... patients with chronic problems may feel a more constant structural issue pressing. Internal or external triggers have different challenges, it depends which one is more serious.
In any case I wouldn't worry about wording in the article, or the semantics. It's not really the point I think, besides it is not personal and nobody is saying anything about whose fault it is - the patient's, the doctor's, the junkie's, the system's, the random bad things that happen in our lives or our psychiatric conditions.
"Detox" is getting clean, for most other drugs - as I experienced in the clinic - it's a lot faster and it's the first week or so that people are not bothered much with things and are given rest to get the drugs out of their bodies just waiting over time. I was an exception, doing that long a taper. So yes the terms can be confusing here since with benzo's the timing doesn't apply just like a number of other aspects.
No doubt about it though: I am glad I did it and it gave me strength and self-confidence, and I averted disasters for my health since other drug abuse came to a stop, incidentally or no - my main reason for going there was inability to taper and quit at home while desperate and answering to responsibility for a job etc.