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ladies, ever been offered money for sex IRL? is this common?

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What up to the old heads still around here, I see y'all ;)

Anyways, after some recent experiences I really started to wonder if I am unusual or if this shit happens to other women as a regular thing. Lemme start off by putting it very clear, I never have done anything sexual for money or drugs or whatever, and I ain't sure what would give the impression to someone that I would be interested in that . But yet more than once in the past few years, I've been propositioned by guys who offered me money to have sex or let them do some shit to me. Straight up. I don't mean someone online, Cuz people are a lot bolder online and may not always be serious So To me it's not quite the same. I'm talking a about straight up , in person, full on "hey girl, wanna come back to my house and I'll pay $____ if you let me eat your pussy/fuck you,etc" type shit.

For someone in the streets or in the dope game it's just a part of the hustle that you'd be exposed to. For someone in the industry of call girl escort stripper etc, fields that don't necessarily have any sexual contact , it seems likely that a guy could get the wrong idea because he thinks you are already for sale. Here's a analogy for what I'm saying here . If you're in a circle of drug addicts and users it really wouldnt be odd to be approached by someone offering u drugs. If you're in the hood and u look outta place it's not unusual that someone would flag u down to offer to sell to u. But if you was just walking down the street and a random stranger was like yo wanna buy some dope, you'd be like huh? That's less common.

I'm wondering how many women have been in a nonsexual situation, and been approached by someone offering to pay them for sex? Does this happen a lot? To me it just seemed so '"wtf", like , how does anyone think that shit is appropriate?

It made me think a lot about this shit and I have a lotta thoughts on it but I'm curious what other females experience has been. I'm sorry to limit this to women but I'm interested in other women's perspectives here and on how our role is. Like it didn't shock me when it happened but now that I look back and see I realize how wildly inappropriate it was. I 'll share more about my experiences once y'all start replying, I don't wanna make this post too long. Btw, I can't seem to make the search function work on my phone and I suspect this thread might a been done before But it was a long time ago so hopefully this is an ok Topic To revisit.
 
Not a woman but I can confirm that this is quite common for men to do. At least in my neighborhood. My wife has gotten propositioned like this by random people in the past. I can ask her about it later if you want me to.
 
I can confirm this has happened to me a few times, either by strangers on the street on in «regular» bars (not strip clubs)
 
I suppose in some case's the woman would say yes with enough persuasion, and perhaps its worked for them in the past on occasion, which would simply make it a numbers game among these men. It does take been 'straight to the point' to a whole new level.. there might even be a thrill/adrenaline rush involved with approaching women on the street with a proposition like this..

Not a woman, and never seen or heard of this happening.. just my guess's.
 
I'm not a woman but depending on where you live and if the guys are that brazen enough to ask if you're a prostitute I'm sure it happens more than people will admit.

Women and men I know who were into drugs like dope/h, coke, crack, or meth have told me how they were offered money for drugs, or if they were strippers for sure, or other who were just regular people who liked to go to bars they would meet people who were into kinky sex acts who said they would pay them if they would do those kinks with them-which they refused.
 
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I knew a lady friend who would trade sex for Heroin anytime and she was good in avoiding kisses or penetration. Heroin and sex do lots of damage within the years. Years later I met her and almost didn't recognize. :\
 
Fuck that's creepy.
I've never just randomly been offered money for sex, no - but I've been asked more than once if I'd give sex instead of money to pay for drugs, usually when I was trying to get them in a club or something.
(Obviously I never did)
 
In places like up in certain places in northern Alberta where women that are not prostitutes are few and far between this is very common from what i have heard. But as those places are basically camp towns anyway that's to be expected almost. But in more evenly sexed metro areas i doubt it's common at all. I mean i do know a few good looking women who have been offered to pay for their drugs with sex from dealers but as for randomly being hit up for sex i have only heard of a few stories where that happened.
 
Where does this keep happening? At the bar, at the bus stop? I've seen this sort of behavior taking place late at night, especially when alcohol is involved. But if you're at the post office or the bank it just seems strange.
 
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Fuck that's creepy.
I've never just randomly been offered money for sex, no - but I've been asked more than once if I'd give sex instead of money to pay for drugs, usually when I was trying to get them in a club or something.
(Obviously I never did)
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Same here.
 
Pagey said:
Fuck that's creepy.
I've never just randomly been offered money for sex, no - but I've been asked more than once if I'd give sex instead of money to pay for drugs, usually when I was trying to get them in a club or something.
(Obviously I never did)
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That's how it should be. Men can be grotesque in accepting trades like the one I mentioned.
I saw in a drug related documentary some interviews with hookers that did it for the drugs only.
Young men too. Very sad indeed.
 
I don't think I have. Maybe randomly by some creep. Or.. does an attempted recruiting by a pimp count? He didn't really SPECIFY the "deed" but he offered $200, a bag of week, and a new outfit. o__O I respectfully declined of course. ;)
 
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Where does this keep happening? At the bar, at the bus stop? I've seen this sort of behavior taking place late at night, especially when alcohol is involved. But if you're at the post office or the bank it just seems strange.
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Lol. For me it was at my dealers place and once at the club i was on a pill hunt and a guy offered me a couple for free if i got with him..... i took the pills and fucked off ? dont know if this was just his best attempt at a chat up line.
 
I've been offered to join an 'agency' a few times when out clubbing in Kings Cross, those who know the area know how sleazy it is ;) I said no way.
 
I wouldn't eat strange pussy let alone pay to, some people baffle me.
 
^your problem is, you're just not hungry enough. There are starving people in Africa that would kill to have a pussy to eat, no matter how 'strange' it was.

"because fuck you, that's why!.. and I like to smoke camel wides" lol
 
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when i was like 12-16 like once a month i would be awkwardly propositioned but now that im 19 & have a bitmore of a bitchy dont fuck with me attitude its only a few times a year now... lol the first few times it happened i didnt even realize what the creeps were really trying to ask!
 
Hey, I'm female, and yes I've experienced what you're talking about. Including occasionally in non-drug and non-sexual circumstance's. I've never accepted. But it happens. I could speculate why but I really don't know for sure when it comes to situations where there's little or no reason to think you might accept. Usually its just been something like offering money to suck their dick or something. Stuff like that. And yeah it is kinda creepy. Ironically id be more likely to hook up with a guy I found hot who didn't offer to pay me anything and asked over one that offered to pay me for it. It just wouldn't feel right, id regret accepting.
 
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