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Kissing part of sex or heck no too personal?

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I enjoy kissing as part of foreplay and it gets me in the mood(if it's good kissing). I find it very sensual to kiss with the person your attracted to.

I know some people think kissing is way to personal and just want to fuck instead. Or find kissing disgusting...

I though fucking and kissing was a must do!
 
Yes of course it's normal

I think heavy porn use can make people think otherwise
 
Yes, kissing is sensual and sensual sex is great within greater sensual contexts. Life would be so bland if ya found things like kissing to be gross...

Certain positions I like make kissing impossible, though. And then there is the fact that kissing during sex makes me climax real quick, so in the spirit of not making an existing problem that much worse, I may want to keep it to a minimum.
 
It's certainly not a 'must' and can depend on the situation and the guy really. I know I've had hook ups where the guy thought it was too gay to kiss (but it was pretty straight to have sex :D)
 
when you wont kiss someone you would happily fuck its a lack of respect

that is all
 
I like to kiss when I am getting fucked!

Ok, not on topic exactly but in a way exactly on topic.

I personally am at the point in my life where I wouldn't fuck someone I wouldn't kiss and it would be a huge turn off and serious red flag cuz it is kinda a whore move in the first place.

If someone is all on your jock and won't kiss you, they are probably trying to pull a fast one or they just are not into you yet want to have sex with you which is strange and I would question their motives.
 
pofacedhoe said:
when you wont kiss someone you would happily fuck its a lack of respect

that is all
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or personal choice ? I've fucked a few people that I haven't kissed - some were smokers, some weren't into it, some I didn't want to etc. There are lots of reasons why you don't have to kiss a person and of course, lack of respect is one but not the only one. Some guys just want to blow you and then get fucked - some want to be very dominant and will not allow you to kiss out of control and so on. There shouldn't have to be a tick box when it comes to sex, kiss first, cuddle, oral etc - sex should be go with the flow, what feels right at the time, what you/they want at that time etc.
 
if my partner is a woman i believe to be beautiful then kissing can be better than the orgasm, even if she's a bad kisser i will take the time to teach, the pay off is worth it...a good make out session gets me aroused harder than any groping or peeping can

if i'm just having sex because there's a fat chick consenting to it, if kissing happens it happens, but only lasts if it works and tastes good
 
Bearlove said:
or personal choice ? I've fucked a few people that I haven't kissed - some were smokers, some weren't into it, some I didn't want to etc. There are lots of reasons why you don't have to kiss a person and of course, lack of respect is one but not the only one. Some guys just want to blow you and then get fucked - some want to be very dominant and will not allow you to kiss out of control and so on. There shouldn't have to be a tick box when it comes to sex, kiss first, cuddle, oral etc - sex should be go with the flow, what feels right at the time, what you/they want at that time etc.
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I make the smokers hit up the listerine. It is kinda fucked up I have spare razors and listerine for women who are a not up to my sexual hygiene standards but no one has refused to shave or hit the listerine so I might be right. It kinda gives me the power in the dynamic off gate.
 
Kissing while having sex makes me enjoy it even more. It's passionate. This guy I'm seeing now is the best kisser I've ever had and we haven't had sex yet. But I imagine it will be amazing and I can't wait to kiss him while fucking him like crazy.
 
back when i did anonymous sex, i met this guy in a sex club and ass fucked him. afterwards, when i tried to kiss me, he refused because 'that's too inimate'
 
That makes sense to me tantric cuz it was just a quick shag.

Did you expect more than quick sex? Did you think maybe he had a concern with STDs? I am not going to get into statistics of the homosexual demographic but the STD rate is higher.

That doesn't matter cuz the straight population STD rate is high enough and well kissing can easily give you herpes simplex as in mouth/cold sores.

Right so personally if I met a woman in a club and it went right to sex I got every reason I need to not kiss her. I have kissed women on one night stands but I was young and lucky too I suppose because I don't want cold sores and I am glad I don't so I would like to keep it that way.

I keep copies of my latest blood work and if I want to have unprotected sex I need to see theirs.

But when you get into the casual fuck someone in a club category you might as well throw that blood work in the trash.

Better to be safe than sorry.
 
dopemaster said:
I like to kiss when I am getting fucked!

Ok, not on topic exactly but in a way exactly on topic.

I personally am at the point in my life where I wouldn't fuck someone I wouldn't kiss and it would be a huge turn off and serious red flag cuz it is kinda a whore move in the first place.

If someone is all on your jock and won't kiss you, they are probably trying to pull a fast one or they just are not into you yet want to have sex with you which is strange and I would question their motives.
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haha this so much
 
Ryan01 said:
Yes of course it's normal

I think heavy porn use can make people think otherwise
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This.

I'd find it a bit a bit weird if kissing was off limit. Like some kind of boundary.

If a girl didn't enjoy kissing I'd find it hard to have a relationship with her. Imagine going in for a kiss then remembering there was a strict boundary you'd just nearly crossed.

It's one of the best bits.
 
Kissing is the best part, its like the test.....it lets you know in the beginning whether you have chemistry
 
Hi,

IMHO, I have found if the man cannot kiss, and kiss well, he cannot make love well either. So, for me, they are not even getting to first base, let alone hit a home run, without that, lol. And, there will be a passionate make-out session with lots of foreplay before we have intercourse of any kind or forget it! Kissing is a prerequisite for having a sexual relationship with any man for me :).
 
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