psychedelicsoul
Bluelighter
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Now... What if I told you that our desire for a romantic partner has been instilled in us by society. We've grown up in a world that says, "all you need is love". Most of the songs made are about love, most movies/tv shows feature romance to some degree. Love, both romantic and otherwise, are a huge part of most major religions. Why would an athiest get married for any other reason than the tax bennefits? Because even they've been influenced by the christianized tradition of marriage. Marriage has been socially portrayed as something beautiful. Even if you're not of a religion, it doesn't mean the culture and traditions surrounding that religion has not had an impact on you.
Society tells you that being single for the rest of your life is a terrible thing... "You don't wanna die alone do you?" "Can't you find a wife?" "Don't you get lonely?"... This sucks for women even worse... Women who couldn't find a man used to be considered worthless. In the hindu tradition, widows were burned alive.
Now, me on the other hand.... I listen to tons of rap. And the message is clear, "bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks". When people like me talk about marriage, it's like we're talking about a disease... "Yo, you hear that dude got married?" "Damn, and she ain't even fine"
The hip hop culture has taught me that the only good a relationship will do for me is pussy... And pussy alone. It's taught me that real G's don't need love. And since I've strived to be a tough guy, i've subconsciously put those values in my mind.
But so have you...
The only difference is that the choice of words society planted in your mind... Mine are "We don't love them hoes", yours is "All you need is love". Both of use have been socially programmed to view relationships the way we do. You've grown up with the media portrayal of love and you've seen stories, both real and fictional, of the power of love. This has socially programmed you to need it.
Some people lie awake alone at night and crave the feeling of being held, and kissed, and being told "I love you". This is because society has brainwashed us into thinking that we actually need love.
So that means, that my position on women and on sex have been influenced by the society around me... But most likely, so has yours. I'm really no different from people who feel they can't live without romance.
If you feel like love is some great beautiful thing that will bring joy in your life and that you need it, then you're just as socially influenced as I am for my misogynistic tendencies.
Society tells you that being single for the rest of your life is a terrible thing... "You don't wanna die alone do you?" "Can't you find a wife?" "Don't you get lonely?"... This sucks for women even worse... Women who couldn't find a man used to be considered worthless. In the hindu tradition, widows were burned alive.
Now, me on the other hand.... I listen to tons of rap. And the message is clear, "bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks". When people like me talk about marriage, it's like we're talking about a disease... "Yo, you hear that dude got married?" "Damn, and she ain't even fine"
The hip hop culture has taught me that the only good a relationship will do for me is pussy... And pussy alone. It's taught me that real G's don't need love. And since I've strived to be a tough guy, i've subconsciously put those values in my mind.
But so have you...
The only difference is that the choice of words society planted in your mind... Mine are "We don't love them hoes", yours is "All you need is love". Both of use have been socially programmed to view relationships the way we do. You've grown up with the media portrayal of love and you've seen stories, both real and fictional, of the power of love. This has socially programmed you to need it.
Some people lie awake alone at night and crave the feeling of being held, and kissed, and being told "I love you". This is because society has brainwashed us into thinking that we actually need love.
So that means, that my position on women and on sex have been influenced by the society around me... But most likely, so has yours. I'm really no different from people who feel they can't live without romance.
If you feel like love is some great beautiful thing that will bring joy in your life and that you need it, then you're just as socially influenced as I am for my misogynistic tendencies.