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is my fetish turn on or turn off or need therapy

BadHero said:
To quote Sheryl Crow, "If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad". You like to be dominated. Some people like feet, other like hair pulling, others are into butt sex whilst some are only in to role playing.... A massive extended middle finger to anyone who tells you differently. Everyone has their kinks and it is not something to ever be ashamed or embarrassed about. If people don't like it.... Scroll on passed the thread and go and find something else to read.

Oh... and if people want to pass judgement on others, divulge your dirty secrets and let others judge you first.... Let's see how you like it.
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Amen to that. I guess that means the huge percentage of women, including myself, who have "rape" fantasies have serious issues? I call bullshit. Some people just like being dominated and OP is a masochist, as I told him earlier.

placid space, look up some info on BDSM
 
Your fetish is called femdom. Meaning you like to be dominated by females. My boyfriend loves me to do this to him. He wants to be humiliated, spit on, clean my floors, even likes being fucked with a strap on by a girl but isn't gay. Judge all u want but there are MILLIONS of men who enjoy this fetish. Go to a porn site and type in femdom and see how hard your dick gets over those videos
 
Also fetlife.com is a place for ppl all over the world to discuss their fetishes
 
femdom and role reversal are common. I like a lot of things people would consider hardcore. For example, I like being facesat, but very rough - put all your weight on my face, lean back and pinch my nipples hard, tell me you're not going to let me breathe until you (or I) cum, crush my head with your thighs, shit like that. I like having my ass played with, tho once in a while I want my woman to bust my ass, either with a dildo or her fist. Fuck me until I cry, scream, bleed, passout, cum. I enjoy being completely submissive as well as completely dominant, even switching back and forth mid-act. I love pulling hair, choking, pinning her down, fucking her like I'll never fuck anyone again. I love dirty talk - one of the hottest things I've ever heard from my gf is "I'm going to fuck you to death!" I also love being equals and spending 2+ hours just cuddling, caressing, kissing, massage. I like passionate, wild, uninhibited sex. Making love is the best tho.

No matter what happens in the bedroom, we are always equals. I think perhaps the unhealthy relationships lose sight of that.

One "fetish" I have that wasnt a fetish 30-40 years ago is hairy women. Hairy, bushy pussy, pits, legs. Some might say that my aversion to shaved pussy is weird; I'd say one who has to see a woman look like a pre-pubescent girl is the one with some mental problems.

I will do anything for my partner that doesnt involve shit, kids, corpses, or animals. What two consenting adults do is up to them.

Vanilla sex to me is like going out to an all you can eat buffet and getting just a salad every time.
 
SluttyPeach said:
Amen to that. I guess that means the huge percentage of women, including myself, who have "rape" fantasies have serious issues? I call bullshit. Some people just like being dominated and OP is a masochist, as I told him earlier.

placid space, look up some info on BDSM
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I have rape fantasies, as does my partner and when the mood takes us, we act on them.

Fantasies, fetishes, kinks, quirks, call them what you will. We all have them and some are a bit more "out there" than others. I am a firm believer that you have to try it at least twice before you say you don't like it. When I first met my partner, I told him that, on occasion, I liked very rough sex. He had never tried it. One night I asked him to spank me, bite me, pull my hair, choke me and he did... He also apologised afterwards!!! We tried it again and he afterwards he said he really liked being so dominant. He also likes being dominated.

I am a switch so I am into dom and sub roles. I think the world should embrace their kinks.... It might be a happier place if people weren't so closed minded to new ideas!!!
 
Bingo. I'm a medical admin and I oversee 90 employees. I love a getaway with a couple of adderall a professional escort that gets the fetish and I masturbate and get verbally humiliated,
 
Sounds completely normal to me. Hell I have similar sexual desires myself. Not so much into embarrassment and humiliation. But rough stuff, having a guy be forceful and strong and dominating is a serious turn on for me. As it is for probably most women I suspect, so much so I dunno if I'd even count it as a fetish. In men it's probably much less common though.

Seriously placid space, in the world of sex, this is really very tame. Having sexual fetishes like this can't be abnormal since it's so ridiculously common. People don't admit it, but anyone with experience and eyes and an interest in it knows it's ubiquitous. So either it's normal and healthy, or being unhealthy and emotionally damaged IS normal.

As for where we draw the line between consenting adults? When someone's at high risk of serious injury or death. Then there's cause for concern. If it doesn't hurt anyone and all parties consent though. There's no line to be drawn. Everything is permitted.
 
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