AlwaysRight
Greenlighter
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- Jan 23, 2018
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Hello,
Right so I?ve been with my partner for just over 3 years, sex has always been a bit of a ?taboo? with us. I am very sexually active and would happily do it everyday (although let?s make this clear I do not expect that!), my partner on the other hand very rarely wants sex. She has told me numerous times it is nothing to do with performance etc. She doesn?t doesn?t crave it like I do.
This is obviously putting pressure on our relationship, it?s got to the point where I no longer wish to try it on with her out of fear of rejection... which happens 9 times out of 10. I 100% trust her - I know she isn?t getting it elsewhere she does never wants it.
The problem is now she has started using it as a weapon against me, so if we have an argument or have a disagreement and I were to make a move later on that day/night she will tell me ?no, you?re not having sex after we have argued? or something along hem lines.
I will pleasure myself most times now just avoid disappointment and rejection which she then says I shouldn?t be doing that as it?s disgusting....
Has anyone else been in this situation? Have any tips to share? Or am I just wrong for wanting sex a lot of the time...
Right so I?ve been with my partner for just over 3 years, sex has always been a bit of a ?taboo? with us. I am very sexually active and would happily do it everyday (although let?s make this clear I do not expect that!), my partner on the other hand very rarely wants sex. She has told me numerous times it is nothing to do with performance etc. She doesn?t doesn?t crave it like I do.
This is obviously putting pressure on our relationship, it?s got to the point where I no longer wish to try it on with her out of fear of rejection... which happens 9 times out of 10. I 100% trust her - I know she isn?t getting it elsewhere she does never wants it.
The problem is now she has started using it as a weapon against me, so if we have an argument or have a disagreement and I were to make a move later on that day/night she will tell me ?no, you?re not having sex after we have argued? or something along hem lines.
I will pleasure myself most times now just avoid disappointment and rejection which she then says I shouldn?t be doing that as it?s disgusting....
Has anyone else been in this situation? Have any tips to share? Or am I just wrong for wanting sex a lot of the time...