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Im a straight 23yo and i really want to suck dick

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Californiaayxj

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Lately i just cant stop thinking about sucking a fat cock i have become obsessed and i dont know what to do. I am straight i have a girlfriend and i have never done anything with a man before. although i do sometimes watch gay porn but only if its blowjob videos everything else gay grosses me out exept sucking cock and i have a friend one who i think would let me suck his but i really dont want people to know. hes gay and we have been friends since 9th. I dont know how to go about asking him if i can suck his cock but lately my fantasizeing hasnt been enough and i just really want to know what it would be like what how should i go about this
 
Well, first off, GOOD FOR YOU for being so comfortable with your sexuality. That's really awesome.

Second, perhaps maybe you can invite him over to your place for drinks or something. Then when you guys get a little buzz going on, try to flirt with him a little bit, play around with the idea of kissing him and going down on him, get him turned on, be subtle at first and then slowly build up your courage and make your move.

Afterwards, make sure to tell him things stay between you and him, hopefully he's not a blabber mouth.;)
 
cant say it feels good to be used to play out someone elses fantasy. kind of selfish.

it will also tarnish the friendship for a while
 
pofacedhoe said:
cant say it feels good to be used to play out someone elses fantasy. kind of selfish.

it will also tarnish the friendship for a while
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so, by that logic, enabling others to have their fantasy would be selfless, yes? Heaven here I come lol. anyway... if OP comes back here, you better practice on something like what you want to see, because I can tell you getting a BJ from someone who is fucking clueless is awful. Be willing to take direction, and dont take offense. Also, you need to find someone other than your friend. I realize he's probably safe (from a rejection standpoint) and convenient, but your friendship probably will change. I say probably because I managed to do this once with a straight/curious friend, and after that day nothing else was said about it, nothing changed. Its possible but improbable. What if you are good and your gay friend takes more than a friendly interest in you?
 
You're bisexual just accept it and enjoy it. Find someone else to have sex with besides your friend, as this will ruin your friendship.

As for finding someone else go to an LGBT bar or dance club, or go to any number of sites.
 
Maybe if men can suck their own dicks easily then this would never be looked at in any bisexual manner. If it was easy for humans to give themselves oral then this type of thing wouldn't be considered taboo.
 
will your girlfriend be okay with this? like, if she cheated on you would you be okay with it? would you be okay with her licking out another girl (not in front of you)? if yes, would she consider it as the same?

then again, if youre not that serious or bothered about her then go for it.

and dont suck off your friend if itll make shit weird, go to a gay bar. i swear i wish i was gay sometimes because (a lot of) gay men are so fucking forthcoming!
 
Well he is into tranys but idk of he would be into me and im scared of stds i know him and i dont think he would have any but on the other hand i am afraid of him telling anyone and going to a gay bar isn't really possible for me because i use to hang out with my friend who hangs out with trannys and they would recognize me i just want to suck a dick completely anonymously
 
You're a bit more than bi-curious. You shouldn't have sex with your FRIEND (doesn't men you can't). But you can TALK to him about it... he may know someone nice and safe... give your pointers and input.

Go to another gay bar. Or do the online-thing (could be dangerous) or a gay spa (could be dangerous).

Talk to your gay friend first, but also talk to your girlfriend and get that sorted out. Don't be a cheater.
 
Californiaayxj said:
Lately i just cant stop thinking about sucking a fat cock i have become obsessed and i dont know what to do. I am straight i have a girlfriend and i have never done anything with a man before. although i do sometimes watch gay porn but only if its blowjob videos everything else gay grosses me out exept sucking cock and i have a friend one who i think would let me suck his but i really dont want people to know. hes gay and we have been friends since 9th. I dont know how to go about asking him if i can suck his cock but lately my fantasizeing hasnt been enough and i just really want to know what it would be like what how should i go about this
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You are clearly not hetro, if your having these urges. For the decency of your current relationship with your girlfriend, u may have to express this it to her, not only is it still cheating but its selfish and you are still playing with her feelings if she finds out. Just put yourself in her shoes. Her hetro boyfriend who she may of love for a long time decides to want to suck cock, it puts her in the position of feeling betrayed and and a feeling just downright stupid. Your playing with fire with this one if you ask me. Either come out with the truth to her or keep it bottled up.

Out of interested are u on any heavy drugs? This could be your culprit.
 
Hypersexed. Google it. You been watchin to much porn bro. Youre not gay, ur most likely not even bi. Its just "different" . If you were, u woulda liked guys alot earlier. . . lay off the weed and ur girl will be fun to screw again soon.. good luck
 
Kid Amine said:
so, by that logic, enabling others to have their fantasy would be selfless, yes?
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jump logical fallacy

sex is a two way non binary process. using someone to fill your fantasy is selfish but the person who consents to being used at some point is getting something out of it, just maybe the raw end of deal
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
As for finding someone else go to an LGBT bar or dance club.
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This. All day.

Don't make things weird with your friend. Gay bars are literally filled with dudes who love experimenting with straight/bi guys. Go have a drink, chat up someone cute and you will have a dick in your mouth in no time.
 
Californiaayxj : A beer please (pays for it, drinking it at the bar)
Dude: You're new and cute whats your name?
Californiaayxj : Califonria
Dude: What bring you here?
Californiaayxj : I never done it before, but with advice from a Priest and a Queenbee I came here to suck some D~ (gag)
Dude: What the teeth, boy.

Kidding, I doubt it would be that fast.

Seriously tho, if you get hard and think about women - you're hetro with homosexual fantasies or bisexual... Talk to your friend wouldn't hurt.

 
I have the same feelings about sucking a guy off, I recently paid a guy to let me jack him off, it was the first time I ever touched another man's cock. When he came I opened my mouth and shot cum all over my face but never put his cock in my mouth, but some of his cum did go in my mouth. Next time I will suck it and swallow all of his load.
 
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I wouldn't say that you're gay maybe bi curious and inquisitive as to what it would feel like.

There's nothing wrong with this, however, you probably don't want to be sucking your friends cock, it will undoubtedly ruin your friendship. Go to a gay bar, meet likeminded individuals and go with the flow.

Secondly, you need to be honest with your girlfriend if you want to take your fantasy any further. Cheating is still cheating no matter what sex you are. It wouldn't be fair on her at all.

Take care and I hope you find what you're looking for x
 
I am a bit older and feel exactly like you. I have a major urge to suck a cock. I love the look of a nice cock but anything else with a man does nothing for me. I am pretty sure if I found a glory hole close by...I would set up camp. :)
 
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