what? its anonymous sex. for me, 80% of the time it was bad or i didn't go through with it, because his pic was 20yrs old, of someone else or somesuch (never reward people for lying) or because when i got there he was covered in cologne and i couldn't manage to maneuver him into a shower. if its good, its usually a closet straight guy, hot and desperate for it. it's not different from a manhunt or adam4adam hookup, really, just emails instead of chat.
i don't do that shit anymore, it's just suffering. plus, since i changed my profile on the hookup sites to say i'm a convicted felon and i don't do casual sex, well, its like holding up a bone to a dog on a chain. funny, actually. and i meet much better people.
btw, you aren't a female looking for men, are you? that strikes me as insane.