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I fell for an Escort, what should I do?

Just keep it to dick fucking, let her cunt fuck you and you pay her, no feelings here, end of the day they are doing it for money. Remember that
 
Nothing wrong with this. As long as their work doesn't cause an issue all is well.
I have dated many "types" and they are all just people. We all need someone to share with regardless of "station".
Now if you go broke and there is no love run like a mf.
 
evo4ever said:
Yeah it really hurts cos she played with my emotions and let me get close to her! I mean WTF!! And it actually felt mutual, its a fucked up situation!
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I don't know her and I'm mistrustful of women, but this does not sound like it is what has happend.

I think that the fair sex is actually smarter about relationships than we are, and they can sniff out a problem down the line before we can. What is her problem? Angry ex-boyfriend, her father is trying to make her move across the country, her dog ran away...

...whatever it is, she's not telling us. But it doesn't sound like she used you at all. Sounds like she likes you but she spotted a problem, and now she's being a little kid about it. I have no idea what you should do next but I wouldn't assume that she lead you on or hates you. Good luck fellow adventurer!
 
RedRum OG said:
It seems like you already know the likely outcome and are hoping for something else.

Sucks to be lonely, but sucks even more to be jerked around. Dont get your feelings involved with prostitutes; it never ends well. I would recommend you completely stop seeing her and talking to her.
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Words of wisdom
 
evo4ever said:
Hello all.

This might be a long story so bare with me...

Two weeks ago I invited an Escort to my house for the first time in my life, she was good looking and had a nice personality and I paid her to stay for only 3 hours, we were intimate and had sex. A week later I invited her to my house again for 4 hours but this time we were so into each other she stayed all night without any extra money and I asked her out on a date and she accepted and she invited me to her house (as a date not a client) on the Wednesday. When she went home at 7am we continued to text each other saying that she couldn't wait to see me again and that she'll have to meet my mum. Bare in mind guys we mutually developed feelings for each other. As the days go on she starts to become more and more distant complaining that shes not well which is actually the truth btw and she tells me not to come to hers on the Wednesday cos shes not well enough and shes lost her voice so no fone calls. We rearrange for me to go to hers next Wednesday (as dates btw) and she agrees, but again she becoming even more distant to a point where shes not returning my text messages. Whats going on with this girl guys? I dont want to keep texting her or call her as I don't want to come across as desperate or creepy, why would she agree to stay at my house all night without any extra money, say she likes me and agrees to date me and then be like this? Help appreciated!

EDIT: She even tells me her real name, and sends me pics of her kids via whatsapp, all kinds of personal info which is a big no no for an Escort.

I need to talk about this to someone like my family or friends cos its really tearing me up but its too embarrassing cos shes an Escort.
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Take it from a former escort. She’s playing you, my dude. I’m sorry to say.
 
I hangout with a girl I found in an escort ad. I was drunk and kept texting every number I saw on a certain online page, something like "what are you up to?". Next morning a number responds, we kept chatting and made plans to meet up at a driving range. We hit some balls, got along, went to eat and then she invites me over her friends house for for Sunday dinner. Followed her over to a house and it was actually a big family type dinner going on, got along with everyone there. At one point her friend pulls me aside and gives me a lecture about not hurting her, how she's a great person and she had a rough life etc. After that she followed me home, she spent the night, then after that she would come over once or twice a week and stay over. We had some fun, it was mostly sex. We lived far apart, that first day we both drove an hour to meet in the middle. So it really wasn't going to work out, plus I wasn't looking for more than friends. Obviously since I was drunk texting escorts at 2am. I think we both just happen to be lonely and looking for someone to make each other feel good. There was no talking about feelings, or the future. It was how was your day, lets fuck.
 
I forgot to give my advice. My advice is always do what you want to do, be yourself, and don't regret your decisions. If it doesn't work out at least you know you gave it your best shot and she's not the one for you. Call up another escort and try again.
 
evo4ever said:
I'm 35 in a few weeks and I've been single for 5 years now and I'm starting to panic as I'm not getting any younger. I'm worried sick about growing old lonely and single which will lead to major depression or worse! I'm sure you understand the situation I'm in.
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Yep, I’m 44 and single and get what you mean. Had an 11 year relationship fall apart in 2018 and since then have had 4 short relationships (one of whom I truly loved) and a couple of flings. Before the last one I’d made a pact with myself to not get into anything for at least a year to just work on myself and my relationship with my daughter. This turned into 1.5yrs and did me the world of good.

Then I went and fell head over heels in love. Then had a relapse with my bipolar and she left me within a few weeks. Couldn’t handle it.

So now I’m alone again and having to adjust while my heart heals. The fact is, and it’s a cliche but true, you really have to get used to your own company and love yourself first. And even then maybe you won’t find someone 🤷🏻 However, it’s def better being alone than with someone you’ll grow to resent.
 
it doesnt bother u like if u dated her you'd be fine with her getting piped by all these dudes? i mean it sounds like u actually care about this woman so yeah as someone who ghosts ppl sometimes its bc at the time u might felt like that but not no more and she might not even be dumping u but she could be insecure its a lot of possibilities but lmao man u just gotta jeep ur head up fam u knoW WHAT u need? hit up a diff chick and bang a different escort every few days till u forget about her
 
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