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I think the term "functional" is misleading for a couple of reasons. First, like a lot of stuff, this is really more of a spectrum than a black/white dichotomy. I taught children for years as a Heroin addict meanwhile girls and friends found me to be incapable of actually being present. Even if I wasn't robbing people, neglecting people that you invite into your life can cause damage all on its own by making them feel worthless.
It's all just my opinion, but I feel that you always are sacrificing something. It could be money, true love and affection, connecting with the world around you etc. I could never trust anyone no matter how hard I tried. I viewed the entire world and most of its people as essentially fake. Heroin takes a lot, but as a friend, at least it never lied to me and the ground rules were established early on in the relationship. I've been an IV user since about 15-16 and my relationship with Heroin has more or less defined my view of relationships in general. As you might expect, I'm a well-adjusted adult with a wife I hate, a mistress blackmailing me and my "me time" is spent playing golf while contemplating suicide, which is the American dream.
It's all just my opinion, but I feel that you always are sacrificing something. It could be money, true love and affection, connecting with the world around you etc. I could never trust anyone no matter how hard I tried. I viewed the entire world and most of its people as essentially fake. Heroin takes a lot, but as a friend, at least it never lied to me and the ground rules were established early on in the relationship. I've been an IV user since about 15-16 and my relationship with Heroin has more or less defined my view of relationships in general. As you might expect, I'm a well-adjusted adult with a wife I hate, a mistress blackmailing me and my "me time" is spent playing golf while contemplating suicide, which is the American dream.