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I am 100% sure I am NOT GAY...but why do I find it so unattracitive? Anyone the same?

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Junks

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Hey there, I hope this does not offend anyone, so if you are easily offended please do not read my post.

I am a male who loves every single part of the female body. I love the way their voices sound, the way they move, EVERYTHING, and my penis gets very quickly erect once I start to touch a female intimately. I am not gay, that is 100%. My penis does not budge when I am with males, when I wrestle with my friends etc, but the mere sight of a female and a small touch and I am up and get the butterfly feelings etc...

I have only had sex a few times, and without going into detail, I had not physically seen the female genitals properly, due to lighting and basically the only activity being kissing, touching and then straight to sex. Now, for the first time, I have a proper girl who I mess around with in a bedroom with proper lighting.

The thing is, and I know this is going to sound wrong, but I am totally NOT ATTRACTED to her VAGINA. I love her breasts and the rest of her body. I love her ass and belly, but once I get a good look at her vagina, I get turned off badly...like almost disgusted. I can not go down there for oral sex and if I watch myself penetrating it, I get turned off. The only way I can have sex without becoming disgusted is by just inserting my penis and then not looking and just enjoy the feeling....


I am starting to get a little worried...I dunno, I have looked at other vaginas on the net, and yes, I do not find them appealing at all...not even a bit. They just really disgust me for some reason.

Is this normal? Does anyone else who is straight have a problem looking at or putting face/tongue near it? Is this normal? What should I do? It worries me because I know males are supposed to love sex and vaginas. I love sex, but can't stand how the anatomy looks...anyone have anything similar? I mean, balls and dicks are also disgusting and look so weird. Do females find them gross? How can they suck them without throwing up?

Sorry if my post offended anyone, but I offend myself and I am also disappointed in how I feel, as I LOVE everything about them, even their pesky attitudes...
 
There is nothing wrong with you..it is not totally abnormal. I think a penis is ugly...but sexy. Maybe that does not make sense. Maybe when you get a little older/more experience it won't bother you so much.
 
Maybe she just has a nasty looking va-jay-jay? :\ Hah. I've seen some gnarly ones before.
 
Without getting into labels, without defining what makes a female a female, or what makes a straight person straight.....one thing is for sure....you clearly do not like this girls vaginas based upon what you have said here....and you do not seem to like vagina based upon the pictures you have seen. Any other conclusions I won't make for you but I will finish with saying genitals are not the end all-be all of attraction....and attraction to a partners genitals can grow with time, as other feelings grow.
 
I feel similarly about breasts, actually. I mean, I don't dislike them or think that they are ugly, but often times I think that the male chest is more aesthetically-appealing (I am not bi, but I do have an artist's appreciation for both the male and female body). So low-cut shirts and the like don't do much for me. A girl cannot really tease RedLeader with her beasts. Everything below the breasts, though...8o
 
hmmmm.... some are more attractive than others. I still really enjoy giving a woman head.

To me it is more about pleasing that someone.

It has been so long I would be happy with what was available for fun time.

:)
 
Look at the bouncing tits and her face. Problem solved. Isn't that what you're supposed to be doing anyway?
 
^^^^ or look at her looking up at you while she's sucking you off. Damn Im getting a hard on now thinking about it
 
Yeah, bumping uglies haha lol. That about describes it well.

My problem is that the female of the human species is so sexy and seductive, every part of her body physically is so attractive to me, but then the part that you are meant to be most interested in, turns out to be alien looking and not appealing at all...it just does not make sense, and am wondering if I am the odd one out, seems probably not?

I mean do women know that their private doesn't look that pretty? This is going to sound weird, but I swear her asshole looks more appealing and if it wasn't so dark colored, perhaps should of been how a vagina should of looked? But then how is she meant to push out a kid? lol haha, weird shit..
 
The only people I've met who are disgusted by vaginas have been heterosexual women and homosexual men. I'm not implying this makes you homosexual, I'm just letting you know my experience.

I find excessively long labia (minora's) to be offputting, and prefer innies and small labias to longer, droopy meat pigs.
I find pubic hair to be more attractive than shaven. I find big plump juicy labia (majora) to be attractive.
I find the smell of a vagina to be the most appealing sense it offers. I find vagina to be an ugly word for a beautiful thing.
I think watching a vagina squeeze tightly around a cock, you know when it pulls out and pushes in with the cock, especially in doggy to be the most attractive a vagina can get.

There's more to vaginas than an axe wound between the legs. Learn the subtleties and differences before writing them off.

Biologically speaking, vaginas with their periods and self-cleaning are pretty off-putting, but that's not the discussion at hand.

Do women know their privates are unattractive? No, because they're not. It's not that vaginas are unattractive, it's that you're not attracted to them.
I could say the same about anything, but I just wanted to make sure it was clear.

You don't have to adore vagina to be with (and please) a woman. You're not homosexual.

There's nothing wrong with disliking things society tells you to be sexually attracted to.
I think breasts and vaginas are overrated. I think feet (and the entire leg) are underrated.
I think the only people this sort of shit matters to are your sexual partners (and yourself)
 
There are a lot of gross looking penises out there too. Private parts are not all created equal.. Ha. There are plenty of girls who love men and penis, but are repulsed by certain ones.. (crooked, discolored, etc.)

So I think this is a pretty normal feeling for both males and females.
 
Junks said:
I am starting to get a little worried...I dunno, I have looked at other vaginas on the net, and yes, I do not find them appealing at all...not even a bit. They just really disgust me for some reason
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What does that have to do with the OP?
It's not a particular vagina, it's vagina itself.
 
Try the anus?

Also you may just be used to seeing gaping mutilated vaginas that have been fucked a lot like in porno. How much experience does the girl have?
 
I would say watch some pussy porn or something. (not that porn-pussies are always pretty)

you can desensitize over time to how viewing unattractive images make you react, and in this case, it's worth it.
 
My gf finds men's bollocks and nearly all penis's revolting to look at. She also happens to be a seriously heterosexual sex loving person.
Beauty is not skin deep.
 
Abject said:
The only people I've met who are disgusted by vaginas have been heterosexual women and homosexual men. I'm not implying this makes you homosexual, I'm just letting you know my experience.


Do women know their privates are unattractive? No, because they're not. It's not that vaginas are unattractive, it's that you're not attracted to them.

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Your post is sort of contradicting. Do you mean only lesbian women find them unattractive or do you mean the heterosexual women find other women's vaginas unattractive, but see their own as attractive? (sort of like how fat girls think they are hot, but see the smallest of faults in other girls?)

Mr.Scagnattie said:
There are a lot of gross looking penises out there too. Private parts are not all created equal.. Ha. There are plenty of girls who love men and penis, but are repulsed by certain ones.. (crooked, discolored, etc.)

So I think this is a pretty normal feeling for both males and females.
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Ye, I think penises are very disgusting to look at, but they are not as complicated as vaginas and since I also don't have a vagina, that makes them even more complicated. My girl has had a few boyfriends before, but is not a whore who has slept around too much (not to my knowledge anyway). This is the first time in which I have had someone in my own house with as much time and lighting as I want. My other experiences were limited to cars, hotels, bedrooms that were not mine and women that were not really my girlfriends or into exploring, just plain sex or blowjobs for me. I had one girl ask me once if I had ever given girl head.

The thing that gets to me most, is how sexy I find females. I find them so god damn hot an appealing. Almost all women I see I find hot in some way, but just the god damn part I am meant to enjoy most has to fuckn look like an alien. This is what upsets me a lot.

One of the posters above mentioned an "innie" vagina. This is indeed what I am talking about. There are vaginas in which they are outies. My girl is an outie. These are the ones that I find most disgusting and I WILL NEVER LICK ONE, yuck. It looks like two beef jerky meat hanging on each side of the vagina. Reminds me of what a testicle and beef jerky mutation would look like, fucking yuck man. Then there is the innie. I have looked into some porn with a girl that has an innie, and these vaginas look a little more appealing. Still alien, but Ii could see myself licking one once I get over my phobia. But the outie, no fucking way every. I don't even want to see my dick go into it as she sits on top and helps me put it in.

So shattering, as I am a fucking horny animal.
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