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How to tame a EX-Virgin who just lost her virginty?

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westbank23

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im 30 and she's 27,we've been togather for 2 years and have been married for a month..(the reason why I think I was able to go 2 years without sex is because I was full of oxycotin pills LOLOLOL im clean now).
Anyways we've been married for a month now and we've been haveing sex about 6-10 times a day and I'm just really really exhausted and tired and sleepy..I kind of blame myself for teaching her a whole crap load of sex positions within the first 2 weeks and now she just keeps on wanting to have sex..sometimes I just want to roll over and give it to her missionary because I'm so tired,but she doesn't want that,she wants some of the positions i taught her..I tried saying no and to be honest she doesn't take No for an answer and will almost cross the line between consensual sex and RAPE..if I say no she gives me oral and then she jumps ontop of me..
Sometimes when I say NO she gets kind of offended,she thinks I don't want her but I tried to explain to her that we have sex to damn much..
We're on a 2 month vacation and we're always togather so it's not like I can run away and say im going to work,shit I wish I can go back to work because I need a break and I'm going broke lol..
Anyways we have a month left and I really want to enjoy my vacation instead of have sex from morning to night..
 
Oh wow, lol. At least you know you're good in bed... Lmao. First off, I would put my foot down on the whole "no means no" thing. If you're not interested and she knows that you're not then she should not be going down on you. Get up and walk away if you have to. Second you should explain to her in a level headed manner that you are tired and don't want to have sex anymore, 6-10 times a day, everyday is a lot.

Besides the fact that you're body is tired you're probably satisfied after the first couple of times, and don't feel the need to fuck anymore, tell her that also. She has really unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex. If she's not going to listen to your side of things then she is being unfair and there are certainly communication issues that need to be resolved.
 
Wait so you guys abstained from sex for 2 years, got married and now she's gone complete nympho???

What made you guys wait? Pre-marital sex principles? Depending on what principles you follow.. maybe you could chose a friend to help offload some of your wife's libido.
 
This is when you get another guy off the bench to take over.

A threesome will totally blow her mind.
 
Buy a Hitachi. If she gets really insistent on wanting the banging, use that on her until she's so done with orgasms she can't move.

Literally all you have to do is hold it in place and give her a smouldering stare. Maybe throw in a few "damn, you're hot as fuck"s here and there.
 
Or buy her a Sybian... only $1350. The gift that keeps on giving.
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Clitnhawk said:
This is when you get another guy off the bench to take over.

A threesome will totally blow her mind.
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This is what I would do personally. I lack the jealousy gene though that most men seem to have when it comes to their women.
I don't expect my partners to screw me and only me. I doubt I alone am capable of providing for all the urges of a single individual; nor do I expect a single individual to provide me with all the wants/needs i have.
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
This is what I would do personally. I lack the jealousy gene though that most men seem to have when it comes to their women.
I don't expect my partners to screw me and only me. I doubt I alone am capable of providing for all the urges of a single individual; nor do I expect a single individual to provide me with all the wants/needs i have.
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this has always interested me. I'm a women, but I seem to have that "jealously gene" in me. I can't understand how anyone would be comfortable sharing their SO when it comes to sex O.O not that I see it as immoral I just wouldn't feel comfortable, I practise monogamy and only monogamy. Haven't even hooked up before, not that I wouldn't like to try one day :p
 
Let me have a go at her when you are on down time. I haven't had sex for a long time. And also i don't know how you go that many times man, usually if i bust a nutt. My Horniness is gone for the whole day..
 
you have a nympho. Enjoy it, stop complaining.

If you want to tame her, fuck her until she's unconscious. Try to break her in half. Make her walk funny. or fingerbang her until she's spent. some women can come upwards of 100x per hour. you gotta wear her out. and it isnt that hard, you dont even need to take of your pants to give a woman a dozen+ orgasms in 20 minutes. Watch a video on how to do it right (I cant find one atm, but they are about 3 minutes long lol) Just dont go too hard at first, and dont be surprised if she squirts, passes out, or has what looks like a seizure (the last two freaked me the fuck out the first time I saw them).

eta: for a short description of the technique: placing your hand palm up, curl back your ring and pinky fingers to your palm, so that only your index and pointer fingers are straight out. Place them in her vagina. Now curl those fingers up - feel that spongy pad? that's her g-spot. You can massage that for a minute, using your thumb to rub her clit. Keep your fingers together, then splay them apart, like making a peace sign inside her, and back.

Instead of moving in/out straight in, you move those two fingers in almost a vertical motion, placing a lot of pressure (and pleasure) on her G-spot. When she is nearing orgasm, you can just about move your fingers as fast and hard as humanly possibly, causing one HELL of an orgasm. Let her recover for 30-60 seconds, then do it again, dont stop when she comes, stop when she says stop or physically grabs your hand.

Once you master that technique, most women are a puddle of spent.
 
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Meow1243 said:
this has always interested me. I'm a women, but I seem to have that "jealously gene" in me. I can't understand how anyone would be comfortable sharing their SO when it comes to sex O.O not that I see it as immoral I just wouldn't feel comfortable, I practise monogamy and only monogamy. Haven't even hooked up before, not that I wouldn't like to try one day :p
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I used to think that I was jealous.. but I began to realize that I wasn't jealous because I was sharing my woman with other men (I was a sub/pet) I was upset because she was purposely using them against me as a form of emotional/psychological torture/abuse. To add to this of course, I was not allowed to have sex with anyone else.
There is a lot more to the story; but after 7 years I recently broke up with her and I am looking to explore since she is the only one I've been with sexually (aside from 2 brief instances with men)

I grew used to the idea of sharing a partner and now it even turns me on. I would still ask for respect in any form of relationship; use protection and don't sneak around behind my back (3somes encouraged, but I don't NEED to be there to be okay with them being together)
 
Ok first:sharing my wife is out the question LOLOLOL im not the jelous type and to be honest I thought about sharing my past girlfriends but not this one lol no way I'm sharing her she's all mines..

2nd: toys are on the menu,we just have to wait Untill we get back to the states

3: @kid ,great advice and I'll consider it all

4:we have a problem,her lady part got infected,we went to the doctor out here where im at and they said NO sex untill the infection is gone..they gave her some cream to use..
To be honest,when the doctor came back in the room and said "you have an infection"my heart sank and I panicked BIG TIME..I thought I gave her an STD but then I thought about it and I said that can't be possible because I got checked 2 times during the 2 years I was with my wife and my results came back Negtive both times..
Now it's sad to say but I'm not no stranger to STDs,I've been burnt a couple times with the common STDs "ghonnaria and clymida" but I was treated a long time ago..im still kind of nervous because currently where im at,STDs are not really widespread as in america and I don't think the doctors no to much about STDs..whatever it is im sure it's not to serious,I even showed my wife my STD report card before we got married and she got one done as well just for the hell of it and showed it to me..
 
1: In 5~10 years, things change ;)
2: toys toys
3: Kid is cool
4: STD infection or a non STD infection? What is it?

Ever been to / see / know about bachelor and bachelorette parties? Sometimes, the groom or bride does a stripper... or they have a one last fling before going down the isle (it doesn't count for some reason)... ;)
 
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yeah its a blessing in disguise.

op-you literally get what you want.

anyway get her some toys back in us.

she has allegedly denied sex for a loooooong time. wouldn't you go crazy for it too in such circumstance?
 
So you took the saving it for marriage line; hook, line, and sinker eh? Fuck that is brutal. I woulda said something like "since we are getting married we might as well start having sex now" and have done so even though I never married.

I had a chick that would demand sex when I was really tired so she would just blow me and ride my cock. She had not been with a man in years, just a few women so yeah she was ultra horny.

She would show up at like 2 or 3 am when I had to get up in the morning and expect sex and I am just like "Bitch I am sleeping" but no she would just have her way with me. Thing is I can be asleep and have light conversations which I do no remember and so on. I am not a morning person to say the least.

I don't get why she got so mad when I would fall asleep.

OK I am going to stop making this about me. She should calm down a bit. Since you took her V card she is gonna always have this weird attachment. It could be worse and she would insist on missionary and be reluctant to try more things.

Just give it time.

If you buy her sex toys, which you should, get her something that doesn't penetrate like an "egg vibrator." Whatever you do, don't let her use a dildo bigger than your cock. Some porn shops can make a mold of your genitals and a sex toy for your partner. It is kind of expensive but I think it is good for people in long term relationships such as marriage. So when she masturbates she is using a replica of your cock. Isn't that cute; matching genital molds that is.
 
Also with a molded dildo of your own cock, you can do double penetration without a 2nd guy!

Yep, losing the V at older ages is more... more - something, depending on the person. More horny or More close or more scared. I wonder how many of them say "awe SHIT, I could have been doing this for years!"

I have a buddy dating a young woman who is a virgin, so he can't have her until they are married in about 1-2 years.

Oh well.
 
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I find if you pop a woman's cherry she becomes a level 5 clinger instantly.
 
And that is why I lost my v card to a woman who was basically a whore.

Never spoke to her again except for the occasional drug deal.
 
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