How soon is too soon for second date?

[max_]

I met this girl online and we had a date earlier today. I liked her and I want to ask her out tomorrow to band. I would prefer waiting but the band is really good and it's tomorrow.

 

[Ds]

What if shes thinking right now of the fun time she had with you on your previous date with her and she cant wait until you ask her out again! I am sure that if you both had a really good time together then why not make it stretch a little bit longer. You want to build on the relationship like you are doing now.

I don't see any problem you asking her out again, ,,then again I hear about this '72'hr rule, which means it is good to wait a few days before asking her out again.

I say go for it bub!

 

[SamanthaB]

I agree with D. Besides, if you felt you had a good time, chances are she did too. If she did she will be excited that you asked her out again so quickly. It is never to early for a second date, Go for it!! Let us know how it turned out.

 

[alasdairm]

one date and you're already playing games? you want to ask her out to see a band then ask her out...

alasdair

 

[bomber]

Why would there be a timelimit about this? Just go to see the band and have a good time. If she judges you for asking her out too soon, she is stupid and doesn't worth it anyway.

 

[Asclepius]

one date and you're already playing games? you want to ask her out to see a band then ask her out...

alasdair

This. Slightly.

You want company and pleasure. Go for it! If it works out it does, if not, there is always moving-on. Enjoy your night; either way.

 

[pofacedhoe]

go for it.

you either win or lose.

if you dont try thats losing by default