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How many straight guys would let a guy suck them off?

PriestTheyCalledHim said:
How is that guy actually hetero or straight if he had sex with a man? A marriage, wife, and kids don't mean anything especially if he's cheating on his wife with men. He's either bisexual or gay.
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The same way some guys (even presidential-type guys) conveniently don't believe their actually having sex with someone unless there's penetration involved, maybe?!

As f------ up as it sounds, I've known quite a few married guys that managed to convince themselves doing it with another guy didn't count since it was purely physical with no emotional involvement with another female... ie; desert without having to buy the dinner and drinks...:?
 
UB6IB9nATL said:
Lol, funny you would assume me to be the fuckee! (Usually the Alpha here...%))
Anything's possible in the right situation, but it was mostly mutual BJs.
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Lol, sorry, I shouldn't have made any assumptions. :)

So they were sucking you as well as being sucked, and publicly were just dating girls? Interesting.
 
I'm straight I've gotten head by my friend thats a girl her man multiple times and I've sucked cock more than I can remember my wife forces me to suck cocks
 
More guys on bluelight--whose users tend to be much more progressive, open-minded and liberal than the general population--probably would let another guy go down on them in the right set / setting, yes. However, in such situation, the "straight" guy often gets regretful afterwards and / or gets paranoid about being found out by his boss, family, wife, or girlfriend and cuts all ties off with the gay fellatio giver. Alas, such a situation has happened to me more than once, and it sucks even more because you lose both a lover and, in the case of FWBs, usually a really good friend / drug buddy as well in the process. Also, being heretofore treated like an invisible, malevolent pariah sucks as well.
 
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I like the idea of the Kinsey scale. Basically putting 1 as being the most hetero you could and 10 being the most homo. Those being SO extreme that like a 1 could not even take watching a porn because seeing another mans penis would ruin it, they would have to watch solo or lesbian. This is usually VERY rare, and for a 10 it would be the same extreme just opposite. So when polled it was found that in reality it was a bell-shaped curve.

More people have secrets than they are willing to admit, some are very boring and reproduction is about all they care about. Some want to drink piss. But at the end of the day putting labels on things never really helped anybody. The ancient Romans I think had it just about right. You simply were what you were, whatever that was is just what it was. The ONLY reason ANY human thinks any sexual orientation is gross (IE: what people do behind closed doors) is because of religion. As humans, we were never really supposed to think about it so hard.

That said, this guilt/shame about doing certain sexual thing is real and prevalent in today's society, and whats more difficult to think about is knowing how strong urges are for people born gay or straight. What about people who are born pedophiles? We went into detail in my abnormal psych about this. It was a heated discussion because an article had just been publish link pedophilia to genetics. How are we supposed to deal with that as a society? I agree that it is wrong, but what do we do with people born that way? Someone in the class said they had a friend they knew their whole life that turned out to be one. He never touched a child, but it was ALWAYS on his mind. He goes to a therapist about it and has to take medication and all this shit. I dunno, sex and sexuality is a difficult thing to say who is right and what they are right about because at the end of the day you have NO control over what makes your dick hard. So I feel bad for pedophiles in a lot of way, the ones that DON'T go around raping little girls obviously. And what if it is consensual, because I would high five a 15 year old if he made it with his hottie high school teacher, you know what I mean? Like that is a lot of guys fantasies when we were younger and in our eyes that wouldn't be rape, but you flip the situation around and I am like WOAH WTF! You piece of shit burn and die! (pitch fork, mob, and all)! A double standard that I myself am guilty of.

Rape is bad no matter the age but there is a special place in hell for people who rape children. That being said I had my own friend in high school who is a registered sex offender because he was having sex with a 16 year old back in 2004 when he was 18. I think the parents forced the girl to say she didn't want it, so he is forvever marked with stautory rape. Though in this case it certainly was not. It was just a pissed off RICH and CONNECTED dad who refused to believe his little angel could ever willingly have another penis inside of her. Instead he decided to ruin anorther kids LIFE.

Like for me I like for the girls that I am with to say really slutty things when we are fucking just talk like a dirty whore. But I don't ever want them to be that at all, I just like hearing them say those nasty words, something I guess about making them seem less innocent so I can do bad things to them, while at the same time during the day time knowing they are not like that. That is how I rationalize doing the things my wife wants and feeling open to ask her to do the things I like, getting her talking like a slut makes it a much more open playing field. Also I like a little bush, like groomed and taken care of, but I like something down there. Bare skin just creeps me out, like they are too young or something. I prefer my woman looking like a woman lol. I know I am not a 1 on the scale because seeing a penis doesn't bother me. I have also had sex with my wife in the same room as a bunch of other couples and everybody was watching each other (no sharing though) I am not down with that. That is MY wife. lol, at least she was until she divorced me because she couldn't wait the time for me to recover from PTSD and be able to live a normal life. Which in turn added about 1 year to my recovery time.
 
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PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Some women do like to give oral sex the way you described, particularly if they are submissive.
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What gives you the right to label someone as Gay or not? I know straight men that get sick of their wives and cruise for m/m sex. They usually won't kiss, don't want their assets touched and won't reciprocate but by no means are they bi. I know guys that will ONLY have sex with me if their girl won't help out. They see that I'm male and just as much of a Hornby as them. But at least I don't have to buy them flowers n dinner for a quick, guilty fuck.

When the boys come over we just have fun!
 
the_ketaman said:
What gives you the right to label someone as Gay or not? I know straight men that get sick of their wives and cruise for m/m sex. They usually won't kiss, don't want their assets touched and won't reciprocate but by no means are they bi. I know guys that will ONLY have sex with me if their girl won't help out. They see that I'm male and just as much of a Hornby as them. But at least I don't have to buy them flowers n dinner for a quick, guilty fuck.

When the boys come over we just have fun!
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Yes and those men are bisexual since they're sexually attracted to both genders.

Or in some cases they're married and gay.

8) Yet you believe or need to believe/fantasize that these men are really heterosexual? You've watched way too much porn or read too many fictional stories. But a lot of gay and bisexual men need the pipe dream fantasy that they're actually having sex with a real heterosexual/straight guy.

If they were actually heterosexual/straight they would not be having sex with you or any man.
 
Im with you priest. If you are a guy and having sex with a guy that's pretty gay by definition.
 
UB6IB9nATL said:
The same way some guys (even presidential-type guys) conveniently don't believe their actually having sex with someone unless there's penetration involved, maybe?!

As f------ up as it sounds, I've known quite a few married guys that managed to convince themselves doing it with another guy didn't count since it was purely physical with no emotional involvement with another female... ie; desert without having to buy the dinner and drinks...:?
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I have encountered people like this. This one guy on a different site would post about going to sex clubs, and having sex with men either there or who he met online and in his delusional mind it was not really sex or cheating since he was not having sex with women.
 
Screaming_Skull said:
So of course this is every gay guys fantasy, to suck a straight guys dick.
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Hahahaha no wonder! I've had so many guys message me on dating sites asking me this and I've always wondered if it was a fantasy or if they were pullin the old I'll suck u off and then try to get more out of it afterwards. Like when I offer to eat a girl out, then tease her with my tongue til she's begging for my cock. Works every time ;D. But uh no I'd never. Ive turned down every guy that has asked. Just have no desire to. Its a repulsive thought, having a man down there.
 
Lost Ego said:
Hahahaha no wonder! I've had so many guys message me on dating sites asking me this and I've always wondered if it was a fantasy or if they were pullin the old I'll suck u off and then try to get more out of it afterwards. Like when I offer to eat a girl out, then tease her with my tongue til she's begging for my cock. Works every time ;D. But uh no I'd never. Ive turned down every guy that has asked. Just have no desire to. Its a repulsive thought, having a man down there.
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My heterosexual male friends tell me how they get emailed by desperate gay men all the time on sites they're on, or on Craigslist, and that sometimes the gay men will pretend to be women, but it's obvious they are not women as they ask for nude pics immediately and never want to talk on the phone, skype, or actually meet. None of my straight male friends have ever been with a guy since they don't want to do this.

It's pathetic how some delusional gay men who have never had sex with a woman, have the mentality that 'all men are bisexual or want to have sex with men but don't know it", but if you ask these guys the reverse if they would give a woman oral sex if they were horny or on drugs and no men were around, suddenly their delusional theory falls apart.
 
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aight - STOP. i have no interest whatsoever in sucking straight dick. y'all thinking that this is every gay man's fantasy need to get past it. although perhaps my straight guy fantasies are just as bad, if not worse. i want to fuck a straight guy in the ass. a guy who for whatever reason has voluntarily decided to submit to me, despite having no sexual attraction to men whatsoever. here's the key part: i make it good for him. don't hurt him at all. you're right that "all men are bisexual or want to have sex with men" is a mindless fantasy, but i don't give a crap about your sexually orientation, a talented prostate massage feels INCREDIBLE. how do you suppose vets collect semen samples from bulls? the stick a dildo up the bull's butt and give the prostate little electric shocks til the bull cums. my dick ain't electric, but i do have skillz.

so yeah, straight boyz, the next time you catch a guy checking you out, hesitate a bit before you go on the 'he wants to suck my dick' power trip. when i look at you, i do it exactly the same way you look at women - total objectification with just a hint predation. hungry. stone cold tantric.

8o
 
tantric said:
aight - STOP. i have no interest whatsoever in sucking straight dick. y'all thinking that this is every gay man's fantasy need to get past it. although perhaps my straight guy fantasies are just as bad, if not worse. i want to fuck a straight guy in the ass. a guy who for whatever reason has voluntarily decided to submit to me, despite having no sexual attraction to men whatsoever. here's the key part: i make it good for him. don't hurt him at all. you're right that "all men are bisexual or want to have sex with men" is a mindless fantasy, but i don't give a crap about your sexually orientation, a talented prostate massage feels INCREDIBLE. how do you suppose vets collect semen samples from bulls? the stick a dildo up the bull's butt and give the prostate little electric shocks til the bull cums. my dick ain't electric, but i do have skillz.

so yeah, straight boyz, the next time you catch a guy checking you out, hesitate a bit before you go on the 'he wants to suck my dick' power trip. when i look at you, i do it exactly the same way you look at women - total objectification with just a hint predation. hungry. stone cold tantric.

8o
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Not every man enjoys prostate stimulation, or taking things up their ass.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Not every man enjoys prostate stimulation, or taking things up their ass.
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while all the above was just a fantasy, one i'd never go through with, i'm not sure you're correct there. the prostate spasming is part of the orgasm experience. with the stuff they have now, ergonomic vibrating p-spot stimulators. the nerves they stimulate are the same ones involved in orgasm. enough such stimulation and though you may hate it, it will make you cum. bear in mind, i'm not advocating any such thing now, i'm discussing it intellectually.

on the other hand, i have NO idea why women like anal sex. then again, i've never asked.
 
tantric said:
while all the above was just a fantasy, one i'd never go through with, i'm not sure you're correct there. the prostate spasming is part of the orgasm experience. with the stuff they have now, ergonomic vibrating p-spot stimulators. the nerves they stimulate are the same ones involved in orgasm. enough such stimulation and though you may hate it, it will make you cum. bear in mind, i'm not advocating any such thing now, i'm discussing it intellectually.

on the other hand, i have NO idea why women like anal sex. then again, i've never asked.
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Sex fantasies are cool I have lots of them; but I've only acted on a few of them, and some were tame.

A friend of mine his ex-GF loved anal sex more than vaginal sex. Why? I have no idea she just did.

My friend's wife apparently flat out refuses to do any anal sex at all, and is adamant about not wanting anything up her ass saying things like, "Don't you dare stick that thing up my ass!" 8o8(

This friend of mine is bisexual and closeted, and if he has been with a man he probably did take a cock up his ass or liked having his ass rimmed.

He used to proposition me for sex like mutual j/o together but it never happened, and I'm glad since it would have made our friendship weird.

His ex GF the one that loved buttsex pretty much was curious about a 3 way with me and him together but this did not happen and he would have gotten mad/jealous had it happened.
 
^ Some fantasies could be more interesting in our minds (where it's all possible) rather than acted as not all relationships remain the same afterwards, specially in cases where you are working colleagues or friends.

PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Yes and those men are bisexual since they're sexually attracted to both genders.

Or in some cases they're married and gay.

8) Yet you believe or need to believe/fantasize that these men are really heterosexual? You've watched way too much porn or read too many fictional stories. But a lot of gay and bisexual men need the pipe dream fantasy that they're actually having sex with a real heterosexual/straight guy.

If they were actually heterosexual/straight they would not be having sex with you or any man.
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I agree, it makes sense and it seems pretty much what it is.
No judgment at all. These issues are being much more accepted by society in general right now compared to 20 years ago imo.
 
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