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First, I'm sorry to offend anyone here. That is not my intention.
How do you tell a woman her weight is an issue concerning attraction?
My issue:
I recently starting casually dating a girl (I'm a guy). We click. I love spending time with her and talking with her. Her face is beautiful and sexy. She's amazing - AMAZING - in bed. She's obese.
Her body is a major turn off. I focus on her face, the natural chemistry between us, and how good she is when we're together physically.
I want to be visually turned on by who I am with. I don't want to feel small when I try to spoon them.
If this girl lost weight, she'd be absolutely stunning and an amazing girlfriend. The fact I can ignore the weight this far is proof alone of this.
I want to be honest with her, for her own sake, and I believe she deserves honesty in general.
As a small aside, I'm embarrassed to be seen with her. Yes, I know it's a jerk and self-conscious move, but it's still an issue and any advice would be helpful.
How do you tell a woman her weight is an issue concerning attraction?
My issue:
I recently starting casually dating a girl (I'm a guy). We click. I love spending time with her and talking with her. Her face is beautiful and sexy. She's amazing - AMAZING - in bed. She's obese.
Her body is a major turn off. I focus on her face, the natural chemistry between us, and how good she is when we're together physically.
I want to be visually turned on by who I am with. I don't want to feel small when I try to spoon them.
If this girl lost weight, she'd be absolutely stunning and an amazing girlfriend. The fact I can ignore the weight this far is proof alone of this.
I want to be honest with her, for her own sake, and I believe she deserves honesty in general.
As a small aside, I'm embarrassed to be seen with her. Yes, I know it's a jerk and self-conscious move, but it's still an issue and any advice would be helpful.