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how do you gett your girl to squirt?

djep said:
I've found that most females have the ability to squirt (I'm an active swinger so I've been with quite a few) although not all do. Here's the method I use...

1) Lay her on her back, get lots of lube and massage her bits slowly working your fingers inside. Two fingers is usually more than enough and a steadily build up is important for maximum lift off!

2) Now start massaging the inside upper of her vaginal wall in a beckoning ‘come here’ movement with your fingers. Applying pressure from back to the front almost in a milking fashion over her pubic bone

3) Start lightly and adjust your pressure until you find what is working for her. Then allow it to build as your movements get a little more firm and frantic. Don’t forget sometimes its fun to stop and tease. Then go back to the light touch build up

4) You’ll sense when she is ready to climax as your movements get firmer and faster and she gets more uncontrollable

Note at this point she may experience a pleasurable ‘peeing’ sensation. This is normal and part of the climax. She needs to accept it and let go to get to the next level.

5) About the time she gets the ‘What the hell is happening to my body’ look on her face you know it’s you cue to up the intensity and watch in awe as she literally loses control

After she climaxes it’s not unusual for her to quiver uncontrollably or not be able to stand for some time, so don’t expect her to reciprocate. Just lay back and bask in the glory of at least temporary being a sexual god.

If it doesn’t happen – DON’T PANIC. Some women need practice to open up this seldom used area. So try, try again. Eventually you’ll get it and she’ll never ever look at you the same way again!

NOTE :- on a very few women this may hurt or be really uncomfortable, foreplay is vital with them to get maximum enjoyment. And don’t forget while your down there, you have a perfectly good tongue. USE IT!
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I can say as a girl with certainty I am not interested in being a squirter. First of all there seems to some question to what that gush actually is. Some say it's urine others say its all female cum. I read somewhere that when it gushing stream like that it is 90 percent urine; 10 percent cum. But this technique of oral clitorial stimulation and then fingering a girl just right sounds intrigueing. I have never had a guy try and do both at the same time. I have only had three guys go down on me. Honestly the only time I really ever came with a guy was when he was going down on me. To bad I was drunk I didn't really feel it. I knew it happened because I felt the contractions and I while I didn't gush a stream I came alot. I just didn't feel the endorphine or serotonin release like I usually do come when I masturbate. That overwhelming sensation that spreads throughout the body that makes just want lay there and sigh. It either energizes me or makes me want to go to sleep or do it again.
 
i learned how to make a girl squirt with my fingers when i was 12(i read a guide that was exactly the same as what djep said, he probably learned from someone who read it or saw the first squirting vids which i did as well, u can really tell by the term "come hither" used namely in the guide lol. i applied it and mastered it at 14. point is, a monkey can make a girl squirt with his hands. its all about what u can do with ur dick and tongue, that comes with practice and prowess, how many guys can make a girl cum with just their cock? we should do a poll

also i dont give 2 fucks about the word "squirt", its a sexual term to me and i dont think of it as odd.

as for the mess, lay down a couple fucking towels and fuck on top of those and when ur done ur bed isnt soaked. herpa durp. or just get a washer and dryer and stop being lazy. a girl squirting for you is a delicacy, a luxury, and you shouldnt be trippin on the mess
 
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MPerfectDrugJ said:
My wife.....oh my wife... Shes not a very sexual person. She will not allow me to go down on her, and will not go down on me (not a problem for me, never been that in to oral). However, she must have a hydraulic fire hose down there or something. When I get her going with the two fingers of my right hand, each and every time she comes (and its not uncommon for her to come 3-6 times inside of five minutes), she arcs up and out easily ten feet. I kid you not, she will squirt clear across our bedroom. Its AMAZING!! The only other place i've ever seen anything like it was in porn. I intend to hang a target on the far wall from our bed and see how many tries it takes me to hit a bullseye... =D 8o ;) <3
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And she's not a very sexual person???? Man the pleasure she would get from that...8o

I squirt here and there =D When i do OH MY LORD does it feel good.

Ejaculate does not come from the bladder, however. It comes from the urethral sponge.

Two separate tracts, one general area.

What helps me squirt? Well, being completely comfortable is the main ingredient.
 
My girl reaches orgasm easily and often with a little tlc. Lucky me, I know.

I've seen some "how-to" videos on this subject. Don't bother with that. I'm sure every girl is different when it comes to what makes them squirt. And few of them are going to want you performing a clinical procedure to get them off. Obviously, you have to be stimulating the right area of the vagina, but special tools or fingering techniques prolly aren't necessary.

The key for my girl is her arousal level. We have quickies where she has 1 or 2 orgasms, but if I want her to squirt; I tease her until her whole body is shaking. Giving her head until I can feel she's right on the verge of cumming, ease off, build up slowly, and repeat until she can't take anymore. There's no magic duration or number of times of bringing her to the edge. She'll let you know. (It may be a while. Lol)

For us, its also helpful if I stroke fairly hard and fast with me on top and her knees up towards her shoulders. When we are at our best, once we start intercourse, she seems to almost cum nonstop and every stroke brings a squirt and amazing vaginal muscle contractions. Its worth the effort, imho, to explore this with your lady as it astronomically enhances the experience for both participants.

Good luck!!
 
The last girl I was living with was living with would have the exact same orgasm and usually multiple, very intense and left her like dazed and unable to talk or move a lot for a short while after, but never squirted, all though I did feel pretty damn proud lol.
I used the same techniqe thats been described, guess she just didnt have the ability to, bummer. But she could orgasm with just nipple stimulation, so it evened out.
 
I've never had anyone squirt.

Stain the bed with sexual secretions? Sure. Squirt? No.

But it's not really my kink. So I haven't really tried.
 
godlovesugly said:
ive been able to do this, only once though. i was masturbating with a vibrator on my clit, and dildo inside hitting my g-spot. i gushed this liquid stuff and i was like wtf just happened. thought i peed at first, but realized no, i squirted. it didn't smell like pee...if i recall, it smelt like nothing. haha.
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LMAO@ wtf just happened. Us guys jizz & know exactly what happened but with girls, theres several things that can happen during the act, haha!
 
MPerfectDrugJ said:
My wife.....oh my wife... Shes not a very sexual person. She will not allow me to go down on her, and will not go down on me (not a problem for me, never been that in to oral). However, she must have a hydraulic fire hose down there or something. When I get her going with the two fingers of my right hand, each and every time she comes (and its not uncommon for her to come 3-6 times inside of five minutes), she arcs up and out easily ten feet. I kid you not, she will squirt clear across our bedroom. Its AMAZING!! The only other place i've ever seen anything like it was in porn. I intend to hang a target on the far wall from our bed and see how many tries it takes me to hit a bullseye... =D 8o ;) <3
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Do you lay plastic or newspapers on the floor around the bed?
 
Steady rhythmic vaginal sex with her legs up near my shoulders.
 
OMG this is my fav topic. Ok, so the first time I ever heard of this was in Seattle, my roomate runs into my room to tell me that some slut just squirted. Back then, we were both kind of weirded or grossed out.

That all changed though, with my last ex. We were both very comfortable with each other. We both paid attention to each others body language, always open to try new things, and we were both great at pleasuring each other (i.e morning head is the best way to wake up).
So after a lengthy session, I found myself wanting spice it up a bit, try something that new for both of us. I remember always hearing that squirting def is not urine. So I did some research on the internet and found step-by-step instructions. So I printed it out and introduced the idea, and started to reaD each step to her. I thought we should at least try it.
Damnit if I nailed it the first try. Not the first attempt, but eventually I figured out exactly where I needed to be, how soft or hard, and how long. If she couldn't answer me, then I had to judge her moans and her back arching.
I was so fascinated at first, just to see it happen. Then immediately turned on. All that came out of my mouth was "cum on my face", which is something I never thought I would say. But I really did want her to cum on my face. I cum on her face all the time.

The thing left out on this thread is the part where SHE will automatically try to stop you and her legs will try to close shut, with my head right up in her pussy. This is a critical moment. DO LET HER CLOSE HER LEGS. NO MATTER WHAT. I actually had to pry them open with one arm as she started screaming, squirting, and shaking uncontrollably. Afterward she just laid there shaking saying she couldn't move and "OH MY GOD".I'm not gonna lie, I felt like a pornstar.
My new goal was to see how much and how many times I could get her to squirt. Sure there was a wet mess everytime, but it felt good to be covered in it. I mean covered. I even grabbed some goggles and some shot glasses just to see. The best part, I would pull out my fingers and just watching her vagina just quiver and keep squirting, on its own.

Anyway, sorry for the long post. But technically, I think all women CAN squirt, but not all of them even want to. And don't give up if you really want her to experience it. Just listening and react to each other, and it will happen. I will attempt it at least once with all women. There are few that didn't, but I didn't care enough to try again.
The ex is long gone, but now I am left with this new fetish and this new talent that I don't talk about in case I don't deliver.

If done correctly, YOU ARE THE BEST SEX I'VE EVER HAD is what she will say to you, in which I responded I KNOW, I WAS THERE ;)
 
I only started squirting this year and it was accidental... I was very high and spending some realy quality time with my lube and my toys. When I started to cum it was a strong wave and I felt myself pushing and climaxing at the same time, soaking everything around me as I squirted vigorously. I was alone. I didn't care if it was pee because I was in the tub. It was a very intense orgasm and it happens frequently now but only I can do it to myself. It seems to me as if it smells a tiny bit like urine although mine has been clear. I don't talk about it IRL. (much love, BL.)
 
Some girls can squirt & some cant. I believe that the girl has to know her body pretty good.
 
djep said:
, foreplay is vital with them to get maximum enjoyment. And don’t forget while your down there, you have a perfectly good tongue. USE IT!
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I want you so bad right now.
 
Foreplay is definitely important. I've been with two girls who could squirt and I use two fingers middle and ring and just read her and.go faster when she gets more excited. Sometimes try to hit the g spot if possible!
 
foreplay is the main key well for me it is when i use my tongue on a girl they cant stop moaning and doing little twitches does this mean she might be close to squirting from it?
 
The only bad thing about this thread is reading it and getting pretty worked up, with no-one to sort me out!! Aaaarrrggghhhh!! the frustration ;)

The first time I did this, it was such a surprise and I got really embarrassed because the (idiot) guy that I was with at the time got all grossed out by it... thankfully I didn't develop any nasty complexes!! Hahaha!!

Now... off to deal with that worked up feeling...
 
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