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How did you discover masturbation?

An older man (moms boyfriend) taught me how to clean and oil his cock. Then he taught me how to jerk it off and suck it. I was really young. I had sex with him 3 or 4 times a week for about 3 years.He taught me how to jerk off and I starting showing some of my buddies and sucking them. I have been jerking since about 9, didn't come until 12 but really liked it.
 
I was about 14. My Family had a shower with a detachable shower head. I found out kinda by accident
 
I was playing mortal combat, I forget which one, and Sonya gave me a boner. So I'm like I'll go pull on my dick and see what happens. I forget how old I was 13 maybe around there
 
Pharcyde said:
I was playing mortal combat, I forget which one, and Sonya gave me a boner. So I'm like I'll go pull on my dick and see what happens. I forget how old I was 13 maybe around there
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I'll bet it was her leg grab move that turned you on
 
I think it's the sounds they made when the girls hit each other. Because I still like vocal girls
 
I was watching hbo...Emmanuel...got a hard on played with it.just felt good to do then WHAM ...I was rather stuunned and didn't know what was going on.but boy was alone time more interesting
 
I was in the bathtub with the water on sloshing around naked. The water out of the spout hit my clit and I felt a tingle that was pleasurable. So I kept doing that and I finally came. I was maybe 12 or 13. I didn't even know they were orgasms. I just knew I felt so relaxed and happy afterwards. I did it everyday. It was so addicting.
 
Hurhel said:
I was in the bathtub with the water on sloshing around naked. The water out of the spout hit my clit and I felt a tingle that was pleasurable. So I kept doing that and I finally came. I was maybe 12 or 13. I didn't even know they were orgasms. I just knew I felt so relaxed and happy afterwards. I did it everyday. It was so addicting.
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So did you graduate to using a dildo?
 
In junior high the guys would talk about wanking. The ones who were old enough to cum liked to brag.
 
I don't quite remember, but I was around 9 or 10. I used to orgasm with no ejaculation, just pleasurable pulsing feeling. My teacher in grade 5, not a classical beauty but I used to love helping her after school and had a huge crush on her. God, I fucked her so many times in my mind. It scared me at first, I used to worry that something was going to break or explode upon orgasm. I remember being fascinated by blow jobs and thought, hey, I make saliva, maybe I can simulate that by spitting in my hand and... Holy fuck, that changed my life. :D I remember the first time I actuall ejaculated, I think I was 12? That also freaked me out, I was not expecting it and found it quite disgusting. I've since gotten pretty used to it :)

Damn, I've been wanking for over 20 years now. I've sometimes wondered what exact volume of cum I have released in to the world... God knows :D
 
I like to think masturbation discovered me.
 
After grade 7 sex Ed class. I went home to try it out. They were right?
 
Vagina Lover said:
So did you graduate to using a dildo?
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Once I hit high school ....15 or 16 I began to use a vibrator...eventually
A Dildo.
I have 4 dildos and a few vibrators now that I love
One of them is a gspot vibrator...
My hubby would use them to pleasure me during Sex.
We don't have Much sex anymore.
So while he's as work. I pleasure myself of course w a little porn too.
I come twice in a row and walk around with a wet pussy the rest of the day.
He doesn't even notice or even care.

Sometimes I tell him " hey I used my toys today. He just says "oh yea?" And keeps on about his day.

I'm angry he Rather masturbate.
Than fuck me.
He won't have sex during the week cuz he's too tired. Lame ass excuse.
I tell him I need a boyfriend. He laughs. He thinks I'm kidding.
I'm 41. In all the years I dated back when before him. I had never had a guy be such a lazy ass about fucking.
He only 44 --he's just selfish and only worries about his own pleasure.
The thing is when we go out on the weekends men flirt with me and check me out. I know I'm desireable to men. He just takes me for granted.
 
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^It sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible. If he doesn't want to have sex, its unfair to try and pressure him with talk of wanting a boyfriend. You need to explain to him that your needs are not being met. For me, if my partner did not want to have sex with me, that would be a deal-breaker.
 
willow11 said:
^It sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible. If he doesn't want to have sex, its unfair to try and pressure him with talk of wanting a boyfriend. You need to explain to him that your needs are not being met. For me, if my partner did not want to have sex with me, that would be a deal-breaker.
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I'm just trying to see if he even cares enough to make sure I don't wander away. Seems like he's not interested in anything lately. He can be arrogant and very selfish. And her I am waiting to be desired. It's kinda sad and an ugly desperate feeling. We've been married for 12 years this month.
I guess for him masterbating to porn before work. Keeps him satisfied ...I want intimacy, deep kisses and awesome foreplay. He's so detached and content. Awkward.
 
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