Well this happened toward the end of last year, anyways My wife had a threesome with one of my best friends and my younger brother, and I didn't even know about it till the end of June. I talked to my brother and I asked him when were you guys gonna tell me this and he said that I wasn't supposed to find out, she waited a whole summer to tell me about this because at that time she wanted to have a threesome with me and another guy and I kept saying NO, so she went off and did her own thing,its been 3 or so months now since she told me this and it still kills me inside I try to forget it but it wont go away she says she regrets ever doing and she was just experimenting I'm just wondering what can help me get over this?? I also told her that if she ever cheated on me again that we were through