help with new sexual experience, new partner and bbc

[sexuallyconfused]

I just got out of a 14 year relationship (11 year marriage). We never had a very adventurous sex life. We used toys here and there at times. We used mirrors, etc. but nothing major. I recently met a guy that I'm interested in but he has a sexual fantasy that is WAY outside of my comfort zone. I am EXTREMELY attracted to this guy and want to pursue something with him but my fear is holding me back. He likes to use a dildo (preferably black even though he is white) that is larger than himself and then have sex after he's "widened" his woman (I'm guessing since we've never done it). I'm curious to know if anyone else has experienced this and how is it for the woman? I can't imagine it being the same if you're already stretched from something bigger than he is. He also likes to send me pics of little white girls taking bbc and it gets him off to show me. I want to play into his fantasy and be with him but I'm struggling with the idea. Can anyone please help me?

 

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He obviously thinks women want THE BIGGEST DICK ever and probably thinks he can't please you with what he has.porn tends to brainwash guys into thinking if they don't have a huge dick and cant stretch you like "stretch Armstrong" then hes not satisfying you .is this dildo too big for you .? Does he satisfy you?

 

[sexuallyconfused]

I've had both a big dick and I guess what would be considered average. It's not size, it's use. I had better sex with the average guy. To answer your question.....we haven't even done anything physical yet. This is just stuff he texts me so I don't know if he would satisfy me or not. He says he wants to just have normal sex at first but progress to the fantasy.

He obviously thinks women want THE BIGGEST DICK ever and probably thinks he can't please you with what he has.porn tends to brainwash guys into thinking if they don't have a huge dick and cant stretch you like "stretch Armstrong" then hes not satisfying you .is this dildo too big for you .? Does he satisfy you?