Hi, my name is Alison, and i have been off work for two weeks with depression.
I am a 39 year old single mother to a 20 year old lad, and have been divorced since 2005.
Since my divorce i seen a few men, although nothing serious.
I met a guy called Rob 6 months ago, and this was my first serious relationship in ten years.
Rob seemed like a nice enough guy, a roofer, although he did dabble with drugs and was a self confessed retired football hooligan.
However he said he was retired, and he seemes good for my son, as he got him a job driving vans,, and really good money. Before this my son had been a bit of a lay about.
My son seemed to like Rob, they went to football matches together and would go down the local pub together.
The downside to this was that i suspect occasionally he had got my son dabbling in amphetimine, and i suppose this should have been a warning
However a couple of weeks ago i was off work, so Rob said i might aswell jump on the coach with him and my son, so i went with him to the match.
Afterwards on the way back, he got in with a crowd i did not like, they where drinking lots and extremely roudy. I had never seen Rob like this before.
By the time we got back to our city we where all very drunk, and then we went to a pub where it all continued and even more drink was consumed.
However i am almost certain the drinks where spiked. I was in the pub actually hallucinating, which is something i had never experienced in my life before. I looked at my son next to me and he looked like an ogre with hands like shovels and a face like an old man.
When we got home i was absolutely out of it, and Rob got more cans, and then rolled a joint.
I had never smoked a joint since i was a young girl, and it made me very paranoid, i almost ran out of the room at one point because i thought the devil was coming in.
The next thing i remember was lying on the couch starting to feel really relaxed, although everything was flickering, and Rob had put porn on the TV.
Completely out of it, i lay mesmorized watching the porn.
However Rob had sex with me eventually, and it was not until i woke in the morning that i realised my son had been lying on the sofa while Rob had sex with me.
I was absolutely devatsated, i threw Rob out, and have not seen him since, but my relationship with my son has been ruined completely. The last few weeks have been the weirdest of my life and i am now off work.
Have i committed a crime? Is this considered incest? what will the longterm consequences of this be?
I expect a lot of abuse for this, however i was not in my right mind when it happened, and i am absolutely devestated
I am a 39 year old single mother to a 20 year old lad, and have been divorced since 2005.
Since my divorce i seen a few men, although nothing serious.
I met a guy called Rob 6 months ago, and this was my first serious relationship in ten years.
Rob seemed like a nice enough guy, a roofer, although he did dabble with drugs and was a self confessed retired football hooligan.
However he said he was retired, and he seemes good for my son, as he got him a job driving vans,, and really good money. Before this my son had been a bit of a lay about.
My son seemed to like Rob, they went to football matches together and would go down the local pub together.
The downside to this was that i suspect occasionally he had got my son dabbling in amphetimine, and i suppose this should have been a warning
However a couple of weeks ago i was off work, so Rob said i might aswell jump on the coach with him and my son, so i went with him to the match.
Afterwards on the way back, he got in with a crowd i did not like, they where drinking lots and extremely roudy. I had never seen Rob like this before.
By the time we got back to our city we where all very drunk, and then we went to a pub where it all continued and even more drink was consumed.
However i am almost certain the drinks where spiked. I was in the pub actually hallucinating, which is something i had never experienced in my life before. I looked at my son next to me and he looked like an ogre with hands like shovels and a face like an old man.
When we got home i was absolutely out of it, and Rob got more cans, and then rolled a joint.
I had never smoked a joint since i was a young girl, and it made me very paranoid, i almost ran out of the room at one point because i thought the devil was coming in.
The next thing i remember was lying on the couch starting to feel really relaxed, although everything was flickering, and Rob had put porn on the TV.
Completely out of it, i lay mesmorized watching the porn.
However Rob had sex with me eventually, and it was not until i woke in the morning that i realised my son had been lying on the sofa while Rob had sex with me.
I was absolutely devatsated, i threw Rob out, and have not seen him since, but my relationship with my son has been ruined completely. The last few weeks have been the weirdest of my life and i am now off work.
Have i committed a crime? Is this considered incest? what will the longterm consequences of this be?
I expect a lot of abuse for this, however i was not in my right mind when it happened, and i am absolutely devestated
