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Has sex ruined the world?

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Markomarkh

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As children we seem happy and innocent but soon as we hit teenager or adult things fuck up badly when sex enters their lives. Has it sent people mad or made some very upset hurt people? Do women want it as much as men? Because I think a lot of them don’t really enjoy it or not really bothered by it as much as men are. Porn industry gave people a distorted view of sex?
 
dude... just go get laid man and stop with these stupid posts...hire an escort if you must its ez
 
sex is why there are people

people have ruined the world

sex hasn't but it did get us to this point
 
^ exactly.

If you are looking to generate discussion, you need to focus your questions a bit more. Your post has too many questions for people to answer.
But no, sex is just a part of life; there is no human life without it, that's why it's important to people.
 
There are too many humans on earth and we are ruining it with our pollution and climate change and excessive use of plastics.

So technically sex is the root cause of the population so if everyone stopped having sex we would die out andvthings would be good again.
 
^ Don't stop having sex. Stop reproducing! Wear protection, birth control, etc.

I will never have children.

There is a lot of perversion and deviant behavior as seen with Harvey Weinstein, the list goes on and on and Louis CK, that one really bummed me out.

When people feel that carnal desire taking over, you have to starve it before it gets out of control. Starve the flesh. Don't give in to every temptation.
 
We just need to stop procreating unnecessarily.

Sex is great. Lot of people can't seem to keep it in their pants and away from unwilling participants like Coast mentions above (Wtf Louie).

I haven't had sex for two years by choice having had many opportunities, the girls just weren't my type or I felt like I wasn't really going to be doing it for any real reason, just because it feels good for like ten minutes and that's not a good enough of a reason any more. I wanted something that I felt was going to be memorable and connect me to someone who I feel is worth connecting to.

People (this includes men surprisingly) don't physically require sex with other humans to function. Orgasm maybe necessary to maintain stress levels and reproductive organ health but you don't need to be linked to someone sexually to exist. I feel that this society make us feel inadequate for not being hypersexual.

I definitely look forward to sex again, and I think there are some dark and unrealistic ideas surrounding sex for a lot of people, but sex is great it's a wonderful way to spend time with someone. It's also like pretty god damn fun if everyone is in shape and has no shame lol.


But to say sex ruined the world is reefer madness.
 
FuckinAcidMan said:
People (this includes men surprisingly) don't physically require sex with other humans to function. Orgasm maybe necessary to maintain stress levels and reproductive organ health but you don't need to be linked to someone sexually to exist. I feel that this society make us feel inadequate for not being hypersexual.
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This is exactly why I hate when it goes into maslow's hierarchy of needs, it is not a "need." It is required for the spread of genetic material etc but if you leave a human in a cage for its whole life it will not die from lack of sexual reproduction and is not a need.

Having said that I am an introvert so I enjoy being social to a degree but actively engaging people is challenging and requires me to try. So the need to try to receive validation from someone via sex seems harder then achieving a greater validation through my own means which leads me to not really care about sex... i do but they invented hands for that ;)

I havent had sex in 2 years but thats almost for the reasons you stated. I conjure up all these things when really its because I dont think I give a fuck to give a fuck ;) Seriously when I go out I make it a point to have fun which does mean talking to people but not trying to develop strong connections, so I have fun nights where I meet people but I never try to get with a girl or even keep these people as "friends." I think it has to do with all the stuff ive endured over the years I have come to realize the only true happiness I get is when I develop and grow myself, which thus far has not involved anyone other then me. I know part of me wants emotional connectivity but theres a bigger part that enjoys being alone. It is hard for me to imagine suddenly caring more as I get older, I've tried to "work" on forming emotional bonds but thats extremely difficult.

It bothers me that people constantly plaster their own desires onto others. I get it a lot as an introvert because people always go "but humans are social animals!" but the degree one requires "not needed for existence" interactions are extremely dependent on individual psychology. For instance my roommate cant stand being alone, I generally cant stand being around people. He is alone and I am around people some of the time but how we view it is completely different, this applies to sex as well.
 
I am actually very sociable and outgoing I am just incredibly picky and honestly not that impressed with most of the girls I meet. I do not have many friends I consider close for this reason as well. Everyone, myself included, strikes me as an over grown child of some sort, and the ones obsessed with "playing house" just make me laugh to myself. So when they ask why I am not "playing house" I just kind of make polite excuses since I can't very well tell them I find the whole notion a bit ridiculous. I really just would like to make friends who happen to be girls and see where it goes, courting for sex or marriage specifically seems antiquated.

Living in the Bible Belt doesn't help. In fact it makes shit extra weird when people out of good intentions are trying go set me up with some church going girl who I would probably just traumatize with my world view.
 
Somewhat like me, I enjoy being social its just draining. That's how I know im an introvert, I conjure up excuses to be alone after work rather then "go out to blow off steam" I'd rather sit alone after working all day. I dont fear socialization I do enjoy it, it simply depletes me so its hard for me to want to be social on days I had work. I have about 3 friends, one of whom is my younger brother, I have a decent number of different tiered acquaintances which includes almost daily interaction like coworkers to the dude who use to cash my check once a week.

I also categorize people, its kind of like "friendzone" in a sense but with a wider application. So for instance its hard for me to hang out with coworkers after work as that is their designation, coworkers. So I go to work functions and see them but I do not see them outside of things under the umbrella of "work" Used to do the same with classmates... this made it impossible for me to make friends in college as i have a hard time transitioning from being in class to "lets hang out after class" because I always want to be alone after something like that.

Not meaning to derail the thread, it does all pertain to sex still and my views of interaction are probably why I dont have much sex other then when im in a relationship, if at all. But I have no problem being able to self validate and get all that good validation and comfort being me through being me, it makes it way easier :)
 
lol I knew who started this thread only by reading the title....
 
^For real! This guy has some major hang ups or something. Have you considered cognitive behavioral therapy Makromarkh? Or maybe like doin some mushrooms and thinking about sex from a broader perspective outside of how you were socialized? (If you are not predisposed to schizoid type behavior)
 
Women like sex. We're just not as driven to have it on average because of different biochemistry. It's got nothing to do with how much enjoyment it provides.

And no, it hasn't. People ruin the world. Sex, prejudice, religious extremism, whatever social problem you wanna name they're all just symptoms of the real problem, and the problem is us.
 
exactly what jess just said. its human nature thats the root of all of these problems. human greed and malice is the disease
 
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