Online dating is not for me at all. lol I did try once because I was told I should. Tried it. Went on a date with a guy. It wasn't bad, but he was recently divorced and stared at my boobs without any shame at all. lol Other than that it wasn't bad, but no spark. I need chemistry or it just won't happen.
I've never had any kind of chemistry when it's forced like a first date. I always have to get to know the person first. First dates make me feel pressured and guys usually try to take it to another level after an hour of conversation. Not my style.
Coast, I work from home too so don't get out much but force myself to get out. Anything will do. Gym, restaurant, coffee place, whatever... Something like that.
My relationships always come out of the blue, so I just do my thing until I meet someone I feel I have chemistry with.