https://www.karger.com/Article/Fulltext/381670 - tapering while pregnant
https://mothertobaby.org/fact-sheets/methadone/ - methadone treatment when pregnant
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16261362/ - changes in methadone biokinetics while pregnant
In short, if your partner were given opiods for organic pain while pregnant, the doctor would be cautious but it is not a ref d flag. I am horrified by a system that takes a single medical fact to decide if people will be good parents.
It seems so terribly wrong. The outcomes for the child, the outcomes for the mother; neither are being considered.
I also tend to believe that MONEY would make the problem go away. I do not know if methadone is used for treating pain in your locale (it's used in most nations) and I do not believe if the SAME drug were prescribed for pain their would be ANY question over your ability to love and care for your child.
At the risk of sounding harsh:
The outcomes are being considered, but anyone risking their child getting born addicted to drugs for recreational value should not be in charge of said child. Yes for pain treatment it would be an entirely different discussion, because then it's prescribed and the patient is showing a certain level of restriction by keeping to the schedule.
I work with a lot of addicts through my job, and I'm having a hard time forgiving these people, I'm so sorry, but I just can't. It just boils my blood.
I know life is life, and life is messy, but none of that is the child's fault, and many would be better off not being born at all into the life their addicted mothers have laid out for them already.
The outcomes for the child are actually why children are often taken away,
until mother gets off the drugs, then the child is returned.
It's not to torture anyone, but to prevent the child from even more harm than it's already going to experience. If getting back your child is not the best reason to stop drugs, I don't know what is.
This
is used as a motivational tool, no doubt. Nobody wants drug-addicted parents, and I find thinking of the life the child will lead in a household where taking drugs recreationally is the day-to-day more painful than growing up with adoptive parents or even in a home(can't speak for other countries' homes ofc, but here they are pretty top notch)
If even getting back your own child isn't motivation enough to stop drugs, then maybe you should just take your drugs and let your child have a good life without you. Sorry. Very sorry. I know I'll get complaints again, not my intent to be mean, I just want to be honest here.
I've seen a lot of terrifying shit when it comes to drug addicted mothers, and it just kills me.
Just a few days ago I had a conversation with a patient who told me about discovering his mother's body after she OD'd.
He was about 5 years old. She was already dead.
Just, things to consider. It's not an unconsidered reaction, not by a longshot.