lonelyDude
Bluelighter
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to be honest grindr scares the shit out of my straight arse
but then so does tinder so its neither here nor there.
but then so does tinder so its neither here nor there.
to be honest grindr scares the shit out of my straight arse
but then so does tinder so its neither here nor there.
ye I think if were going for gratuitous sex that maybe masquerade balls are the go but for actually finding a partner these services have failed.
I once tried a few dating services.
afterwards it took every ounce of my moral fibre not to send there services into the digital sea were they belonged so to prevent the risk of me doing something
that might upset others I stay off them.
all I got was scammers trying to get money out of me.
to be honest grindr scares the shit out of my straight arse
but then so does tinder so its neither here nor there.
... Yeah those.Gym bunnies = Gym rats?
Hah!, you don't even have to hook up beforehand. Just go TO the toilets and you'll get served XdI've witnessed gay hookups in clubs.. My housemate would be in the toilets within five minutes!!
so an emo twink. Yeah they generally do quite well too. You can be skinny if you're a certain type.He was kind of gothic and on the thin side,
Yeah, because it's all SO looks-based and casual sex-based, every other gay bloke whines about being unable to find a real relationship... while using the same standards and unwilling to consider anyone that doesn't look like he could be on the cover of a men's magazine.Relationships were another story.
Yep. Statistically true compared to other ethnic groups on average, but some take that to mean every dark-skinned bloke is endowed like a porn star. I knew a guy at college who said you get really sick really quick of literally the first question a potential date asks you being about your size, and I can believe that.LOL@blacks get fetishised.. Because they supposedly have big shlongs?
In a way maybe, but it's also more dehumanising and reduces the whole dating game to a literal meat market, which kinda takes the sexiness out of it. Call me old-fashioned.If everyone's so specific, you may as well corner a market and name your price. I mean in a way it's more honest than straight dating sites
good to know my fear was not unfounded hehe.
Do Bears treat Twinks like Bitches?
I feel like I'm writing some logic question with made up words lol
What's the deal with your fixation on the little bitch thing? I don't know. Ask a bunch of twinks and bears.
this is interesting banned from grindr on ya phone.I'm a dom/top/whatever you wanna call it.
Are we talking about sexually or just in general altogether?
A lot of the same dynamics that exist in heterosexual relationships also exist in homosexual relationships. Although each has some that are unique to their own.
I don't like treating people like bitches. However I have hooked up with guys who wanted me to treat them as such.
I did for them cause they liked it but i didn't particularly care for it.
I was gonna jump in here since I'm a gay guy but I think everyone else got most of it covered.
My entire phone ID was banned from grindr for "hate speech" (which wasn't any speech at all, some one just didn't like what they saw in the background of my picture when I didn't reply to them fast enough). You use to be able to just make a new profile in 5 seconds and you're good, but now they will ban your phone completely, so that if you do try to make a profile, it's insta-banned. So it's not only trans & such that get the shit end of the stick & feel outcasted. If you don' conform to leftist views or ideology, you'll get kicked off these "tolerant" "wonderful" & "diverse" apps for "hate speech". Leaves little room for personal expression, unless that personal expression aligns with the current narratives/political agendas. Or you're one of thousands of new 'marginalized groups'. Bigotry goes both ways.
So while some here complain that these apps give CIS White males privilege, I literally am banned from it for that very reason. How ironic.
Although I have to agree that these apps are full of narcissists & sex addicts (usually meth addicts).
this is interesting banned from grindr on ya phone.
having a very short look at this it seems its not a phone number or ime number ban and rather a data file that is stored on your phone.
so phone might have to be jailbroken then ban removal is as simple as deleting the right files.
it seems that from the threads above that on iphone they do use your ime which means new phone not new number or delete files.
as I dont use it I may have to get my self banned just to see if I can undo it
I've witnessed gay hookups in clubs.. My housemate would be in the toilets within five minutes!! He was kind of gothic and on the thin side, but very attractive so he had no trouble there. Relationships were another story.
I feel like I was somehow your housemate, that reads like a description of me at 20. Though I was going to the toilets to do drugs mainly.