ABetterWay
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Hi guys. I'm not sure if here or Other Drugs is the forum I should be using. If I'm incorrect to post here, I apologize.
First things first - no, this post isn't about me. I know SWIM ("Someone Who Isn't Me" for the newbies )crap isn't allowed here. I'm an h user and actually plan a kick next weekend so wish me luck and I may post here during that time.
On to my question.
I have a dear friend who estimates - yes, estimates - that they take about 400mg/day of methodone. They are in maintenance and get take homes. Those are gone quickly, and they find themself having to go into the "sales" business to support their habit.
They have considered asking the program to control their take homes more. Thats great, but at that amount per day, I don't see how that alone will help much, if at all. They have numerous connects and as I said, they have their methods of obtaining more and to be able to pay for it.
I've spoken with them about getting it to a more reasonable level per day. We talked about the "what ifs" - the worst case scenario being, they get in trouble (they are not stupid; they know there are many ways to get busted, you dont even have to do anything stupid to get busted, sometimes it's a little thing like a headlight being out that leads to other things, like,"Say, your pupils are not looking right...step out of the car..." ..etc; so just to give you the knowledge that this person isn't one of those dopes that think they're above the law, or too smart too ever be caught, etc. In other words, they are rational and reasonable, otherwise.), and if this happens, they will find themself kicking with no help on a cell floor from an ENORMOUS AMOUNT of methodone.
Obviously, they are concerned. But, you know how it is.... Once your problem is at that level, every spare second is spent making money for and obtaining more of the DOC (Drug Of Choice).
They want to taper. I have advised them to taper because you never know what could happen, plus just the fact that this is an enormous source of stress - the constant running around, worrying, obtaining, etc. I am worried for their life.
My problem is, I've got ZERO experience with methodone, and do not have any real advice on how to go about tapering, how/if to approach their maintenance program people (I've never been on a maintenance program either, so no experience there), etc. All I do know, is that the half-life is incredibly long, making withdrawals last a long time. I've heard people here talk about what hell it is.
What can I do to help my friend? Anyone here with experience, I'd be very appreciative of any advice - what a reasonable taper would look like, how and if this should be brought up with their maintenance program, etc.
They don't know where to start and are overwhelmed.
They work a regular job in addition to their sales.
They are very high functioning, as they say. You'd not know this by looking at them, AT ALL. Truly. They are a great person, a kind person, and I want the best for them.
Please, point me in the right direction to advise them. I know that I cannot do the work for them. I'm no co-dependent type. But they truly don't seem to know where to begin, they are running around NON STOP between work and "work", and with my complete lack of experience in the methodone and even maintenance program realm, I have no advice for them other than "taper as best you can".
I, and they obviously, don't want it to come to them writhing on the cold floor of a jail cell with no one giving a fuck. This state is HARSH on opiate/opioid users.
I have no doubt the authorities would just chuckle as they are in the worst agony, unless they were close to death - but we have all heard of cases where it was too late by then. Cases where the shit head authorities allowed someone to fucking DIE, then they cover it up to cover their inhumane asses. It's wrong, but we've all heard those stories.
What can I advise them?
Again, I realize I cannot do anything for them other than advise and hope for the best, and offer my support and encouragement.
As I said, I'm attempting an h kick next weekend. My story is I was born with a painful medical condition, blah blah. Please, no "you can't help them, you are a problem yourself". No shit.
Just looking for where to point them, advice on tapering, as I've no experience with the stuff.
Thanks in advance.
Peace.
Edit: I've made them an account on here at their request, as when they heard me speak so highly of this place, they wanted to join. I will continue to encourage then to post here. I also thought that starting this thread and showing then could potentially be helpful in getting them to actually post here. Maybe, maybe not. But worth trying. Thanks agsin. Peace.
First things first - no, this post isn't about me. I know SWIM ("Someone Who Isn't Me" for the newbies )crap isn't allowed here. I'm an h user and actually plan a kick next weekend so wish me luck and I may post here during that time.
On to my question.
I have a dear friend who estimates - yes, estimates - that they take about 400mg/day of methodone. They are in maintenance and get take homes. Those are gone quickly, and they find themself having to go into the "sales" business to support their habit.
They have considered asking the program to control their take homes more. Thats great, but at that amount per day, I don't see how that alone will help much, if at all. They have numerous connects and as I said, they have their methods of obtaining more and to be able to pay for it.
I've spoken with them about getting it to a more reasonable level per day. We talked about the "what ifs" - the worst case scenario being, they get in trouble (they are not stupid; they know there are many ways to get busted, you dont even have to do anything stupid to get busted, sometimes it's a little thing like a headlight being out that leads to other things, like,"Say, your pupils are not looking right...step out of the car..." ..etc; so just to give you the knowledge that this person isn't one of those dopes that think they're above the law, or too smart too ever be caught, etc. In other words, they are rational and reasonable, otherwise.), and if this happens, they will find themself kicking with no help on a cell floor from an ENORMOUS AMOUNT of methodone.
Obviously, they are concerned. But, you know how it is.... Once your problem is at that level, every spare second is spent making money for and obtaining more of the DOC (Drug Of Choice).
They want to taper. I have advised them to taper because you never know what could happen, plus just the fact that this is an enormous source of stress - the constant running around, worrying, obtaining, etc. I am worried for their life.
My problem is, I've got ZERO experience with methodone, and do not have any real advice on how to go about tapering, how/if to approach their maintenance program people (I've never been on a maintenance program either, so no experience there), etc. All I do know, is that the half-life is incredibly long, making withdrawals last a long time. I've heard people here talk about what hell it is.
What can I do to help my friend? Anyone here with experience, I'd be very appreciative of any advice - what a reasonable taper would look like, how and if this should be brought up with their maintenance program, etc.
They don't know where to start and are overwhelmed.
They work a regular job in addition to their sales.
They are very high functioning, as they say. You'd not know this by looking at them, AT ALL. Truly. They are a great person, a kind person, and I want the best for them.
Please, point me in the right direction to advise them. I know that I cannot do the work for them. I'm no co-dependent type. But they truly don't seem to know where to begin, they are running around NON STOP between work and "work", and with my complete lack of experience in the methodone and even maintenance program realm, I have no advice for them other than "taper as best you can".
I, and they obviously, don't want it to come to them writhing on the cold floor of a jail cell with no one giving a fuck. This state is HARSH on opiate/opioid users.
I have no doubt the authorities would just chuckle as they are in the worst agony, unless they were close to death - but we have all heard of cases where it was too late by then. Cases where the shit head authorities allowed someone to fucking DIE, then they cover it up to cover their inhumane asses. It's wrong, but we've all heard those stories.
What can I advise them?
Again, I realize I cannot do anything for them other than advise and hope for the best, and offer my support and encouragement.
As I said, I'm attempting an h kick next weekend. My story is I was born with a painful medical condition, blah blah. Please, no "you can't help them, you are a problem yourself". No shit.
Just looking for where to point them, advice on tapering, as I've no experience with the stuff.
Thanks in advance.
Peace.
Edit: I've made them an account on here at their request, as when they heard me speak so highly of this place, they wanted to join. I will continue to encourage then to post here. I also thought that starting this thread and showing then could potentially be helpful in getting them to actually post here. Maybe, maybe not. But worth trying. Thanks agsin. Peace.
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