KeepJimMorrisonAli
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I filed for fraud with the bank and found out the person that has been using my account without my permission is someone who I'm not legally supposed to hang out with right now (probation.) What should I do about this? Drop the case? Make up a story like I saw him come in the restaurant I was at and left, but left my card there? Anything?
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Alright so right now I'm on probation for a misd. B&E that I got charged with alongside my oldest friend (over 8 years now.) Anyway, part of my probation is that I am not allowed to hang out with him at all. I went up to the beach with him and he stole my security deposit check, which then made me FLIP OUT on him and almost beat the hell out of him. I went on to say how much of a piece of worthless shit he was, how he steals from his own mom and friends, how no one likes him at all and he'll never change, etc.
Well anyway, I left my card in his car and he knows my pin #. Yesterday I checked my Wachovia online checking account and it said I had $27 (weird, last time I checked I had $230 and I haven't had my card at all.) Well this has happened before and I assumed that it was all these "late credit" payments that take 2-3 days to process. Then I saw that $500 was withdrawn from the ATM yesterday, when I was at home all day with no bank card.
So needless to say, I filed for fraud and closed that card so the person using it no longer has access to it. I then texted my friend, assuming it was him since he's the only person with my PIN # as well as who I left my card with, telling him what happened. I told him that I filed for fraud and asked if he did it or not, he originally texted back denying it and saying why would he do that to me. However, once I texted him saying that the ATM's have video cameras and the police are going to check them (letting him know he has nothing to worry about if he didn't do it), he responded with a "heartfelt" apology saying that he fucked up, he's really sorry and please don't bring the police into it.
Well, if he would have admitted it before I ever filed for fraud or EVEN right after I texted then I MIGHT have believed he was sorry. But after all that and stealing money WHILE I was paying for his vacation makes me think he's only sorry that he got caught. So I told him if he pays me the money + overdraft charges I will drop it (though I most likely will keep pursuing it and screw him over like he screw me over.) Anyway, he's already given me $300 and I haven't dropped the report yet and I'm wondering what I should do.
Keep in mind I'm not legally allowed to hang out with this person and the police WILL eventually find out it was him (it's not exactly the "perfect crime" seeing as how they got a video tape of it from about 2 feet away.) Will I get in any trouble for associating with him or will that not matter in this situation? We've been pulled over together and when they look us both up on their police computer they never let us know we shouldn't be hanging out. This makes me think that the only people that REALLY know are our probation officers and I should be getting off probation soon, and he doesn't have to know about it anyway, right?
Thanks for any advice.
I filed for fraud with the bank and found out the person that has been using my account without my permission is someone who I'm not legally supposed to hang out with right now (probation.) What should I do about this? Drop the case? Make up a story like I saw him come in the restaurant I was at and left, but left my card there? Anything?
Whole Story
Alright so right now I'm on probation for a misd. B&E that I got charged with alongside my oldest friend (over 8 years now.) Anyway, part of my probation is that I am not allowed to hang out with him at all. I went up to the beach with him and he stole my security deposit check, which then made me FLIP OUT on him and almost beat the hell out of him. I went on to say how much of a piece of worthless shit he was, how he steals from his own mom and friends, how no one likes him at all and he'll never change, etc.
Well anyway, I left my card in his car and he knows my pin #. Yesterday I checked my Wachovia online checking account and it said I had $27 (weird, last time I checked I had $230 and I haven't had my card at all.) Well this has happened before and I assumed that it was all these "late credit" payments that take 2-3 days to process. Then I saw that $500 was withdrawn from the ATM yesterday, when I was at home all day with no bank card.
So needless to say, I filed for fraud and closed that card so the person using it no longer has access to it. I then texted my friend, assuming it was him since he's the only person with my PIN # as well as who I left my card with, telling him what happened. I told him that I filed for fraud and asked if he did it or not, he originally texted back denying it and saying why would he do that to me. However, once I texted him saying that the ATM's have video cameras and the police are going to check them (letting him know he has nothing to worry about if he didn't do it), he responded with a "heartfelt" apology saying that he fucked up, he's really sorry and please don't bring the police into it.
Well, if he would have admitted it before I ever filed for fraud or EVEN right after I texted then I MIGHT have believed he was sorry. But after all that and stealing money WHILE I was paying for his vacation makes me think he's only sorry that he got caught. So I told him if he pays me the money + overdraft charges I will drop it (though I most likely will keep pursuing it and screw him over like he screw me over.) Anyway, he's already given me $300 and I haven't dropped the report yet and I'm wondering what I should do.
Keep in mind I'm not legally allowed to hang out with this person and the police WILL eventually find out it was him (it's not exactly the "perfect crime" seeing as how they got a video tape of it from about 2 feet away.) Will I get in any trouble for associating with him or will that not matter in this situation? We've been pulled over together and when they look us both up on their police computer they never let us know we shouldn't be hanging out. This makes me think that the only people that REALLY know are our probation officers and I should be getting off probation soon, and he doesn't have to know about it anyway, right?
Thanks for any advice.