stolemyheart87
Ex-Bluelighter
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- Sep 6, 2016
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Well out of all of the relationships I have been in, all have been long distance, average drive time being about 40-60 minutes, around 50-60 miles distance.
But NOW I am facing a new issue. This new guy and I have been talking and getting to know each other, and we live in the same state of California but we live 3 hours a part from one another. He's in Atascadero, California and I am living in Los Angeles, California, if you want to check the distances for yourself.
Been talking to a new guy for a few days, both of us are looking to date, wanting a relationship and see where it goes. We both share similar interests and have things in common. We talk everyday since we started talking. He lives at home with his family, and I live at home with my family.
Now he does drive, and he also works, as a supervisor at a Home Depot as a Freight Handler, working 10 hour days, graveyard shift, 8:30PM to 6:00AM, Monday through Friday. He has Saturday and Sunday OFF.
So he doesn't mind driving down here and seeing me. But when that will be, he says he has to see when he has time off to do so. Since he has the weekend's off, that would be a good time to drive down and spend the weekend with me and us hanging out and date one another.
But here's the thing, I went and asked him out, told him next weekend let's go to a drive in movie and see a movie, it's happening next Saturday October 1st starts at 7PM.
He replies with "I can't next weekend. I have to help my mom with the shed".
I then have also asked him let's talk on the phone or video chat, I already asked him twice, the first time I said "Hey I am ready now if you want to video chat." This was around 12PM since he works graveyard shift he fell asleep and didn't wake up til 3PM. He had replied back saying "I just woke up".
We never video chatted. So later around 5PM I asked him again if he wanted to video chat and he replied with "I'm going to the store but when I get back we can",
He returned home from the store and had said "I actually passed out when I got home".
I know what your thinking, if he has the weekend's off, why was he working Saturday night? He was working overtime so he went into work.
So when it comes down to this guy, what do you think, do you think this can really work out, or is it already dead in the water?
But NOW I am facing a new issue. This new guy and I have been talking and getting to know each other, and we live in the same state of California but we live 3 hours a part from one another. He's in Atascadero, California and I am living in Los Angeles, California, if you want to check the distances for yourself.
Been talking to a new guy for a few days, both of us are looking to date, wanting a relationship and see where it goes. We both share similar interests and have things in common. We talk everyday since we started talking. He lives at home with his family, and I live at home with my family.
Now he does drive, and he also works, as a supervisor at a Home Depot as a Freight Handler, working 10 hour days, graveyard shift, 8:30PM to 6:00AM, Monday through Friday. He has Saturday and Sunday OFF.
So he doesn't mind driving down here and seeing me. But when that will be, he says he has to see when he has time off to do so. Since he has the weekend's off, that would be a good time to drive down and spend the weekend with me and us hanging out and date one another.
But here's the thing, I went and asked him out, told him next weekend let's go to a drive in movie and see a movie, it's happening next Saturday October 1st starts at 7PM.
He replies with "I can't next weekend. I have to help my mom with the shed".
I then have also asked him let's talk on the phone or video chat, I already asked him twice, the first time I said "Hey I am ready now if you want to video chat." This was around 12PM since he works graveyard shift he fell asleep and didn't wake up til 3PM. He had replied back saying "I just woke up".
We never video chatted. So later around 5PM I asked him again if he wanted to video chat and he replied with "I'm going to the store but when I get back we can",
He returned home from the store and had said "I actually passed out when I got home".
I know what your thinking, if he has the weekend's off, why was he working Saturday night? He was working overtime so he went into work.
So when it comes down to this guy, what do you think, do you think this can really work out, or is it already dead in the water?