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Erectile dysfunction and drug use

Deborahv69

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My husband is an IV drug user. When he gets high he wants to have sex.however we have to use performance enhancing drugs. Even then sometimes he can't get an erection. He has cheated on me many times with men and women. He says he's planning on quitting soon. That day never seems to get here. He swears he will never cheat again but I don't believe that. I love him but I feel unattractive and unwanted by my husband. Help
 
Drugs please the brain directly unlike another human can possible ever compete with....people who cheat tend to not be jealous or pay much attention to the person they are with...he will not notice if you indulge in activities that make you feel attractive and wanted like flirting with people, dressing more sexy or just flat out masturbating
 
I agree it is not a problem but the problem is that the ongoing affairs and the rage he expresses. He's very cruel and abusive verbally to me. Blaming me for his problem. I do everything I can to help him with the problem but it doesn't work. He tells me that he doesn't have that problem with anyone else. He apologized and said he was just trying to hurt me by saying that. I'm thinking about just cutting my losses and leaving him. I feel unattractive and unwanted by my husband. I'm very unhappy and I think it would be best to cut ties with him.
 
My husband has a hard time "getting it up" and an even harder time cumming while using. It's natural, babe. Don't kick yourself or let it get you down.

But.. if your heart is telling you to leave .. LEAVE. Only you can decide what's best for you.. and it sounds like you already know. There are times you have to put yourself and your happiness first. You can only do so much for someone to make a relationship work. If you're just giving giving giving.. & getting nothing but heartache in return.. it's time to go. You deserve more.
 
.. and it sounds like you already know. There are times you have to put yourself and your happiness first. You can only do so much for someone to make a relationship work. If you're just giving giving giving.. & getting nothing but heartache in return.. it's time to go. You deserve more.
This is very good advice. We dont know the first thing about your relationship, how long u all have been together [although if ur unhappy this doesnt matter], or any of the fine details (hes cheated but what are some things youve done wrong?).

Good luck to you though, relationships arent all flowers and roses but there should definitely be more ups than downs.
The ED thing is normal and I wouldnt attribute it to him messing around, opiates in particular really do kill your libdo.
If you want to do a real test on him, get him in the mood and then offer to give him head. Spice it up a bit, there should be no reason (hes in the mood, location is right, etc) for him to decline. If it doesnt work the first time, try a different time/day. If he still declines I can bet you money there is something else going on there.
 
Thank you all very much for your help. But I do already know what I need to do.
 
17 years of use of finasteride, "Propecia" 1 mg for Alopecia, (male pattern hair loss), slowly, but surely destroyed my sex drive, from the
A to the Z. Just google up the many reports of impotence, and male sexual dysfunction, from all ages, mid 20's to 50's, and, or, the data
is now out, "many male user's, do not, rebound back to normal sexual desire, even after 3 years of non use. Lawsuit inferences are all
over the net, another source, www.pubmed.com.
It is a 100% effective drug in stopping increased male pattern baldness, and, to a lesser extinct, some new hair growth, I trusted my
surgeon MD, who performed two (2) hair transplants, 4 years apart, but, I feel (the past 10 years) I have paid a heavy price.
Even, two years of extensive use of expensive USA prescribed Viagra, 100mg tabs, and, its competitors, did not save me. I quit Finasteride
over 2 years ago, and, also gave up on ED meds. I never had any problems age 16 to around age 46. I had a unusually high sex drive, liibido.
 
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I agree it is not a problem but the problem is that the ongoing affairs and the rage he expresses. He's very cruel and abusive verbally to me. Blaming me for his problem. I do everything I can to help him with the problem but it doesn't work. He tells me that he doesn't have that problem with anyone else. He apologized and said he was just trying to hurt me by saying that. I'm thinking about just cutting my losses and leaving him. I feel unattractive and unwanted by my husband. I'm very unhappy and I think it would be best to cut ties with him.

get away from him. IV drugs, cheating... he'll come back with some serious STD or blood borne disease


leave for your own wellbeing.
 
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