So the guy I've been seeing lately (still assume we'll get together again at some point, at least just to make out) have always been very sexually compatible in the sense that we can't separate sex from emotions, unlike most, and both prefer the making-love kind of sexuality rather than the porn-style kind of thing (no idea how common this is but that's everyone's personal business and nothing to me).
He's Muslim with the usual accompanying views towards women's sexuality - strong Madonna/Whore complex. Women, or at least a wife or girlfriend-candidate, or someone to love who deserves to be taken seriously better be pretty damn pure (or as pure as you can get someone in the Western world). Either way, having had a limited number of sexual partners, only having sexual relations with guys you love, and not acting/dressing like a slut in general seems to go a long way. I think they kind of see this as the price for getting a Caucasian woman - don't care if this sounds racist, it's just the reality of it, no one said it was an ideal world.
But moving on to the point now, I also like dressing in more feminine/innocent/virginal type of clothes for myself...like white or pastel colours, lace, etc. that doesn't show too much but just enough. Always have done, it just feels more like me. Same thing applies to underwear. I hate black, but LOVE white, lacey, lingerie, or at least cream-coloured, or pick or blue, of all types - especially corsets, suspenders, stockings, etc. This is also pretty sweet for men, as even if you're a complete slut they enjopy the contrast - the M/W thing, and all that.
However, I'm not a "Whore" in any sense, I'm more like a "Madonna", if you need to use those terms, just trying to come to terms with my own sexuality (I know, I know, you can never be good enough for a man, so I don't even worry about that - all I can do is my best within what comes natural and feels comfortable to me).
But sometimes I enjoy dressing up in fancy costumes for him, you know, you can dress up like an agnel, devil, fairy, etc. all more or less make you out to be some kind of slut, but it's okay as it's just roleplay and for no one else ot see than the one who sees you naked, so it doesn't crush my self esteem or his regard for me. So up until now I've always picked the angel or fairy costumes as it resonates more and I find the colours prettier, etc. (Hate black anyway).
Anyway, if I get a chance another time I think I would like to try out a Cat costume. You know, furry black suit, with strapped on ears, and a little tail...maybe even a catmask covering the eyes. Thinking this should get him going, even if he's more into emotional sex (as am I) just for a change. I imagine I could take my time walking around on all fours, maybe lapping up some milk from a bowl, stretching out long and well in front of him...Then make him chase me around a bit, playing cat and mouse, until he can catch me...
So what do you think? Any reactions "Down there" that indicates this could be a hit? Sounds like it could be fun for me just for a change.
He's Muslim with the usual accompanying views towards women's sexuality - strong Madonna/Whore complex. Women, or at least a wife or girlfriend-candidate, or someone to love who deserves to be taken seriously better be pretty damn pure (or as pure as you can get someone in the Western world). Either way, having had a limited number of sexual partners, only having sexual relations with guys you love, and not acting/dressing like a slut in general seems to go a long way. I think they kind of see this as the price for getting a Caucasian woman - don't care if this sounds racist, it's just the reality of it, no one said it was an ideal world.
But moving on to the point now, I also like dressing in more feminine/innocent/virginal type of clothes for myself...like white or pastel colours, lace, etc. that doesn't show too much but just enough. Always have done, it just feels more like me. Same thing applies to underwear. I hate black, but LOVE white, lacey, lingerie, or at least cream-coloured, or pick or blue, of all types - especially corsets, suspenders, stockings, etc. This is also pretty sweet for men, as even if you're a complete slut they enjopy the contrast - the M/W thing, and all that.
However, I'm not a "Whore" in any sense, I'm more like a "Madonna", if you need to use those terms, just trying to come to terms with my own sexuality (I know, I know, you can never be good enough for a man, so I don't even worry about that - all I can do is my best within what comes natural and feels comfortable to me).
But sometimes I enjoy dressing up in fancy costumes for him, you know, you can dress up like an agnel, devil, fairy, etc. all more or less make you out to be some kind of slut, but it's okay as it's just roleplay and for no one else ot see than the one who sees you naked, so it doesn't crush my self esteem or his regard for me. So up until now I've always picked the angel or fairy costumes as it resonates more and I find the colours prettier, etc. (Hate black anyway).
Anyway, if I get a chance another time I think I would like to try out a Cat costume. You know, furry black suit, with strapped on ears, and a little tail...maybe even a catmask covering the eyes. Thinking this should get him going, even if he's more into emotional sex (as am I) just for a change. I imagine I could take my time walking around on all fours, maybe lapping up some milk from a bowl, stretching out long and well in front of him...Then make him chase me around a bit, playing cat and mouse, until he can catch me...
So what do you think? Any reactions "Down there" that indicates this could be a hit? Sounds like it could be fun for me just for a change.
