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Do you believe in karma for cheating exes, players, homewreckers, etc.

damn

that gets heavier and heavier

better to let almost everything go, no?
 
i believe that you draw things to you that are on your wavelength.

also if you act scared you will draw in predators
 
Well many people - and mainstream society in general - often have a sort of distorted and innaccurate definition of the word karma, often thinking it has some sort of mystical connotation. The word literally means action, referring to things you do, and each time you do something, something else happens as a result. In other words, you're the keeper of your own fate. The word karma is often erroneously spoke of as some unexplainable, supernatural, other-wordly force, often by New Age, pseudo-spiritual hipsters. It's neutral and applies to every decision you make. Your own actions determine how much negative or positive karma you accumulate. If you steal a pack of gum, things will happen that wouldn't have happened if you hadn't stole the gum: you may get caught, you may experience paranoia over the potential of getting caught, you may experience guilt over doing something unethical. It does not however, mean some supernatural, cosmic force is going to mysteriously cause an anvil to drop on your head the moment you walk out of the store.

In other words, there's a lot of silly New Age misconceptions where you see people talking about whether they "believe" in karma or not - again, as if they possess "faith" in some hidden, mystical force that's pulling strings behind the scenes - when there's nothing to "believe" in in the first place. Obviously it's impossible for somebody to fully anticipate what their own karmic retribution will be, but observing and being more mindful of yourself and the nature of reality in general will better cultivate the ability to sift through karmically wise or unwise decisions.

..me man.. said:
I would say this is one of the most ridiculous things people can believe in - BUT, I totally understand where the question comes from - we're ALL looking for answers. I went back and forth with the karma thing for a long time (an old die hard hippie) and I finally had to come to the conclusion that karma is just a nice term, wishful thinking as it were. I know people who've gained greatly at others expense (including mine) and only good things happen to them. And others, who I'd term as nearly saintly, who always seem to get the short end of the stick.

It's not a matter of them "getting what they deserve" in the end. revenge is a dish best unserved, it only makes you feel worse. What I mean is, there is no "in the end". life is what it is. What you and I make it. and some people don't make it very pleasant. But that's not you. You are you.
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If I punch you in the face, do you think you'll get pissed? That's what karma is. It doesn't mean I'm gonna be born again as a maggot in 1,239 future lives for breaking some almighty supernatural law of the universe. Accepting karma has nothing to do with faith, beliefs or "wishful thinking" as you put it.

malakaix said:
My own understanding of karma relates directly to your own awareness of your actions, how they effect others and the choice you make to take this into consideration or not.

If your aware of your actions and the effect they will have.. whether positive or negative yet ignore it, then your lying to yourself, and convincing yourself that what your doing is justified despite your own understanding of what your doing.
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This, tbh. Pretty simple...
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Karma is just the self inflicted outcome of a persons ongoing antisocial behaviour or unresolved guilt.
 
morpher001 said:
Karma is just the self inflicted outcome of a persons ongoing antisocial behaviour or unresolved guilt.
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Pretty much, just others others reacting to how you act to them in general and perhaps how you act, is at least part, influenced by how you feel about the way you've acted on people in the past. With the way you feel about it at, at least in part, influenced by the way they reacted. The "effect" on your life is concrete in the sense of how people react to you, is kind of important.

Person A helps person B out at the lab. Person B is happy and thanks them. Person A then goes out with his delicious S/O, and at first she's, a little grumpy and stressed, and being a bit curt. Person A is feeling good from earlier in the lab, cause he got a lot of work done, helped someone out, and had more fun doing it than he would of by just keeping to himself. So, he is chill with her and talks to her nicely and stuff, cracks a joke and they go out and go the hooka bar. She's now relaxed and being very fun. They then have fun talking with their engineer friend about how to make better sex toys. They all have a good time, and then they bounce. They go home, and have super hot sex. Then, person A goes back to the lab study. Person A has a bit of hard time with a piece of equipment.
person C then comes and helps him, because person C is a friend of person B and person B said person A was cool a cool guy and smart. Person B did not even tell him about the helping him the lab, he just said he was cool. Person A heads out, and usual, goes to see his delicious S/O, as usual...
 
I believe in karma but I also believe in attracting your own luck/ whatever you resist, persists
 
I definitely believe in Karma. Don't do unto others that you don't want to happen to you. I live by that rule. Many times I wonder for how long can the guilty ones around me get away with, with what they doing unto others. And many times I get frustrated and want to help karma to get to the finish line faster. But luckily that frustration pass before I do something. Then suddenly I see karma got them. But my joy never last very long coz my heart is so small then I feel awe full for my thoughts of wanting karma to give them some payback.
 
morpher001 said:
Karma is just the self inflicted outcome of a persons ongoing antisocial behaviour or unresolved guilt.
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that's my feeling too. there doesn't need to be any higher power doing accounting-based smiting - doing shitty things surrounds you with shitty energy, which precipitates shitty consequences. likewise, people will generally find out that you're a shitbag, so you're eventually surrounded only be people willing to hang around with a shitbag. these are not the best kind of people.
 
I believe 100% in karma. You will be treated the way you treat others. If not now, your time will eventually come. For some reason I wont have to wait long to be punished for my actions (bad) since young.

Treat others how you would like to be treated. ;)
 
I don't believe in karma whatsoever, but in a sort of related way I believe carrying regrets/bad memories/negativity can fuck up your life without you realizing it.

I dedicated my life to a girl for about 2 years, in many ways. The whole nine yards, she cheated, I forgave, she broke up with me a 2nd time, yadda yadda. And that was almost 2 years ago now, she hasn't said a word to me since, confirming her never ending soulless not-a-fuck-given attitude

And whenever I think about it I wish i could go back to one of those times I was staring into those desolate eye sockets listening to her say "I love you" and give her a nice porn-style cock slap to the face and dip out the door like that cartoon roadrunner
 
RedRum OG said:
I don't believe in karma whatsoever, but in a sort of related way I believe carrying regrets/bad memories/negativity can fuck up your life without you realizing it.

I dedicated my life to a girl for about 2 years, in many ways. The whole nine yards, she cheated, I forgave, she broke up with me a 2nd time, yadda yadda. And that was almost 2 years ago now, she hasn't said a word to me since, confirming her never ending soulless not-a-fuck-given attitude

And whenever I think about it I wish i could go back to one of those times I was staring into those desolate eye sockets listening to her say "I love you" and give her a nice porn-style cock slap to the face and dip out the door like that cartoon roadrunner
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i love this. but seriously move on
 
deldone said:
I believe 100% in karma. You will be treated the way you treat others. If not now, your time will eventually come. For some reason I wont have to wait long to be punished for my actions (bad) since young.

Treat others how you would like to be treated. ;)
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So what you're saying is...all those starving African children are total assholes.
 
MrGrunge said:
So what you're saying is...all those starving African children are total assholes.
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I cant seem to relate how my post has a connection to starving African children, or karma in their case?
Mind to show me what led you to think so?
 
I believe in energy and somehow finding that neutral mindset within. In other words become at peace with our past and focus on the present. Once a person stops holding grudges against others they'll eventually begin to forgive themselves.

"treat people the way you want to be treated"
^A very good example, simple, straight and to the point.

In my opinion we must keep in mind we shouldn't do good deeds for others with the intention of receiving a good action in return.

The change has got to start within ourselves first. Our mindsets.
 
Yes...I'm a true believer in karma for ANYONE that causes problems in other peoples relationships. It doesn't matter if they are a x or not..and that goes for cheaters too!
 
I don't believe in karma at all. I think people have differing morales and values. If you are with someone who eventually cheats and breaks your heart he or she could suffer the same fate by someone else later. But they might not care if it happens as they think things through differently.

My good mate was devastated when her hubby left out of the blue a few years ago. Turns out he found someone else who wanted kids when my mate could not have them due to ectpoic pregnancies. Then he and the new girl had a kid who died from trisomy 18.
My mate remarried and is very happy with a stepson.

Is this karma? No as she doesnt give a shit about her ex at all.
 
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