I have too much to type about my relationship with my mother but it is very troubled. Its basically a love/hate relationship. I can't stand being around her, she ruins my life but at the same time we talk 3 times a day on the phone. I'm currently on vacation with her and she has decided she wants to go home early because she thinks I'm ungrateful. She came to enjoy time with my two young boys but my 4 year old son has lost interest in her (thats the best way I can describe it however it is more complicated than that). She is the most impatient, naive, ignorant, annoying, unbearable person you have ever met (many people would agree with me). Anyone out there dealing with a family member that has a low IQ or is emotionally incompetent but doesn't know it?