A time honored trick:
Make a list of everything I am looking for in a partner. A real list. A thorough list. Not a: She has to be smart, attractive, and a freak in bed. A deeper, more well thought out list than that. Secure, Patient, Generous, Compassionate, Intelligent...blah blah blah. When I am done with the list I have a good road map of what I need to become to have a legitimate shot at forming a lasting relationship with the person I am looking for...
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A cliche to brighten your day:
Dating newcomers is like stealing cars. Exciting, mysterious, sometimes they go real fast...and sometimes you get one with no breaks...
Make a list of everything I am looking for in a partner. A real list. A thorough list. Not a: She has to be smart, attractive, and a freak in bed. A deeper, more well thought out list than that. Secure, Patient, Generous, Compassionate, Intelligent...blah blah blah. When I am done with the list I have a good road map of what I need to become to have a legitimate shot at forming a lasting relationship with the person I am looking for...
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A cliche to brighten your day:
Dating newcomers is like stealing cars. Exciting, mysterious, sometimes they go real fast...and sometimes you get one with no breaks...