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Contraceptive pills and love

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Birth Control Pills Affect Women's Taste in Men
How synthetic hormones change desire in women—and their choice in a mate
Nov 26, 2008 |By Melinda Wenner


This year 2.25 million Americans will get married—and a million will get divorced. Could birth control be to blame for some of these breakups? Recent research suggests that the contraceptive pill—which prevents women from ovulating by fooling their body into believing it is pregnant—could affect which types of men women desire. Going on or off the pill during a relationship, therefore, may tempt a woman away from her man.

It’s all about scent. Hidden in a man’s smell are clues about his major histocompatibility complex (MHC) genes, which play an important role in immune system surveillance. Studies suggest that females prefer the scent of males whose MHC genes differ from their own, a preference that has probably evolved because it helps offspring survive: couples with different MHC genes are less likely to be related to each other than couples with similar genes are, and their children are born with more varied MHC profiles and thus more robust immune systems.


A study published in August in the Proceedings of the Royal Society B, however, suggests that women on the pill undergo a shift in preference toward men who share similar MHC genes. The female subjects were more likely to rate these genetically similar men’s scents (via a T-shirt the men had worn for two nights) as pleasant and desirable after they went on the pill as compared with before. Although no one knows why the pill affects attraction, some scientists believe that pregnancy—or in this case, the hormonal changes that mimic pregnancy—draws women toward nurturing relatives.


Women who start or stop taking the pill, then, may be in for some relationship problems. A study published last year in Psychological Science found that women paired with MHC-similar men are less sexually satisfied and more likely to cheat on their partners than women paired with MHC-dissimilar men. So a woman on the pill, for example, might be more likely to start dating a MHC-similar man, but he could ultimately leave her less sexually satisfied. Then if she goes off the pill during the relationship, the accompanying hormonal changes will draw her even more strongly toward more MHC-dissimilar men. These immune genes may have a “powerful effect in terms of how well relationships are cemented,” says University of Liverpool psychologist Craig Roberts, co-author of the August paper.


http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/birth-control-pills-affect-womens-taste/

I'm convinced they may play a bigger part in relationship issues than is generally accepted. Based on both personal experience and people around me.

What do you all think?
 
I've heard about this, I could definitely see this being a legitimate issue for a lot of women. Hormones can really mess you up.
Another thing related to contraceptive pills causing relationship issues is how emotional they make you. I started BC pills after I had already been dating my SO for a while and holy moley they absolutely turned me into an emotional monster. I'm generally very good at being objective and controlling my emotions and recognizing when I'm being irrational but I cried all the time when I was on birth control and sometimes I accused my boyfriend of not being attentive enough or not caring enough when, looking back, that wasn't the case at all. Definitely convinced it was the birth control.
Currently hormone free, looking into IUDs as an option.
 
I've heard about this, I could definitely see this being a legitimate issue for a lot of women. Hormones can really mess you up.

Not just women. Hormones play a big part in attraction to other people, and attraction is a two-way relationship. If the woman's hormones suddenly change both partners might end up no longer being attracted to each other which will naturally cause traction in the relationship. And they might start seeking out people who they actually are attracted to.

Another thing related to contraceptive pills causing relationship issues is how emotional they make you. I started BC pills after I had already been dating my SO for a while and holy moley they absolutely turned me into an emotional monster. I'm generally very good at being objective and controlling my emotions and recognizing when I'm being irrational but I cried all the time when I was on birth control and sometimes I accused my boyfriend of not being attentive enough or not caring enough when, looking back, that wasn't the case at all. Definitely convinced it was the birth control.

This is really interesting and something I wasn't even aware of. Surely a recipe for disaster. The older I get the more convinced I am that a successful relationship needs both parties to have emotional maturity. Well life is a learning experience so... Maybe being around the same level so that they can grow together. And if the woman suddenly regresses in that regard, well, not a good thing.

Currently hormone free, looking into IUDs as an option.

They are probably a better alternative although aren't many of them hormone-based so maybe they will have similar effects.

I want a woman who wouldn't find it a catastrophe to have babies by me. :D But pregnancy and motherhood affect hormones too. Sometimes I feel like... life isn't easy and is full of compromises. Who would have thought.
 
I have issues with them because of this. I'm pretty sure both my ex and I lost certain attraction after she started on the pill.
 
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